I am freaking out right now because I've known this guy for two weeks and I like him a lot but I know it's not love for me. He just told me that he "just might be in love" with me. I freaked out but just said I think I might be falling in love with you and goodnight. Do I run or? I know he doesn't actually love me because he barely knows anything about me. I know a lot about him and he has issues with his family and I comfort him so I figure that's why he may feel the way he does. We've never had any physical contact so that reason is out. We actually dont even live in the same state (Met him online after I moved). Thoughts please? I really like him and could see a possible relationship after we've known each other longer but shoud I run now since he could be overly attached? He literally claiimed that he didn't believe in love when we first met but he admitted to liking me after a couple days. He seems very emotional so I don't want to just cut him off so should I just continue to just take things at my pace while he takes his for a few months and then possibly enter a relationship or avoid him all togethr? He's 18. I'll be 16 in two weeks. If you said run, give me an idea of how to ease out of it without hurting him or myself. // UPDATE: I couldn't post this yesterday because I reached my question limit, but I just found out that he has clinical depression. *sighs* I have no problem making people happy because I plan on becoming a psychiatrist one day but I feel so much weight on my shoulders now even though I physically can't do anything now. If you're just going to joke about it then piss off please.
- Just be calm and wait things out to see what happens37% (7)45% (5)40% (12)Vote
- RUN, RUN FAST!26% (5)36% (4)30% (9)Vote
- Just be friends (I''ll need an explain)5% (1)0% (0)3% (1)Vote
- Date him16% (3)0% (0)10% (3)Vote
- Say it back to comfort him despite my feelings0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
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I'm not mad or regretful. I just didn't want you to feel like you had to say it or regret it and feel bad for saying it on impulse. I also just didn't want you to feel like I didn't like you because I didn't really say it back if you did mean it.
If you dont feel comfortable answering then that's fine too."
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Calm down. Don't freak out.
You like him? Continue to date him. But don't say it back to him if it's not true. Don't lie. Just be honest with him.
You can discuss with him why he feels that way since you two barely know each other. There have been people who have met each other for a day... and been married for YEARS.
He could be one of these people. Just slow down and take it easy, one step at a time. I would also be cautious about being sexually active with him until after the 3rd month that you two are exclusive. That way, you know that he's into YOU and not just saying it for the sex.