Am I an idiot for forgiving my partner who cheated? (Page 3)

[Levin]

I would not take someone back. But every person and circumstance is different. Can't really see a justification for it.

[DizzyDesii]

No but you chose the risky path of “learning the hard way.” Hopefully they dont fail you

[Loredey]

No, I don't think so... If both oft you decided to rescue the relationship, it means that you still love each other, right?

[kangy]

I dont know why you would. you are a forgiving and soft hearted person.
I know I won't be able to do that.

[Unit1]

In my opinion? Pretty much.

If you forgive and then also stay with a partner, who cheated, then that means you either allow them to screw you over again or you might be a cuckold/cuckquean.

[ColoradoKid]

It's never stupid to forgive someone. Its not smart to take them back as to it may lead to more heartache. I can't say that its stupid.

[Crystal03]

No, you just have a big heart but you gave it to the wrong person.

[ShortCircuit]

Yes, and moreover, it's people like you that enable infidelity.

[potatoiswhoiam]

Forgiving is a must if you want to go on in life.
Letting him back into your life is what's dumb

[DiegoO]

To forgive an affair doesn't mean you should get back with your partner. What it means is: do you still trust your partner? Would you be able to still trust your partner?

[Anonymous]

Forgiving is a great thing to do in life - but if you mean getting back with him then I don't believe that is healthy for you

[AngelLily]

Na you can forgive someone without getting back with them.

[Trooper205]

Not at all! In fact, you're an Angel and a brave, selfless Sweetheart for doing so! Not many people can do that!

[chriscdi]

personally i think so, now hopefully he doesn't one day make you regret it, its all we can hope for now

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Forgiveness is a very good virtue to have. Moreover, don't be silly, he most likely will cheat again on you though. My advice is to move on from him.

[padreflint]

No you aren't, it may have been a one off situation. If you continue the relationship I would be wary but not obsessive about the possibility of cheating again.

[miMichael]

Only if he does it again you will know for sure, I'm sorry.

[littlemisssara]

No. It shows that deep down you have feelings which means you're not dead so congratulations!! Just be careful because in this situation you are vulnerable and it will make someone think they can get away with it

[MountAverage]

We don't know what the situation and the background story are, so I don't think any of us are in the position to judge that.

[Countrywildmangirl]

No ur not idiot I forgive my boyfriend who emotional cheated on me