My boyfriend never forgave me for cheating on him 5 years go? (Page 2)
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two points;
1, there should be no forgiving for cheating for it is the choice of both parties to be in the relationship and abide by the rules
2, if a party is stupid enough to forgive it. they need to accept this and try to forge a new start rather than constantly reverting to it
Can you really blame him?
He's paranoid you're gonna do the same.
If I'm in the situation - I can/wil forgive you. But I will never forget the fact that you cheated on me before - and that it can happen again. Not that it will - but it can.
That was about burst he held in and needed to get out for the last 4 years.. he's been fighting those words, but look it must've traumatized him lots, make himswear to never Speak to you like that ever again, and that trust is a foundation that cannot be weak.
It's extremely difficult to fully forgive someone who has cheated on you. If you still want to have a relationship with him, I suggest seeking counseling for you both in the hopes of finally putting it to rest.
You screwed up 5 years ago, but he can't leave it in the past because of his insecurities. You should ask him where he wants to go with this relationship, because if this trust thing keeps eating him up, then neither of you will really be happy.
People take to many pictures and do things that are prideful these days. Don't take pictures with guys, your boyfriend should be the only one you think about and want to take pictures with.
He's only with you cause he can't get anyone else. He doesn't respect you and never will so ask yourself if you can handle that. If I was you I'd find a new boyfriend and never mention you cheated in the past.
he's a CUCKOLD for not breaking up with you then. you should cheat on him agian i bet he would like it. he's cuckolded as fuck
That's why you don't date a promiscuous woman. No upside. Peace of mind is everything.
Why the fuck would anyone forgive you, and why would anyone want to date you as a cheater?
How dare you try to make him the bad guy when YOU were the slut that cheated on him. He should have left you. He has no obligation to forgive you. A perfect example of a modern western woman. Think you can treat men badly and feel entitled to them treated you perfectly. Grow up your lucky he didn’t dump your ass.
Sounds like deep down he isn't going to fully trust you. Assuming you really have proven to him over the last 5 years that you can be trusted. Best of luck :/
I feel immensely sorry for him. If you have been cheated on. You would know building that trust back requires blood and tears.
I dont blame him for not forgiving you but clearly, you two shouldn't be together. You two are toxic for each other
Where the self respect? I mean Ik u cheated BUT NO ONE DESERVES TO GET TREATED LIKE THAT. STAY SINGLE THEN DEAL WITH A INSECURE GUY LIKE THAT.
No one deserves to get cheated to - even as a revenge.
@qwert1234 and no one told him to stay with her either still not right to be emotional abusive when he just doing this to himself
But that reasoning is out of line.
He stayed because he loves her. He stayed even though he's paranoid about it.
@qwert1234 What's the point of staying with someone that makes you act paranoid it goes both ways. You can't be emotional abusive towards someone that did you wrong just break up and heal from the cheating and move on with your life. Two wrongs don't make anyone right in the situation.
With all do respect !
Cheating can be forgiven ( for some ) but never forgotten !!!
And I dont see how its gonna work if he can't get over it or lets say it should have been ended after the cheating happened.
So its best to move on.
Whoever screws you over, will screw you over again. Every street thug knows that rule... .
He should have left you a long time ago. When you are a cheater you give up rights to flirt like you were doing. Just can't help yourself?
Trust can't be regained easily and sometimes when its lost. It never comes back. You fucked this up.
If a girl cheats once, it's over. History is bound to repeat itself