I had a best friend like that, we cut ties few years ago but were friends for years. I tried to make a lot of sense of things she did, particularly her doing what your friend did, and honestly I think it’s just lacking girl code and wanting the attention on herself.
Hard to know the true motive, their minds are just wired differently than ours lol. But at the end of the day though I wouldn’t call her a good friend at all. Your true bestie would not overstep those boundaries and risk hurting or losing you in her life. You should call her out on this, and yeah it’s hard I know first hand but she crossed a boundary and did something very hurtful, so she should know.
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Oh boy I’ve had this happen. It’s pure jealousy. Also selfishness when girls do this to their friends. They are jealous of you and are selfish enough to therefore compete with you for your man. They also are selfish in that they don’t care that you will be hurt from it. They think getting attention from your man will make themselves feel better about themselves. I would say girls like this have self esteem issues as well and they don’t actually like you.
Because girls are immature catty assholes who have to compete with every other female as some biological need to be the most desired.
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