Why Do Men Check Out Other Women?

[Anonymous]

Why do men check out other women while they are seeing someone?

I really don't understand! Its honestly hurtful, but I'm afraid to say something about it. I don't want him to think I'm being crazy or jealous.

I noticed him doing it a couple times but the most recent time hit me like a sack of bricks.

It happened a week ago and it has been eating away at me since. Every girl I see near him my body enters a state of numbness. Its weird.

[RawIronhide]

I'm sorry, yeah we do do this. I try my best to not stair or at least not make it obvious but I'm single. I still catch my dad checking girls out sometimes he's been married for like ten years but my step mom is cool with it, she points out cute girls sometimes too. It's not a sign of infidelity it's like when you see a nice car or something that looks pretty to you it catches your eye, sometimes you stair, but I see it can be rude so I'm careful. Also because of that, people think I'm not interested often.

[BlueCar]

It's a biological urge.
Men will always look at women, but it's how he does it that counts.
He should be smart enough to pay attention to you and only check out tits and asses that cross his eyeline.
He shouldn't be obvious about it or do it in a rude way.
Luckily my last partner liked to look too. She would point out women's asses to me and giggle because she knew that I liked them.
I was also always faithful to her so she wasn't worried.

[Asker]

I keep pushing the feelings down but it isn't helping. I can't seem to convince myself that there isn't anything to it.

[BlueCar]

It depends on the guy.
If he generally acts like a douche than you should worry that he's dirty.
If he's and he loves you, then it's just that he can't resist.
Some men get the same feeling as you when their girlfriend buys a dildo or texts with random guys.
We all get jealous and insecure, it's natural.
Just tell him "Hey, eyes over here, don't be rude!"

[BlueCar]

* If he's sweet and he loves you.

[Asker]

That actually helped to read. Thanks for being nice about it! I appreciate you.

[BlueCar]

Aww, you're welcome.🙂

[nikooo0ooo]

Guys find attractive girls attractive. Regardless if they're in love married or just dating. If you tell him it will change nothing other than the fact that he will just hide the fact that he finds other woman attractive. Maybe appreciate that he chose you over them and not focus on the fact that he thinks they're cute.

[Asker]

But he looks at their asses?

[nikooo0ooo]

Yes asses are attractive, so are boobs and faces. Doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. Just means he saw a nice butt. My girlfriend and I point out nice butts and she points out hot guys and we don't care. Were not the only attractive people in our world lol

[SCDivinitySoul]

Beauty simply, they may just be attracted to something bigger or rounder. Tho if he shouldn't really be doing that in front of you, unless you do the same with him. There's nothing wrong with glancing at someone assets, people do it in the gym all the time. It can be a simple confidence gesture.

[Browneye57]

You are crazy AND jealous. ALL guys checkout ALL women. It's the way they're built.
So, now we have to ask you, WHO is HE WITH?
And what do YOU do to KEEP him? My bet is you've never even considered it. So don't be surprised when he wanders off looking for a girl who DOES.

[Gurpratap]

Human eyes keeps moving, if the eye goes at someone for a second, i would say it's human behavior, but if eyes are locked onto someone, it means he finds that girls very sexy and attractive and maybe a man checks out how well her body is for having fun in bed 🛏 🍌🍑🍒

[ik9999]

I didn't understand very well if you are already in a relationship or not. But assuming you are, love is not about being the hottest person for your significant other, let's be honest, there will always be someone hotter than you. We all have eyes and we like beautiful things, what matters is if you are in his heart.
Although, it's also true we all prefer our partner doesn't look a hot person soooo evidently.

[dudeinohio]

There is nothing wrong with just looking... *all* guys do it. It is totally harmless.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Because women look really good! I've dated, lived with, and almost married quite a few. Some actually checked out other chicks while I was as well..

[Anonymous]

We are in a relationship, not blind.

There's nothing wrong with looking.

You already are being crazy and jealous.

You need to deal with this insecurity now.

[Anonymous]

he should only have eyes for you

[Dave31989]

Why not?