All Questions

If he likes you, you'll know...Is this true? Guys?

"if he likes you, you'll KNOW it... and if he doesn't, you'll be left wondering all the time if he does. So, if you're unclear about how he feels, ask him directly. If you don't get a direct and clear response... that is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

I only am comfortable around guys when I'm drunk

Anyone else this way? I've been hurt a lot because of guys who I'm in relationships with abuse me, treat me bad, or just use me for sex then leave. I was also raped. Same with guys who I hook up with. It's gotten to the...

love_life1987

Xper 6 Age: 38

Why do I make more enemies than friends ?

I am shy and I don't talk much ... If someone talks to me - I respond really well and I am very polite too lol. So , I tend to make friends in the beginning but later they turn my enemies lol .. I am shy so I hardly text...

Anonymous

(30-35)

People stare at me. Why do I attract perverts?

My life is so hard. Everywhere I go, I attract perverts and it's starting to creep me out. Many times, I'm been either stalked or talked to. I also notice that everywhere people would just stare at me, I'm not ugly or...

notsureaboutlove

Xper 5 Age: 30

Girls, what is your ideal height difference?

Girls , what is your ideal height difference ? (guy taller than girl) can 6 inch height difference be good ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Guys asking for pics before meeting

I get why guys want pictures, kind of. But what about when they ask for pictures before you've even met? Is it to show off to their friends nd be like 'look who I've got a date w/' or what? Cuz I read an excerpt from...

dragonxlli

Xper 5 Age: 33

When does playing hard to get seem like rejection?

so I'll start by saying that girls almost never check me out and flirt cus I'm broo average I don't stick out. so I was a the gym and my gym has differen sections like arms legs cardio chest and today I was doing a whole...

honestdude10

Xper 5 Age: 30

Dating

Who do you think should pay for a date?

I stand by my belief that this is 2011, and that things should be equal. This means, equal sacrifices included, but I am asking to know what everyone else thinks. 1. Who do you think should pay on a first date? If the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when they say "You are good people" to YOU. It sounds absurd English.

It looks like this is a new term that has come up. What does it mean? Why do they address a single person as "people"?

AshBrown

Yoda Age: 58

Fashion & Beauty

Ladies, your thoughts on male body hair overall

Facial hair, back hair, chest hair, stomach hair, leg hair, ass hair. And hair anywhere on the body besides on top of the head that you can think of! Is it good, is it bad? Please please be brutally honest, and do not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Which legs do you prefer?

skinny legs: link muscular legs: link link and why is that your preference?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do some girls flirt by being "mean"?

I have this coworker. She is younger than me (im 28, she is 20). Although at first she was nice, now she has turned very sarcastic and mean (in a playful way). there's nothing wrong with that, in fact I enjoy getting...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My co-worker sent me nude pic on accident.

A guy I work with sent me a nude pic of him on accident, he meant to send me a picture of a bear (long story). I replied that's a very different looking bear. Then he freaked out and said he sent the wrong pic and was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Wrong to be upset about another girl texting my boyfriend good morning?

Recently my boyfriend stayed over at my house after not seeing each other for a week and a half (busy schedules - another problem). In the morning having been up about a half hour still in bed, he was checking his phone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my crush mean to me?

I've had a crush on this guy for a few weeks now. He's 5 years older than I am, and he doesn't have a girlfriend. He hasn't had one in 3 or so years, might I add... We started out our relationship by playfully joking,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If your crush/ love of your life is getting married to someone else, what would you do?

What would you do if that was happening. If you want more of a story behind it then fine. Say your crush/ an Ex you still love was getting married in two weeks to another person who seems like a straight shooter/ good...

Phoenix1991

Guru Age: 35

Can young people teach older people?

Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? "There is nothing that young people can teach older people." If you disagree, what do you think young people can teach older people?

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Should I ask her if she still likes me?

i was hooking up with this girl for like a month, I'm 18 she's 16. she once texted me asking if I love her, and if I'm obsessed with her. so I told her I do have some feelings for her and that seemed to really excite her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a girl gives you like a shy/slight smile?

I have this feeling this girl at my job either has a crush on me or at least finds me attractive. We were talking and she was explaining something mundane, so I looked in her eyes and gave her like a slight smile, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend eats like a pig

I love cooking for him and appearently he likes eating too. But when he eats it's often quite disgusting. He stuffs everything in his mouth as if we were in a rush and then half of it falls out. He has gravy all over his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend wants to take a trip with his female friend!

My boyfriend had the NERVE to TELL me that he might be going to the Bahamas next month. We have been dating for 2 1/2 years but we recently became exclusive 3 mnths ago. I went on vacation with my male friend in July, but...

daintyshyne

Xper 5 Age: 40

My boyfriend doesn't initiate things anymore?

We've been together over a year and a half. The past few weeks, he hasn't been initiating anything (romance, dates, play arguments, intimacy). What's up? Is he bored, too comfortable... what?! I don't know what to make...

Shrinking-Violet

Xper 4 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Why does he tell me to not be a stranger when he is the one who does not call, or make any attempts to see me?

This guy approaches me, comes to see me, texts me often, then slowly stops. In the mean time, I am still going to see him. Eventually I wrote him a note saying that I have noticed he has become more distant and that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When you ask a girl out for a date, do you actually have to say the word "date" on the question?

This is something that really confuses me, because girls don't know if this is just casual or an actual date if I just say "do you want to go and have lunch this Thursday?" They may think this is just like hanging out,...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Why would some girls stare in the eye and say nothing?

Why would some girls stare and not talk (nor smile) to me ? I am mostly quiet/shy sort of person, so why would some girls stare at me ? I look at them back ... still they don't talk and smile ... I mean , why to look...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are there women that prefer dominant but quiet men?

I mean guys without many friends that still confidently pursue their interests and have a successful life and good attitude? I'm.trying to convince my friend he needs to open up, start drinking, smile more and hit on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend adds random girls on Facebook?

he adds random girls on FB all the time. randoms and strangers. I've asked him why many times now and he says "im just bored and I just talk to them. only chit chat no flirting or anything" or sometime he says "i add...

H0000

Xper 6 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

Guys! Would you ever purposely lead a girl on?

Would you ever lead a friend or girl you know on? Would you do it on purpose? If so, what would be your reasons?

maryj420

Xper 5 Age: 38