Would you date a girl/guy with one arm?

Say everyone is rated out of 10 for league. This potential partner would be 2 points more than you if they were not missing an arm.

But they are, would you date them?

Also, what are some other big flaws that perhaps you could put up with for loving your gf/bf? What are some flaws that you would NOT put up with?

Updates:
awesome ^^ I would also totally date her by the way. It's really nice to see how people are willing to put up with that sort of thing ^^

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  • Yeah, nothing wrong with that. Plus I could tell her she did really well, she got me off single handedly.

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What Girls Said 14

  • I would date a man without arms or legs but I would have issues with paraplegic. A must would be a man slightly smarter than me but not so smart he feels he is talking to an idiot and emotionally strong... A person who is brave and who can be relied on. I don't like fussy controlling guys who constantly nag and criticize me and try to make me feel bad about myself.

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  • I could handle only one arm, but I don't think I'd be able to look at the piece that's left of the missing one, stuff like that freaks me out. I could pretty much put up with anything unless they were disgustingly unhealthy, unhygienic, a douchebag, egotistical, conceited, annoying, or really uneducated. Now that I think about it, I'm pretty picky haha.

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  • I don't see why not. And I wouldn't consider missing an arm a flaw, even if you were born that way. It's just a unique physical trait.

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  • Firstly, that "league" theory is ridiculous.

    Second, I wouldn't care if he was missing an arm, a leg, ear or whatever. If I really liked him and we had chemistry, I wouldn't have to "put up with" his "flaw" because I wouldn't see it like that. It would just be apart of him, and I'd think of it as a quirk.

    Other "flaws" I'd put up with? The only things I wouldn't put up with are intolerance, disrespect, lying and regular stupidity.

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  • yes,i would,it doesn't make them any less of a person,in fact-it would make them a very mentally strong individual for embracing it,i can put up with pretty much any physical ''flaw'',it's the personality ones that turn me off

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  • Yes, I'd date him.

    Missing TWO arms might be an issue, though, but it depends on how independent he is. I wouldn't want to date a guy I'd have to constantly assist... I know that sounds mean, but I'm sure there are girls out there who wouldn't mind, so he should be with one of them instead of me :P

    Technology is getting pretty kickass when it comes to prosthetic arms and legs, though.

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  • As a chick with one arm this question is messed up and most of you should feel like sh*t for even contemplating this. A relationship-long term-is meant to be about communication, trust, acceptance and understanding. NONE of those are physical traits.

    When you're eighty years old and your skin looks like leather and your eyesight is poor and if you're REALLY unlucky--sitting in an adult diaper, one arm seems just a bit minute, don't you think?

    Maybe if you all are lucky enough you'll be half as awesome as Betty White and then that sh*t won't matter. If not maybe you can be half as awesome as me...maybe you can make a room laugh, type 90 wpm, be a first place horseback rider and a beautiful ballerina.

    Oh...I'm sorry...I forgot for a second how people with two arms are so much more elite.

    Have a good day! I know I will :-)

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    • but virtually everyone here would not have a problem with that at all, as you can see.

  • sure if they are nice and hot

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  • Yeah :) if they treat me well, and have a great personality I would see no reason not to date someone with just one arm.

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  • Yes.

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  • Yes, I would.

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  • Iike to hang out

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  • i'd like to say yes, but I've never been in that situation.

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  • Onetime I met the guy that 27 Hours was based on. He was really hot, and seemed like a really awesome guy. If he was closer to my age and wasn't married with a kid, I would absolutely want to date him. So I suppose my answer would be yes, I would date a guy if he was missing an arm, so long as he still had a good personality and attitude towards life.

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    • *127 Hours

    • idk what girl wouldn't date that guy, he's f***in badass haha.

What Guys Said 4

  • Only if it was Bethany Hamilton

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  • i don't see why not.

    i'd make her feel like a princes.

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    • and I'd really admire that she can keep going through life with only one arm and still be happy.

  • Everyone's being nice and saying they would, but I question how many actually would.

    If I was already with a girl and she lost an arm, I definitely wouldn't break up with her because of it. But I have a hard time truthfully saying that'd I'd ask a one armed girl out.

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  • We're talking about a 12 out of 10 who's missing an arm? Count me in.

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