When your relationship (marriages) don't work, why does the woman get told she picks the wrong guy? What do you say back to them?

[sage2021]

People act different in the beginning and it leads to love and marriage sometimes. But after a while, and once you let him put a ring on your finger, the guy seems to change. Some will believe their wife is their property and treat her as such. He changes and isn't the same man you fell in love with.
But people always seem to blame it on her because they believe she just picks the wrong guy. That is so not fair.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't know that I ever had that. Sally broke up with me claiming she was only using me to make another guys jealous. Nobody knew we were even together.
Carol broke up with me because she decided to go back to her previous boyfriend. Again, nobody knew we were together.
I broke up with Anu when I found out that little mini-bitch was cheating on me. My family and friends all loved her! Her family lived in India so, they never knew that we were together.

[Likes2drive]

They say the same for women being the wrong one, usually the guy doesn’t change but the woman tries to change him after marrying him so that’s one of the problems that happens during marriage

[Kelly6]

@sage2021

im just going to guess.

it might be because the guy always propose to women , and women decides.
so she said yes!!

[Anonymous]

You realize men get told the same thing. right?

[LazerBean]

Because it's usually true.