My boyfriend told me to shut up, does he have any respect for me? (Page 2)

Question

when my boyfriend and i argue, he's usually like "shut up" and this makes me upset. i feel like it's so rude to tell the girl that you love to shut up. i feel like he has no respect for me when he tells me to shut up. does he have respect for me? i never talk to him like that. i have told him over and over again that when we fight, he shouldn't tell me to shut up or to fuck off because it hurts me but he still does it! and just now, he told me that telling someone to shut up isn't that bad because other people tell their girlfriends worser things. he told me that i get hurt by things so easily. i'm a really good girlfriend to him and i just feel like he shouldn't talk to me like that because i don't talk to him like that.

Justinaveragedude · Answer

He should not talk to you that way, just because there are guys who are bigger dicks then he is doesn't make it ok for him to be a dick.

Woodsongs · Answer

I'm sorry to say that the word "shut up", is a disrespect.  "Fuck off" can't even said to your BBF.

Anonymous · Answer

you are not telling us what you said, and what are you arguing about. I will tell you who exactly is in the right when hearing the context of what you tell him. I also dont know who starts the arguments.

es20490446e · Answer

I never say that to people, even in the Internet. I don't know why he should.

KhoryESM · Answer

Sounds like abuse to me honestly no guy should ever say that to a girl

justasker · Answer

No, i think he did have respect in his heart for you , but not so much. but telling you to shut up maybe he don't want to continue fight further.

MrBored · Answer

all that matters is how he makes you feel.

Midget_Hug · Answer

After reading this I see why he says it.

sadgirl2002 · Answer

He's so rude

Anonymous · Answer

Of course he doesn't. That's normal.

kenken98 · Answer

no he doesn't

GirlThatDraws · Answer

Time to go

Anonymous · Answer

Just stop.

My boyfriend told me to shut up, does he have any respect for me? (Page 2)

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