In a relationship, what are two things that make you feel loved and wanted?

[Anonymous]

When your partner:

Have sex with you.
Tells you, "I love you," or praises something you did?
Surprises you with a meaningful gift?
Plans a trip for just the two of you?
Runs the errands or does the laundry?
Holds your hand while you're walking?

[jennifer_bloom]

I like if a guy smiles at me, makes me laugh, defends me when I complain, offers emotional support, spends time with me, buys me chocolate or stuffed animals or carrot juice, walks me home at night, gives me advice when I need it, uses kind words with me, listens to me when I want somebody to talk to.

[Idkwtfimdoing96]

omg yess 😭😭😭

[petitedollbabee]

Non sexual intimacy like holding my hand, kisses, cuddles etc. And words of praise & reassurance like telling me I did a good job at something, or telling me that he wants to come to my medical appointments with me and make sure I’m okay, etc.

[Pinay_ako]

When they gas up the car for you and charge your toothbrush 🤣…

[Emiliamazing]

I like you only asking for two things. Two very meaningful things for me are a smile and asking me/talking to me about my day or the challenges I may or may not have had.

Physical and romantic gestures are wonderful, but I think what I have listed in the above paragraph are excellent predecessors to physical activity

[burlen]

For me it has to be these three:

• She always thinks and considers me in her daily or weekly activities and plans. She seeks to want me to be involved in her life.

• She randomly calls and checks on me. Effortless and regular contact with me.

• She regularly initiates physical intimacy with me.

[dustybiker]

Aside from the obvious. The less obvious. The little details. Example: When they notice your toothpaste is running low, so they bring out a new tube and place it under the old one. The time and attention makes me tear just thinking of when they do things like that. Pretty special.

[dustybiker]

Just taking my hand would be a second. That was always a biggie for me.

[Still-alive]

I just want to know and feel how much they care about me as much as i do them.

and ‘awkward’ silences between as are no longer awkward and instead we feel so comfortable with each other we dont need to keep talking. Being in each others presence is enough at times.

[Thatgirlcvp]

You are talking about the persons love language. Did you just take that quiz? I don't really remember what I got on that quiz but I remember acts of service was high on the list.

[TransAm85]

When he doesn't get drunk w/his friends and we have sex!

[Zolly99999]

Random hugs , and random " I love you"

[sheikalana]

Affection and deep conversations.

[Phoenix98]

Physically and verbal intimacy.

[Anonymous]

Affection and quality communication.

[Anonymous]

Affection and attention.