Hypothetically speaking if you both are compatible and there's a spark, but they're abstaining till marriage...
- not worth the timeVote A
- I'd waitVote B
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If you're going to be in a relationship and saving yourself or waiting for someone, it would take incredible discipline and patience. A lot of people don't want to bother with that difficulty when it's so much easier to go out and, well, get laid. However, I have two friends that were successful in this battle. One is 29 and she is still a virgin, and another waited until she was married when she was 24 as a spiritual discipline. The married one had a very kind and loving husband that was willing to wait, and their relationship is now healthy and oh so sweet, with the 4th kid on the way. I guess you could say they made up for lost time.2