All Questions

Why does he tell me to not be a stranger when he is the one who does not call, or make any attempts to see me?

This guy approaches me, comes to see me, texts me often, then slowly stops. In the mean time, I am still going to see him. Eventually I wrote him a note saying that I have noticed he has become more distant and that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When you ask a girl out for a date, do you actually have to say the word "date" on the question?

This is something that really confuses me, because girls don't know if this is just casual or an actual date if I just say "do you want to go and have lunch this Thursday?" They may think this is just like hanging out,...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Why would some girls stare in the eye and say nothing?

Why would some girls stare and not talk (nor smile) to me ? I am mostly quiet/shy sort of person, so why would some girls stare at me ? I look at them back ... still they don't talk and smile ... I mean , why to look...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are there women that prefer dominant but quiet men?

I mean guys without many friends that still confidently pursue their interests and have a successful life and good attitude? I'm.trying to convince my friend he needs to open up, start drinking, smile more and hit on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Boyfriend adds random girls on Facebook?

he adds random girls on FB all the time. randoms and strangers. I've asked him why many times now and he says "im just bored and I just talk to them. only chit chat no flirting or anything" or sometime he says "i add...

H0000

Xper 6 Age: 37

Guys! Would you ever purposely lead a girl on?

Would you ever lead a friend or girl you know on? Would you do it on purpose? If so, what would be your reasons?

maryj420

Xper 5 Age: 38

Will he treat his new girlfriend better than me?

I was with my first boyfriend for almost 6 years. He broke up with me due to long distance reasons we struggled with for 2 years. He did want me back but I turned him down out of fear and met someone new. I've been with...

hunnybunny81105

Xper 5 Age: 37

Dating

Why don't girls let guys know if they're not interested after the first date?

I've been having this experience in dating that has been happening a lot and it's getting very frustrating, and I'm sure there are others here (both sexes) who have experienced it to. You go out on a first date, maybe a...

BluMac81

Xper 5 Age: 44

Family & Friends

My boyfriend's friend is texting me, how do I handle this?

OK so my boyfriend and I are having a rough spot since he's working so much so he says it's OK if I date someone as long as it's not feeling and I don't get attached. Which is super easy but I'm not trying to find anyone...

BarbieLuvsKen

Xper 4 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

How to screw over my ex boyfriend?

He wants to do me. I wanna screw him over. What should I do? And don't tell me nothing, he cheated on me, lied to me, manipulated me etc etc and I really wanna tear him apart. We broke up a while ago. It pissed me off...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to attract a cocky guy that it sort of good looking?

-don't ask me why I find him attractive, there is just something about him lol

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How Many Dates Before Making It Official

This guy and I have been on four dates or so. He asks me to sit with him and his friends at lunch. He sits next to me during class. Goes out of his way to talk to me. We've made out before but I've made it very, very...

Kattrain

Xper 6 Age: 33

Why does my voice change depending on who I'm talking to?

I seriously sound twice as light voiced talking to my mom or dad but then everyone else unless it is a big ass dood my voice sounds deep and manly? My voice gets higher when I'm talking to people I'm afraid of and then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Asking a girl to come over and watch a movie?

Girls if guy ask you over for first pretty much date even though you've been chatting/texting for month is it weird to just ask them to come over? She came back and suggested coffee or breakfast etc etc

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl says we hardly know each other and hardly talk to each other?

girl says we hardly know each other and hardly talk to each other in a group setting but kept on pushing me for dinner. "what is your intention"? what does she mean? I really don't get it girls

Ocean002

Xper 5 Age: 45

Guys, do you hold the door open for girls?

Just to get a look at their @ss? I know it's kinda weird but one of my friends retweeted it this morning from TotalFratMove and I thought it was kinda funny but then I was wondering if it was true.

PHLove

Xper 6 Age: 37

Your Opinion(s) On Curly Hair?

1) Do you think curly hair is less professional than straight hair? Why or why not? I've heard this quite a bit and read an article on yahoo shine about it once 2) Why do you think curly hair is generally considered...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Relationships

Never had a boyfriend: what is wrong with me ?

I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship, never been asked out etc.. I have zero experience when it comes to guys. I've been hit on, flirted with and eventually noticed some guys being interested in me but still...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Clear, basic signs a guy likes you?

Are there any obvious, clear signs to tell that a guy likes you? From walking past each other, their reactions when they see you (mannerisms, body language, behavior ), or even through Facebook? Also, if the guy tends...

CherryChic26

Xper 5 Age: 31

What does it mean when a girl asks a lot of questions about you?

OK, so I met this girl at school today. I made a dumb comment (basically saying hey what's up in an awkward way). She laughed and then we started talking. She told me she was in the cafe waiting for a class. But then she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a guy says "maybe", does that mean "no"?

So there's this guy who always stares at me whenever I'm near. I started talking to him because I wanted to get to know this guy who's always looking at me. He's really nice but one of those quiet guys. Needless to say,...

lalaxbubblegum

Xper 5 Age: 32

Sleeping with my personal trainer...oops!

So for months, my PT and I were flirting with each other. We went out on some innocuous dates and kissed. For several months after, nothing happened. Then we hooked up (yes, had sex). This happened approximately 3...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What will I wear for getting a spray tan?

I'm getting a full body spray tan next week in a salon. ( Its a proper spray tan done by a spray technician) Iv never had it done before, so I'm wondering what to wear when its being done? Surely swim trunks would be too...

jommx

Xper 5 Age: 33

Other

What are the advantages and disadvantages of weed?

Question is above! I am not trying to convince you to smoke or convince you to not smoke. If you smoke - great If you Don't smoke then great.

brunettebelle

Yoda Age: 34

My friends are trying to hook me up with my crush?

I've liked this guy for about a year now. I'm fairly sure the feeling is not mutual. Despite that, my friends are asking him who he likes. I'm really nervous because I've never had a boyfriend (I'm 17) and this is the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I wait for him to get over his ex?

I met a guy not too long ago, and we really hit it off texting, and connected. When I first met him, he mentioned an ex that really hurt him. While we were texting, everything was super sweet and cute. Some messages were...

heartmedic

Xper 5 Age: 32

Health & Fitness

Do you mind sharing drinks with someone?

If someone offers you a sip of their drink or asks you for a sip of your drink do you let them? Does it make a difference if you are attracted to them or not?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Who do you think should pay if a girl asks a guy out?

I'm just curious for everyone's opinion. I stand by the opinion that if she asks the guy out, she should pay, or at least split, and no double standards - meaning she should only ask to split if she'd be willing to split...

ZerbuTuan

Xper 3 Age: 33

Clothing brands for a 19-20 year old college student?

I'm looking for some opinions on clothing brands.. PREFERABLY not Aeropostale, American Eagle, or Hollister... I want a more mature style but still fitting to my age. I feel like those brands are more for high school...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Tight or fitted shirts on guys?

Like if he's somewhat muscular do you think its too show offy or douchey?

Love2Ball

Yoda Age: 33

Girls: what do you think about adorkable guys?

In other words girls, what do you think about guys who are incredibly dorky, but in a very endearing way?

mlrock

Xper 6 Age: 35

What can I wear with a pair of dark grey cable knit tights?

I bought a pair of dark grey cable knit tights that look a lot like this link because they looked cozy and warm (they are). But now I can't make an outfit with them for the life of me. What kinds of pieces should I...

Red_Raconteur

Yoda Age: 36

Health & Fitness

If you heard that a girl weighed 230lbs, what would you think about her?

i am always so nervous about someone finding out my weight, I hate it but in my opinion I don't look like I weight that much, I mean I'm no stick but I'm not morbidly obese, a large majority of it is muscle Because I...

Anonymous

(30-35)