Guys, what was he thinking? Does he really like me or shall I be worried bout this behaviour?

[Anonymous]

I went out with friends and I drunk called my boyfriend ranting about things I had bottled up for a while. I said that if things were kept going this way I wouldn’t be surprised if I ended up cheating, he walked a hour in the cold in the middle of the night to find me (?) and ended up outside my house for 30min (I wasn’t there) I fell mortified when i found out he walked for an hour in the cold to find me and ended up at mine, where i wasn’t since i was out …… we talked the next day and he didn’t want to tell me originally but he was going on about how his friend helped him and when i asked he told me the story and that his friend had sent a taxi for him back to his place and talked to him. We made up the following day and talked things through but i can’t remove from head why he did and partially don’t understand it ….

[Mr_twoface]

If he had walked in the cold, carrying a firearm or axe, yeah then I would have been worried. It seems though he walked in the cold for you to discuss the things you rambled on, whilst being drunk. Things ordinarily people share with their loved ones straight up no matter how hard the question or answer may be.

Next time don't threathen him with cheating on him, instead talk to him as a guy you supposedly love, and work the things you have issues with. The smallest things needs to be addressed and preferably quickly, since after all you are human with feelings and emotions.

Best of luck to you two!

[strateguy632]

he thought you threatened to cheat on him, so came to show he cares.

[Iron_Man]

Wow you never do what you just did and you never cheat. That was a bad bad move why would you call somebody when you’re drunk like that anyway,

[Avicenna]

You won't know unless you ask him specifically

[Asker]

I did ask what he was thinking perfectly knowing I was put but he evaded the questions and said he never wanted to tell me anyway ….

[Asker]

edit*** perfectly know that I was out *******