All Questions

What does it mean when a guy says "ciao bella"?

this cute guy that I like has said it to me quite a few times. do Italians use this phrase loosely or does he actually mean it?

vanna11

Xper 5 Age: 32

What does it mean when a guy pats a girl on the head?

I'm 5'6" so I don't consider myself that short, which is usually why I pat other friend's heads. But my guy friend likes to pat me on the head... It makes me wonder how he sees me though -- "silly/cute little sister" or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you get back at a guy who stood you up?

I got stood up by a guy Monday. I have to see him on Friday. I have no way out of it. What is the best way to get back at him for standing me up?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to Get a Girl's Attention

I'm not ugly, most people say I'm cute or handsome, I'm not fat I'm athletically toned, I dress well and I'm not shy I'm actually outgoing yet I never get ANY attention from girls, what gives ? :/

Anonymous

(36-45)

My crush is teasing me about setting me up with his friend...?

My friends and I suspect that my crush likes me back. For the past two weekends we were at the same party and he was always playful only around me, he likes to pat my head a lot, and he's asked me to go to a concert with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend in jail who won't talk to me, write to me, or basically let me see him.

OK, so the update for this crazy story with the boyfriend in jail who won't talk to me, write to me, or basically let me see him.(because he thinks I lied about things). His bunky in jail who is a mutual friend of ours,...

missmarciano

Xper 4 Age: 39

Why do so many people feel the need to judge/bash others for any reason?

Why do so many people feel the need to judge/bash others for any reason? Why can't people learn to mind their own business and worry about their own pathetic lives?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Does the content of a drunk text make any difference to its meaning? Help settle an argument.

A guy friend told me that there are different types of drunk texts, I disagree. He said that drunk texts don't necessarily mean booty call, yet again I disagree. I think when a guy decides to drunk text a girl its not...

cazza3

Yoda Age: 44

Will my boyfriend get tired of my "Blonde Moments"?

OK: I'm a smart girl, I'm at University and I'm pretty good at what I do (Graphic Design.) But aside from that, I can have a lot of blond moments. I know guys can think the occasional blond moment is cute but I personally...

LowDowngirl19

Xper 5 Age: 38

Why Do Women Lead Men On?

Now before you judge it by the title, think about it. Almost every guy here has been lead on either by purpose or on accident. I want to focus on this accident part. I can think of so many different experiences from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the point of fraternities and sororities? They seem dumb to me.

Why should I pay for friends

doctorwhofan23

Guru Age: 36

Guys, when you compliment another girl AND you have a girlfriend, what are your intentions?

If you have a girlfriend, and tell a friend she is cute/hot/sexy/pretty/whatever, what do you usually mean by this? are you usually interested? does it mean you want that girl more? kind of insecure right now =(

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why do most hot girls smoke?

Like I see a girl that's really sexy and beautiful, and she takes out a cigarette and the attraction goes away instantly... why do girls do it ?...do they WANT to age faster ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My FWB broke it off, how do I make him regret it?

Basically we hooked up twice and then I asked him if he wanted to make it a set hook up thing and he blew me off. Obviously even that small commitment scared him off. I'm not Facebook friends with him and I don't want to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Haven't heard from him (no text)

So, I've been seeing someone for about four months now. I wouldn't say we were boyfriend/girlfriend type of deal, but genuinely enjoying each others company. We're "dating". He's been absolutely swamped at work, but we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend can't forget my past!!!!!!!

Me and my boyfriend have been together for m=nearly two years now and he still has a problem with my past, Sometimes I wounder if he will ever get over? Yea I admit that there were some stupid things iv done but iv...

Kim449

Xper 5 Age: 36

My girlfriend broke up with me but wants to be friends now. Please Help!

I had been dating this girl for a little over a year and for a long time everything was great. We were each others best friend and did almost everything together. We both even expressed our feelings that we wanted to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend found out I cheated. He tells me he can never forgive me.

Should I leave him alone or should I try and show him that I'm sorry? He lives out of state and we have been apart for almost a year. When he found out, he told me he has been saving to buy me a ring. I don't know what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Can you be too ugly for love?

I'm starting to wonder about it myself. I have been rejected by every girl I've asked out, and some have even said I'm just not attractive enough for them. I know I don't need those kind of girls but it's starting to wear...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I call him or is it better to leave it alone? Advice please!

I am still on friendly terms with my ex. We occasionally talk and catch up on things. I recently found out that I'm going to be moving and then going away to Asia. I wrote him an email, basically just saying hi and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys like it or get turned on when you cook for them?

It seems like every guy that I've 'talked' to wants me to bring them some food when ever I'm at home eating! And they continue to try to get me to bring them some food! [lol] I just wanna know if its a turn on, or if it...

MrzSushiiBunnii

Xper 5 Age: 34

Relationships

When a girl is afraid of a relationship, what can I say to convince her to just try?

She's afraid of something, maybe a past relationship scarred her or she just has a hard time believing in love, how do I convince her that it's worth giving a shot?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you tell someone to "Grow up" without saying "Grow up"?

I have a girl in my life that acts very immature at times. I really don't want to tell her to "Grow up." How can I explain to her the way she is acting is immature without insulting her?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I texted Happy Birthday to my ex and he didn't respond. Now I feel like a fool. =(

In a nutshell, my ex boyfriend and I had been broken up for 8 mos, but we have stayed in touch off and on since. The thing is, I have been doing all of the initiating, because I still care about him. Why? I don't know. We...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Why does she act this way when she's drunk, but not sober?

Two nights in a row this girl from my floor was ALL over me. We kissed once (didn't mean much), but didn't do anything overly sexual. We were grinding HARD at a party the other night. Then the next night when I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is it so awkward between us now?

I went out to a foam party and when I came out my friend met her boyfriend so I decided to go home, I went towards the bus stop and I saw a guy I had been flirting with for about a week. He was with one of his friends and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Can you be with someone who has different morals than you?

OK, so what if you meet someone and they have different morals than you do? Then you fall in love, do you continue to date them or not? Why? What happens if they like to steal? Or smuggle drugs and sell them? Or do a...

phil2

Guru Age: 38

Girlfriend ignores me in public?

when we are alone indoors or out somewhere, we are inseparable. However, when we go to a public place with many people for example a party or a big dinner, she avoids me. it seems she talks to everyone else but doesn't...

adamretex81

Xper 7 Age: 44

Why do women sometimes act irrational?

Not her to bash women all day long. But this is something I often think about. If women are naturally temperamental at times then there is nothing we can really do about it. However makes me really get angry at the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How do I tell her the freckles on her nose are cute?

Without sounding like an idiot?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Guys, would you date a girl who is a loner?

If you really liked her? Would you be embarrassed to talk to her around your friends, or to even claim her? Would you try to keep the relationship secret?

ilikegum245

Xper 5 Age: 31