Is it sad and pathetic not to have a date for Valentines Day?

[coachTanthony]

Yes big L

Nah no biggie

[Cynicaldreamer]

No, what's sad and pathetic is letting one day of the year effect your happiness, or what others think of you.

Hell most of us are single ALL year! Are you really going to let one day out of 365 (leap year), upset you? No.
You mope and complain all year like the rest of us 🤣

[coachTanthony]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Jamie05rhs]

366.

[Nikki1989]

It is just another day. It is like people who whine about not celebrating Christmas. Get over it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope, not at all. It’s pathetic to even care about having a date on Valentine’s.

I had two last year this time.

Doesn’t mean I was double happy, just means I was confused.

Now I am pretty content and choosing to be single and pretty happy with spending Valentine’s on my own.

[NathanDavis]

never really celebrated a Valentines with any of my ex-girlfriends...

it would be sad to feel sad about it though... but understandable

[Apple1996]

Nope. There is nothing wrong with being your own valentine. If you are single take the day to love yourself 🥰

[TonyMetal___86]

Or eating red fresh apples from miss apple's natural nutrition shop 🤣🤣

[BoopBoopBeep]

Go volunteer at the animal shelter and meet someone with a big heart.

[electromagnetic]

Valentines Day is for making money!
imagine just getting outta Christmas holiday ($$$) to be slapped with Boxing Day ($$$) then Valentine’s Day ($$$) god forbid your anniversary is in January.
it’s not pathetic at all. Why should one day affect a person sooo greatly. If your single going into it, what’s to change for one particular day.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well i used to feel like that from couple of years ago, but now it ain't a big deal, i surely wish if i had someone for Valentine's day, actually not only for valentines but someone who is present daily for life 🙂

Since i have no one, it will be just another regular day, won't matter a lot to me, i enjoy seeing my son and his girlfriend spending a beautiful valentine together 😄

I had my days having great valentines but sadly they didn't last forever the way it should!

[whirled_up_girl]

No, I often don’t have a date on Valentine’s Day and I usually just view it as another day. Most people I know don’t make a big deal about it anyway.

[Shark_61695]

I am sad and pathetic but not just because I won't have a date for Valentine's day🤠.

If you need a massive commercial event to express your feelings then you have different things to worry about 🫤

[RebelinSteel]

Nope, it’s a free world and not having a date for St Valentines is fine and dandy,

[thatshydork]

Nah, I make a day of it usually. I usually invite some of my closest single female friends and we have a “galentines” day instead.

[Kylie_Bug]

Nah, sometimes you just aren’t in a relationship during V-Day.

[SherwoodGladiator]

Well, you're certainly gonna be on the site that day, as always. Do you ever take a break and get out for some fresh air? I think that's the saddest and most pathetic thing of all.

[naartjie]

Just because a person has a valentine and buys a gift for someone doesn’t mean they’re happy.

[Drew-1990]

By that logic I've been pathetic for years.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Yes total L

but dating is a train wreck nowadays because so many people on both ends have unrealistic expectations

people don’t know how to keep a good thing when they have it

[LaurenM1997]

No cause I’ve been single for Valentine’s Day every year

[LaurenM1997]

I’ve never had a valentine

[butterly248]

No ofc not lol. Going into my 6th year with my boyfriend and it's safe to say that after our 2nd year together, it was a waste of time lol

[laly520]

not at all n I will keep on saying that valentines day is a commercial day

[Anonymous]

When you’re single all year round, Valentine’s is just another day. So go enjoy the half price chocolate on February 15.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's more sad and pathetic not to have someone, period. Forget the day of the year; that part is irrelevant lol.