Why does this married guy care so much about my well being for instance my friends last day was last week this guy he was like it’s okay I got you?

[Anonymous]

He saw that I was upset and was like it’s okay you have me, and ever since she left he been extra nice like saying good morning and wishing me a good day and catched up to me after lunch and was walking walking with me and just keeps saying I will be okay and not to be sad, and said now if you leave everyone will be sad and cry and we won’t know what we will do without you, i didn’t know he supposedly cares that much or in general why would some married guy care about a coworker no one else really cares tbh

[Rosexøxø]

I hate to be so blunt and simple. Hate to box or label this guy.

he could be well meaning or Christian, maybe how he was raised who knows for sure?

I just guess he is either gay or never acknowledged that in his life, or bi and he’s comfortable with his wife but comfortable being more tender with his lady friends, he could be willing to cheat and looking for an avenue.

He could be religious.

He could even have low libido so he’s more social than sexual.

He could just be social and a self aware guy with high eq and little or balanced interest in sex, but still devoted to his wife.

I mean can’t say for sure. Seems like a rare situation. I’ve seen something like this happen before but I forget what his reasons were.

I actually can’t give anything definite, but these were my assumptions. I think the best thing to do is befriend him or be friendly/polite/social with him if you’re okay with that, and if not then avoid him so he can socialize with others more. Say you’re fine give a thanks and avoid? 🤷‍♀️

Also later by chance if you’re friends and he makes some pass or makes a pass quicker than expected, just handle it accordingly and then avoid him after that.

I don’t think you can really make decisions on assumptions. Just decide if you like the vibe with him and ave plans or if he appears as a threat or a major flirt.

That’s all I can honestly suggest/recommend.

In this case.

[Rosexøxø]

Have plans ready if*

[Asker]

He is supposedly religious as far as I know but he always been nice to me just feel like if I was his wife I would be extremely mad that he shows some girl at work this much care and attention

[In_Trance]

Ask his wife I'm sure she knows the answer

[Asker]

I can’t get reach of his wife