All Questions

Guys don't think they're good enough? Is this true?

Is it true that guys don't ask really pretty girls out because they feel like they'll be rejected or that they're not good enough?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Sleeping in the same bed - can it really be platonic?

There are a couple of friends in our group of friends that are rooming in a one-bedroom apartment right now (because of $$ issues and stuff). It's a guy and girl. I have crush on the guy, and we've flirted. BUT they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are soft hands a turn-on or turn-off?

Are soft hands a turn-on or turn-off? When me and my friends handshake they say I have soft hands, Is it a turn on or turn off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why don't people wear hats anymore?

Why is it a crime to wear a fedora these days? what happened to style and humanity? what looks classier than a "casual" tweed suit from the forties with a nice hat? seriously

SilentG

Xper 7 Age: 38

Holding hands on 4th date?

Ok , she has never had a boyfriend , it's our 4th date , she always gives a goodbye hug.I'm planning to hold her hand and I was pretty self confident.. but then I read on the internet that people say that a kiss comes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls; Fighting a guy... What would you do?

A question for girls please... If you were fighting a guy in an organised competition where the rules were that punches, kicks and knees counted anywhere (and no protective gear could be worn, i.e. helmets or cups etc)...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Why won't she say "I love you" back?

I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about a year. After the first 5 months we decided to move in together. We are both in our late twenties and this is her first time living with a boyfriend. Everything has...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Great second date but he didn't kiss me?

I went out with a guy for the second time the other day, we had so much fun, he even text me after I left saying he had a great time and was looking forward to the next one. But he didn't kiss me! He took me to this place...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does the word 'cute' mean to you?

To me I hate the word I know it is usually a compliment but I get called cute so often it makes me mad, when I think of cute in terms of people I think of short and fat. But cute used for anything else I think of it as...

thisislifebaby

Xper 5 Age: 31

I don't hear from him on the weekend. Would you put up with it?

I've been getting to know this guy online for about 3 months now. We chat every day, have been on webcam, etc. He indicates that he is interested in a serious relationship but it seems whenever the weekend rolls around...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

My boyfriend is obsessed with a celeb and I'm pissed! What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He has been obsessed with a celeb and its pissing me off already. he wants to change my hair color and style to look more like her. and sometimes he tells me that I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do good girls always lose?

From what I've seen the girls who sleep around always get the guy and good girls do get so much as a second glance? And on top of that good girls are expected to wait until the guy is ready to settle down? Please someone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

If my boyfriend thinks I'm ugly how can I become pretty?

My boyfriend told me I'm not pretty and said I was ugly.But he was being honest because I asked him if he thought I was pretty but he doesn't.So how can I become pretty?I'm not offended by him saying that.My friends who...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Monroe Piercing Slutty?

Ok so I have a Monroe piercing (stud in my upper lip) and I absolutely LOVE it but some people have been telling me it looks slutty or its a sign of the whore and what not. In my opinion its NOT slutty and that's all that...

Silly_Sunny

Xper 5 Age: 33

Family & Friends

Why does he want me to meet his new girlfriend?

I was kinda dealing with this guy over the summer.We fooled around and stuff and I fell for him really fast (which I never ever do for anyone). Anyways, when I got back to college, things kinda fell apart, he stop...

frikkin_frakkin

Xper 5 Age: 34

Do guys like virgins?

I personally like being a virgin, but sometimes my head gets messed up and I question whether guys like virgins at all these days. When I think about it though, if I was a guy I think I'd like to marry a girl who's a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys girls: do fatherless girls have problems with men?

Have any of you girls grown up without your dad/without even knowing him at all? What are some of the issues that fatherless girls have? Is it hard for them commit to a relationship? Are they scared of men? I have never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Muscular physique on a female--hot or not?

Is it attractive for a girl to have a muscular body? To what degree? Is the level of muscularity (if that's a word!) that is found attractive vary from body part to body part? (ex: a six pack vs really muscular and toned...

sweetcaroline11

Xper 3 Age: 32

Talked to a girl and then she moved her tongue out of her mouth to the side. What the heck?

^Is this a sign that she finds me "yuck" or something? I was at work and just said "hello" to this random girl to talk to in our break room as she was new at our work center. She then turns to me and then just throws her...

IndianaSPEED

Xper 5 Age: 37

What's your favorite feature on the opposite sex?

Guys&Girls answer pleasee :))

VivaLajordyn

Xper 5 Age: 34

If a guy stares/looks at you often does he like you?

The guy I like in class we don't really make a lot of eye contact but he does try to position his body towards me from where he's sitting and feet point at me I see him turning to face me but he's looking straight but his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls avoid eye contact when they're near cute guys?

This always seems to happen to me. From a distance they look at me but up close they act like they are looking past me or like they are ignoring me completely.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like guys with brown eyes?

What do you girls think of guys who have brown eyes with long eyelashes? I have both. I honestly wish I had lighter eyes though.

MovieManBuff

Xper 5 Age: 39

Girl is acting childish, what's up with that?

So I like this girl at my work I asked her to hangout like a month ago she said she was busy and that was it we still talk at work and stuff but today she was normal in the morning and later on that day it was just me and...

Timewilltell18

Xper 5 Age: 33

Me and my boyfriend talk less and less - is he losing interest?

i try every thing, I try to talk dirty, I tell him I miss him ,ask him questions but you don't want to feel like I'm up his ass all the time. he rarely calls me unless we have had a fight and he is trying to fix it. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Catching a girl looking at me - what does this mean?

OK, so there's this cute girl that I've noticed at school and she's usually sitting with her friends in the main break room during their breaks between classes. I don't have any classes with her but I notice she is there...

Technix

Xper 5 Age: 36

How does kissing come "naturally"?

I'm nervous about making out with this guy, buy everyone says that it just comes naturally..but how?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Going commando - trashy, sexy or comfortable?

Girls and guys out there - what are your opinions on girls and/or guys going without underwear?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I asked him to hangout, so now did I ruin my chances with him?

I have liked this guy for like a year. He seems pretty shy. He shows me that he likes me back, and I figure he is the kind to take things slow. Fine with me...but how slow? If we have been flirting, etc for SEVERAL...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

Your opinions on thinspo?

What are your opinions on thinspiration? Do you look at thinspo or watch thinspo? And if you have good thinspo sites post them!

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Texting girls between dates - how often should I?

How much texting should one do between dates? For example, after a first or second date, there will be seven days before the next date. I'll typically call once during this time, but text more often. I don't want to...

ap1100

Xper 6 Age: 41

Society & Politics

If he's the one who left me why is he angry that I've moved on, am happy, and are now getting married?

I was with my ex for 2 years. the first year and half was some of the happiest time of my life. but the last six months our whole lives just went to hell. he left me and went back to his ex-girlfriend. (who I eventually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why am I so paranoid about him breaking up with me when there is no indication that he will?

Okay, so I've officailly been dating this guy a month, and unofficially dating almost 2 months. I'm 20 and he is 23. He makes me really happy, we talk every day, he's amazing and really good to me. The past couple days,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Is she too small for me?

There is a girl I like and she seems to like me also. I went out with her a couple times. But there is a small problem, I am more than three times bigger than her. She is 4'7" tall and very skinny (around 66 lbs), I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

At what age did you get your first boyfriend/girlfriend?

I just wanted to know at what age you had your first boyfriend/girlfriend. All my friends had their first girlfriend when they were around 15 - 18 and I'm 21 and still not had my first girlfriend yet. Is this normal or is...

Anonymous

(36-45)