When a guy says “it’s all good” ?

[Anonymous]

I had apologized to a guy and congratulated him and he responded “thanks and it’s all good” what does it mean for a guy to say that. Is it sarcasm or? He also still doesn’t talk to me even after I apologized 😔

he's not not my boyfriend also

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I told him that I truly do apologize for what I said and I miss talking to you. I congratulated him on his stuff and said maybe we can rekindle our friendship. He said “thanks and it’s all good”

[SoWhatHuh]

Oh... that happened to me about 5 months ago, maybe more, we never really talked again and it was super awkward when it was just the two of us. Now we graduated too so guess I won't see him again cause he doesn't come to hang out with old friends if I'm coming. When a guy says that , I guess it means "let's not make a fuss but I'm hurt and I won't be talking to you again"

[SoWhatHuh]

You should probably ask your mutual friends, he probably has someone he tells that kinda thing?

[Asker]

21
1 mo
ooo this is the best answer! well basically... me and this guy have never gone out yet. We had been trying to but we're always busy. We've been talking for 2 months... recently he got upset because I asked him what his intentions were with me.. even though he text me everyday. I still didn't feel he was putting much effort in. Sometimes I felt he put in effort other times he didn't. He always wants me to come to his house. He said that he was trying to save his money and that his brother had his car so I agreed that i would chill at his house. The next day he text me asking when i was going to come. I told him that I would like to go out on a date and that we could go get ice cream or a 5 dollar movie. I told him that he didn't have to treat me. I text him that and i never got a reply. (he's usually a bad texter) I got upset and called him a fucking jerk... he text me saying he woke up from a nap and to please delete is number... I said fuck him and his number and that he's treated me like shit...

[SoWhatHuh]

Oh, that seems a difficult situation huh... In my case I wasn't seeing that guy like that, we were just classmates and happened to have playful convos every now and then. As we got more familiar we started jokingly quarreling but somehow things got out of hand and guess he was hurt, I don't even remember what I said to him🤔, then I apologized for like 5 days. I really did try my best , acted cute for him even , but he said "it was all good" that he accepts my apology. Weeks to come, he doesn't talk to me and I hear from our friends that he's upset with me and all...
It was him who started it so I don't feel guilty in the slightest, that brat...

[Asker]

Wowww lol this guy was actually acting like a jerk and I called him one! I called him a fucking jerk and I told him “fuck you and fuck his number “ you treated me like shit” but I said all that in hopes of me never talking to him again but I actually do want to talk to him but I would understand why he wouldn’t want to talk to me again 😔 I hit below the belt

[Love45talk]

I guess he's saying its all good between you and him. And you can try talking to him he could be shy... what did you do?

[Asker]

21
1 mo
ooo this is the best answer! well basically... me and this guy have never gone out yet. We had been trying to but we're always busy. We've been talking for 2 months... recently he got upset because I asked him what his intentions were with me.. even though he text me everyday. I still didn't feel he was putting much effort in. Sometimes I felt he put in effort other times he didn't. He always wants me to come to his house. He said that he was trying to save his money and that his brother had his car so I agreed that i would chill at his house. The next day he text me asking when i was going to come. I told him that I would like to go out on a date and that we could go get ice cream or a 5 dollar movie. I told him that he didn't have to treat me. I text him that and i never got a reply. (he's usually a bad texter) I got upset and called him a fucking jerk... he text me saying he woke up from a nap and to please delete is number... I said fuck him and his number and that he's treated me like shit...

[Love45talk]

Yeah you should deff ditch this guy. he's not putting any effort in you...

[Asker]

Yeah but I feel bad because he’s a musician and I didn’t understand that he was busy but at the same time I don't know

[Love45talk]

Nah. Just move on. Maybe he'll miss you and hit you up but he's NOT putting ANY effort in you

[Asker]

Tbh though he put up with a lot of my shit lol 😂 but effort was lacking a lot but he’s 30 and I understand he has responsibilities and shit

[Asker]

I don’t even think he’s hurt I called him a jerk?

[Love45talk]

Girl! Stop making excuses for this loser. WE r the prize not him!

[Asker]

I know lol im pathetic for this cause usually I give guys the boot. But I’m sweet on him lol

[Asker]

But I’m not going to reach out anymore

[AprilNicole81]

For over nine years a guy I have none for many years, he and I have messed around for years off and on. I care very much about this guy. He says he cares about me to. We was pretty close two years ago but, I had left due to somethings I needed to deal with. Well he has a girlfriend or whatever she really is to him but, someone who has a warrant knowing they will go back to jail out of state that come with more problems I couldn't do it because I have before. She isn't even his type. Talks to more then one but yet does like me. Doesn't make since. Saying words and you don't mean what you say is wrong. It's best to be honest and not say things just to get someone to think they do care. A girl that you don't really like let them go and be happy or is it all just a joke! What's the point.

[Anonymous]

In other words it means it’s okay or no worries do basically he accepts your apology

[Opinion Owner]

He accepts the apology but doesn’t want to rekindle it he friendship, he thinks it’s best he doesn’t rekindle it with you even if he accepts the apology

[Asker]

But I text him and he text me back... does that count for anything? Why doesn’t he want to rekindle the friendship?

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean he texted back? Like when he told it’s all good? If so, did he say anything after? If Ik more then I’ll be able to understand more

[Asker]

Yeah so the next day I texted him hey and he said hey back. I said I was thinking about him and asked what he been up to.
Him: nothing sitting here bored
Me: same
Him: come see me then
Me: I’ll try to come through
Me: it’s kinda late lol especially since my car isn’t with me
Him: 10 is late? But I feel you
Me: 😍😍😍 if I were to come over what would we do ( a test to make sure this isn’t a booty call)
Him: you not coming so it doesn’t matter
Me: no I’m not lol

That’s it 🙄

[Opinion Owner]

Okay then nvm he is trying to rekindle with you. So everything is all good like he said. You have nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

But do the text sound like a booty call? He didn’t want to talk to me anymore after I said I couldn’t come over

[Opinion Owner]

No it doesn’t sound like it. As long as you know how to carry yourself and aren’t so easy then you won’t be a booty call

[Opinion Owner]

If you guys were to have feelings for real then just take it step by step so you are both comfortable and on the same page