All Questions

Why do I constantly need male attention? How do I fix this?

Background: Always picked on growing up - called ugly, fat, stupid, etc. Very bad/abusive relationship with my Dad Ended up becoming very overweight Boys never liked me Now: I ended up completely transforming...I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Can you become a police officer if you've been home schooled?

so, I've finally decided what I'd like for my future career. I'd like to be a police officer. due to my social anxiety disorder, and that fact that I dislike other high school students, I'm hoping that my mom will allow...

chriistellkelly

Xper 3 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Why Does My Ex Copy Me?

He copies quite a few things: -my style of photographs -photos of similar faces I make -apps I download -same use of apps (i.e. I stop using then he stops, or if I start he starts) -my hair color -phrases in his...

apriloneil

Xper 4 Age: 41

What's the difference between "I love you so much" and "I love you very much"?

Is there any difference? When do you use "I love you so much", and when do you use "I love you very much" in a committed kind of relationship?

angel1142

Xper 7 Age: 40

Other

Gray hairs are sexy on a man?

my guy is in his early 30s and he has dark brown hair, but he has a few silver hairs near his sideburns and in his stubble. so he could probably pass for his mid 30s because of it. but I think it is so sexy. do any...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: How much is too much muscle on a guy?

In terms of turning you on. A lot of girls say they like some muscle but not too much, what does that mean exactly?

tmc1324

Xper 5 Age: 32

[GUYS] Do you find girls with wide hips attractive?

What do you guys think of females with wide hips? Be completely honest.

PureandSimple1992

Xper 5 Age: 33

What does it mean when a guy tells you 'Maybe in the future...'?

Okay well, me and my boyfriend has been going out for almost 8 months and just yesterday he breaks up with me telling me just 'maybe in the future...' and then continues lets just be friends and he asks if he can...

heyhihello0101

Xper 5 Age: 33

Found used condom, proof of cheating?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for quite a few months now, and we do not use condoms because I am on birth control which I know I still should use them. So the other day we had taken a shower together like we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

If he texts you right after he wakes up; good?

We're dating for a few weeks now and after our third date he started talking to me almost every day, after our fourth, every day. After a few more dates, he has been texting/calling me even more. The past few days he has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are thick glasses a turn off?

I'm getting close to having my first overnight stay at my girlfriend's place. This is also going to mean that come bedtime, she's going to be seeing me in my glasses for the first time once my contacts are out for the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like being playfully mean to guys?

There's this girl who is always being mean and sarcastic to me and yet, when I suggest that maybe I should leave her alone, she tells me I'm being dramatic, which means she doesn't really dislike me. I can take her jabs...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Do guys who let their pride get in the way of something they really want regret it?

My ex really wanted me back when I broke up with him. However in the end he let his pride get in the way of him getting me back. Will he regret letting his pride get in the way?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How come my body is growing out of proportion?

I do total body workouts in the gym (circuit training) 3 days a week (timed sets) and I go for long walks almost everyday. This is really my only exercise I do. I've since added a little bit of muscle everywhere, but my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys care if a girl has self harm scars or stretch marks?

I have both and was wondering what guys think of it. and no the stretch marks aren't because of pregnancy, I've never had a kid.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys compare their new girlfriend to their ex?

If you loved another woman and dated her for a few years, things didn't work out. You have now moved on and have committed to a new woman (you have had a rebound or two between the ex and the new girlfriend), do you...

rudy37lee

Yoda Age: 41

Do you find blue/green eyes to be more attractive than brown eyes ?

It can sound like a stupid question but it seems like it's an established fact that clear eyes (blue,green, grey) are more beautiful than brown eyes. Brown eyes are average, while blue/green ayes are outstandingly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does anyone know why crab cakes are so expensive?

At a restaurant a tiny crab cake no more than 2 inches across can be around $10. But you can get a pound of crab legs for like $15 and there's like at least 3x the meat. It just never made sense to me. Can you tell I...

lolli

Xper 4 Age: 46

Why do women play with their bra straps in public?

I thought that the rest room is the proper place to readjust their bra straps. I find this very tacky.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why do most black girls have attitude problems?

For example, today was my first day back and work and this black girl was just standing in the way and I was trying to get the bread out of the drawer and I said, "Excuse me, I have to get this." And she's like, "I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

"Hot" vs. "beautiful" vs. "pretty" vs. "cute"

Guys, what is the difference between these four descriptions when you use them to refer to a girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl touches your face?

This girl who is my friend in my class in high school who has been showing me some signs...I think she is flirting with me. But I'm not entirely sure. Anyway though she was standing beside me the other day and touched my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My Boyfriend Compliments Himself All The Time.. What About Me?

I've been with my boyfriend now, for about two and a half ish years. Over the past 8 months, he's decided to start going to the gym 4-5x a week to bulk up. Well! He succeeded. And I'm SOOOOOOO so so proud of him! Here's...

sadface123

Xper 5 Age: 36

Does anyone know what the late Mexican singer Selena did for exercise?

I've never seen anyone in as great shape as she was in. I tried searching on the internet but I was getting anywhere, does anyone know?

_marj

Xper 5 Age: 31

Dating

Do girls like random phone calls?

Or should you give them a heads up at least? Like this girl gave me a her number a while ago, but we started talking again. Would it be weird if I just called her randomly? Should I tell her something like, "You know I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Surprisingly attractive people: do you know any?

im thinking of: will arnett (actually I love him, he is my fantasy husband lol) - link link ty burrell: link jason bateman: link link jon stewart: link steve carell: link sacha baron...

esmiksaaron

Xper 6 Age: 34

Flirting

He cut the date short, is it ok?

We went to a movie, had a good time (not our first date), he actually seemed less awkward than normal, held my hand, walked me to my door, gave me a kiss goodnight, etc. He's in a fraternity and I think he didn't want to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my heart hurt when I see a pic of him?

My ex broke up with my a while ago. I went through all the stages, the bargaining, the crying, the denial, the anger, and finally the acceptance. I realized what went wrong and how he had treated me wrong. I realized I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Girl doesn't respond to messages/texts for days, is this normal?

First, I met this girl and we hit it off pretty well. A lot of the same interests, similar personality, similar goals, share same sense of humor, etc.; overall, we have a lot of chemistry together. So, we've been...

Anonymous

(30-35)