Honestly i just avoid dating entirely. The guy who said "its better to have loved and lost than to have never love at all" clealy never fell in love. I just can't trust someone on such an intimite level.
I'm not sure if it makes them bad people, but they certainly are not good. There are a lot of reasons for why a person might cheat, but it's still a bad thing to leave your partner hanging and to treat them like that.
Cheating makes you a bad person, because you're neglecting your significant other's trust. If your significant other is not fulfilling your needs, then break up with them (or let them know about your needs). A relationship is about being exclusive to each other, you can't go look elsewhere and then expect to have a perfectly good relationship with the person you just cheated on.
Did you do it on purpose? Fully aware that you were cheating and knowing you were going to hurt someone, but still did it? Then you're probably a bad person,
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It doesn’t make you a bad person, by comparison to what’s out there setting the bar for bad people. Are you a good person? No. There’s cheating on tests, cheating on taxes, not really shitty. The betrayal of someone who would probably gladly die to save your life... damn that’s a special kind of garbage. If you’re cheating, you’re using your S/O in the first place. If not you would break it off instead of cheat. So you’re a cheater and a user. Hopefully you get what’s coming to you.
Only if so, then right. I make a big division between A[cheating is ok because pleasure stuff] And B[cheating is bad because cheating is like sadistic because both mean harm to person which is bad therefore cheating is bad]. I 100% agree on A and find not enough connection in B between cheating and sadism.
@Oliverstunt you're missing the point. Whether thing A and B appear the same is irrelevant. The point that its similar relates to what he says about pleasure. He says its all about the pleasure. He's "100%" ok with cheating because the pleasure is all that's important. Meaning the lines being crossed are completely irrelevant to him as long as you're only seeking pleasure
Yes. It does. It being all about pleasure has nothing to do with cheating as it pertains to ethics, which is the field in which we would determine if someone is a good or bad person.
Iv never been cheated on because iv never dated anyone probably never will either. I get that not everyone cheats just because they think they can sometimes drunken mistakes happen but at that point its better to come clean. And take whatever happens. From there learn through the mistake and dont do it again. But as far as i am concerned cheaters will always cheat people can't just change unless they have the strive to do it which most dont. Thats why i see no reason in having a relationship i am insecure enough already but having someone cheat on me because i am not good enough for them sexually or otherwise might be the thing that does me in.
I see where your comeing from but if you never make a point to connect with anyones else then you won't ever experince the joy of love and having a relationship with someone that could better you and help with your inscurites you know help you grow I've never been in a relationship eithier cause im so afriad of rejection but when i get passed that i could meet someone increadible that could make me happy
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It doesn't necessarily make you a bad person but people are going to get hurt,
If you want to play the field you're better off single
Please never get into a relationship with that mentality.
Cheating is counter to building a strong trusting long term relationship.
That's why it's called cheating.
Not in general no but as a partner or spouse yes.
It can take years to get over such a betrayal of trust.
Honestly i just avoid dating entirely. The guy who said "its better to have loved and lost than to have never love at all" clealy never fell in love. I just can't trust someone on such an intimite level.
I'm not sure if it makes them bad people, but they certainly are not good. There are a lot of reasons for why a person might cheat, but it's still a bad thing to leave your partner hanging and to treat them like that.
It's never ok you betray someone who loves you and if you cheat you dont love them..
Cheating makes you a bad person, because you're neglecting your significant other's trust. If your significant other is not fulfilling your needs, then break up with them (or let them know about your needs). A relationship is about being exclusive to each other, you can't go look elsewhere and then expect to have a perfectly good relationship with the person you just cheated on.
Cheating makes you a shit person. Because you betrayed someone's trust.
Have as much sex with as many people as you want if you're single, sure. But if you chose to cheat, you are scum.
Did you do it on purpose? Fully aware that you were cheating and knowing you were going to hurt someone, but still did it? Then you're probably a bad person,
It doesn’t make you a bad person, by comparison to what’s out there setting the bar for bad people. Are you a good person? No.
There’s cheating on tests, cheating on taxes, not really shitty. The betrayal of someone who would probably gladly die to save your life... damn that’s a special kind of garbage.
If you’re cheating, you’re using your S/O in the first place. If not you would break it off instead of cheat. So you’re a cheater and a user. Hopefully you get what’s coming to you.
So when someone gets sadistic pleasure from harming animals or other humans, that's ok because its all ahout pleasure?
I'd stay on harming people, because cheating implies no permission of your significant other - it's difficult to harm more.
Right but he said its all about pleasure. If thats literally all that matters in the equation to him then everything else is irrelevant
Only if so, then right.
I make a big division between
A[cheating is ok because pleasure stuff]
And B[cheating is bad because cheating is like sadistic because both mean harm to person which is bad therefore cheating is bad].
I 100% agree on A and find not enough connection in B between cheating and sadism.
@OliverStunt You are completely illogical dude, there is a CLEAR connection between sadism and cheating.
Funny that you mention logic. I'd love to brag more than I do now, but it doesn't bring anything to the point.
@Oliverstunt you're missing the point. Whether thing A and B appear the same is irrelevant. The point that its similar relates to what he says about pleasure. He says its all about the pleasure. He's "100%" ok with cheating because the pleasure is all that's important. Meaning the lines being crossed are completely irrelevant to him as long as you're only seeking pleasure
I was only about the part irrelevant to the story. I agree with the rest hands down.
It makes you a bad person if you deceive someone you led to believe you would be faithful to, and if you subsequently hurt them.
100% bad people. just need to say hey I don't believe we are working out break up. the do what ever don't be a ho and cheat on people
Yes. It does. It being all about pleasure has nothing to do with cheating as it pertains to ethics, which is the field in which we would determine if someone is a good or bad person.
Yup cuz if you have no interest in ur partner just tell em it's 100 times better than betraying them , and keeping in mind cheater never change
You're still a shitty person.
Defending cheaters also makes you a shitty person.
There is no way around it.
Nope. It makes you a bad person because all you had to do was end the relationship but you chose to hurt your partner.
If you want an actual answer cause im not sure if your trolling no i dont believe it makes you a bad person cause you made a mistake and thats life
She doesn't beilive its a mistake. She has shown no remorse for her actions so she is a bad person
Well she's a bitch not everybody cheats just to be a bitch im srry that hapoend to you though
Some people are just mean
Iv never been cheated on because iv never dated anyone probably never will either. I get that not everyone cheats just because they think they can sometimes drunken mistakes happen but at that point its better to come clean. And take whatever happens. From there learn through the mistake and dont do it again. But as far as i am concerned cheaters will always cheat people can't just change unless they have the strive to do it which most dont. Thats why i see no reason in having a relationship i am insecure enough already but having someone cheat on me because i am not good enough for them sexually or otherwise might be the thing that does me in.
I see where your comeing from but if you never make a point to connect with anyones else then you won't ever experince the joy of love and having a relationship with someone that could better you and help with your inscurites you know help you grow I've never been in a relationship eithier cause im so afriad of rejection but when i get passed that i could meet someone increadible that could make me happy
Not necessarily a bad person in general, but it says a lot about your ethics and morale as a person.
lol your belief is so stupid you need to be loyal and not cheat its not all about you missy its what your partner wants then you