Is it sad and pathetic not to have a date for Valentines Day?

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Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

No, what's sad and pathetic is letting one day of the year effect your happiness, or what others think of you.

Hell most of us are single ALL year! Are you really going to let one day out of 365 (leap year), upset you? No.
You mope and complain all year like the rest of us 🤣

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

It is just another day. It is like people who whine about not celebrating Christmas. Get over it.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Nope, not at all. It’s pathetic to even care about having a date on Valentine’s.

I had two last year this time.

Doesn’t mean I was double happy, just means I was confused.

Now I am pretty content and choosing to be single and pretty happy with spending Valentine’s on my own.

NathanDavis · Answer

never really celebrated a Valentines with any of my ex-girlfriends...  it would be sad to feel sad about it though... but understandable

Apple1996 · Answer

Nope. There is nothing wrong with being your own valentine. If you are single take the day to love yourself 🥰

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Go volunteer at the animal shelter and meet someone with a big heart.

electromagnetic · Answer

Valentines Day is for making money!
imagine just getting outta Christmas holiday ($$$) to be slapped with Boxing Day ($$$) then Valentine’s Day ($$$) god forbid your anniversary is in January.
it’s not pathetic at all. Why should one day affect a person sooo greatly. If your single going into it, what’s to change for one particular day.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Well i used to feel like that from couple of years ago, but now it ain't a big deal, i surely wish if i had someone for Valentine's day, actually not only for valentines but someone who is present daily for life 🙂

Since i have no one, it will be just another regular day, won't matter a lot to me, i enjoy seeing my son and his girlfriend spending a beautiful valentine together 😄

I had my days having great valentines but sadly they didn't last forever the way it should!

Kylie_Bug · Answer

Nah, sometimes you just aren’t in a relationship during V-Day.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

No, I often don’t have a date on Valentine’s Day and I usually just view it as another day. Most people I know don’t make a big deal about it anyway.

SherwoodGladiator · Answer

Well, you're certainly gonna be on the site that day, as always. Do you ever take a break and get out for some fresh air? I think that's the saddest and most pathetic thing of all.

Shark_61695 · Answer

I am sad and pathetic but not just because I won't have a date for Valentine's day🤠.

If you need a massive commercial event to express your feelings then you have different things to worry about 🫤

RebelinSteel · Answer

Nope, it’s a free world and not having a date for St Valentines is fine and dandy,

thatshydork · Answer

Nah, I make a day of it usually. I usually invite some of my closest single female friends and we have a “galentines” day instead.

naartjie · Answer

Just because a person has a valentine and buys a gift for someone doesn’t mean they’re happy.

Drew-1990 · Answer

By that logic I've been pathetic for years.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Yes total L  but dating is a train wreck nowadays because so many people on both ends have unrealistic expectations  people don’t know how to keep a good thing when they have it

butterly248 · Answer

No ofc not lol. Going into my 6th year with my boyfriend and it's safe to say that after our 2nd year together, it was a waste of time lol

laly520 · Answer

not at all n I will keep on saying that valentines day is a commercial day

Anonymous · Answer

When you’re single all year round, Valentine’s is just another day. So go enjoy the half price chocolate on February 15.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

No cause I’ve been single for Valentine’s Day every year

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It's more sad and pathetic not to have someone, period. Forget the day of the year; that part is irrelevant lol.

SolitarySolace · Answer

No. I haven’t had a date for Valentine’s Day for 9 years now

Anonymous · Answer

Just an arbitrary day on the calendar that means nothing.

82lynx · Answer

I keep forgetting that it’s coming.

bobalife · Answer

Self-love day 😌

ItsMariusz · Answer

Never had one and I'm perfectly happy

Booklover_90 · Answer

Nope. It’s just another day for me.

Unit1 · Answer

Pah!

Wiredone · Answer

Some people choose to be alone.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, its not a big deal.

JayBones · Answer

Only if you are married

msc545 · Answer

Could not possbly care less!

Simslover92 · Answer

Nope not at all.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

you can have sex anyday

Slim57 · Answer

Not at all

Miah04 · Answer

Naw.

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