Should I have kids with a guy who isn't financially ready? (Page 3)

Anonymous · 2023-03-14T13:18:13Z

we aren't married. we aren't in a romantic relationship. we both just wanted to have kids. we are both 30 years old and employed. I am gainfully employed while he isn't. He has a job but barely makes enough to provide for himself. I have spoken to a few people about this and they are all telling me that someone like him won't have anything to contribute. after the baby is born, I will likely be the one working full time financially providing for my baby AND also doing most of the work raising the child. While he will just be a part time parent while working his low paying job full time- contribute little to nothing financially. They all say that men don't want to be parents as their " main" role especially for a man that isn't married to me. Its always the woman who takes on the burden of being the "main" full time parent. is this true?

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Please don't

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Definetly not

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yeah it's true

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