Should I break up with my boyfriend because he never takes me on dates?

[odiestarrr]

We have been together for about 6 months, and he's never taken me out to dinner, something fun, mall, etc. I've always been the one to take him to the mall or ramen, but all he wants to do is come over to my house. I think he does a lot of other things right, even though he's a mean guy lol, but this is the one thing that genuinely bothers me.

[ohshee]

Well I'm not going to tell you what to do that's something you have to deal with on your own I can tell you this pay attention to everything that is happening because it's going to happen again

When a guy really likes you he would go get a job just so he could do fun things with you and show you who he really is

He will sacrifice a lot of things just to make money so he can prove to you how much he likes you he will want to have a job and money because he wants to buy you things in order to go out and do something fun you have to have money

I guess we'll show you how much she likes you by not taking you anywhere not even going out in mowing lawns are washing cars to make money so he could take you but I'm trying to say is learn from this because it's going to happen again different guy if you haven't learned something from this guy and it will just get worse now do you really want to be with a guy like that

[wa1t1ngFuture]

You also have to think about his finances, if he's your age it's only natural that if he doesn't have money because he hasn't worked and his parents' economy may not have been stable. some men don't mind if they are invited by other men even though money is a little different from when they are with women they are embarrassed if they don't have enough money.. maybe if you want to date , you should also bring own money... thanks...

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you discussed it with him? Does he have money to afford such things?

[Blaperk1]

I would definatley talk to him about it. It's pretty dostepectful for him not to take your feelings or desires into co sideration. I have a date night once a week with mu girlfriend as even though we are now moving in together / talking about having childeren, I still want her to know she makes me happy and that I want to spend time with her.

[Kiss_Me]

Yes.

Find other (s) that are fun, interesting, and have the willpower to get the hell out of the house.

[kinggeorge007]

As others said gently discuss it with him. He might be an introvert. That's not bad. But I don't get what do you mean by "he's a mean guy".

[Philyouup]

Set down the rules, let them know that things have to change. Set down the rules, let them know that things have to change or you’re gonna end it it

[2021biguy]

Find someone who really loves you. If he's mean he won't change. Someone that cares about you will treat you better.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

You mean you alwats have to initiate? Seems pretty one sided

[dustybiker]

If you aren’t happy why are you with him?

[anon1903]

Is he broke or sum 🙄🙄

[jahaims]

Have you talked to him about it?

[boobliker]

tell him first then dump him.

[Guy13]

Ask your MOMMA

[Anonymous]

Yes.