It's better safe than sorry. I think he heard the story and it spooked him a little bit. Swallow your pride, he wasn't trying to insult you just be safe, go ahead and take the test. The aids virus can stay dormant for up to 7 years I believe so just because you feel fine now and have been together 4 years doesn't mean it's a 100% sure thing. If anything get the test for your own piece of mind, but on the same note he should take the test also.
Don't take little things like that personal since he explained why he said it. I could definitely see it being insulting if he just said take the test and didn't say why, but he told you it was about a few incidents in your past and he recently heard a story that spooked him, no big deal.
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Well don't feel offended. His protecting his health and yours. He should take the test as well. He may feel worried since you sleep with several guys before him and as you said it wasn't to safe. HIV carriers can have it for up to 10 years and don't have any symptoms or develop to aids. So yeah his request isn't crazy.
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