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I didn't knew I was his mistress until I found out about he has a girlfriend. and I had to ended this relationship. I was hurt knowing that. long short story, he kept trying to reach me out even though he knew I have someone else until I told him that I'm happy with my current relationship.
actually I was more happy when we were together. since he stopped contact me, I feel sad.. I miss being around him.
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Why don't you break up with your boyfriend instead of wishing you could continue cheating. You're a terrible person. I'm glad you're sad. I hope your life is filled with sadness. Who cares why your affair ended. You... don't even seem to realize that you're disgusting.
can you define disgusting? im not disgusting. I never initiate nor wishing to cheat !
Oh, well... perhaps I am misunderstanding something about what you wrote here. And if so, then I apologize. I read that as meaning "he reached out to you eventhough you had someone else, until you found out that he did too... at which point you ended things with your ex. I now see that this could also mean: "after you ended things because you found out he has a girlfriend... he continued to try UNSUCCESSFULLY to 'reach out' even though he knew you had someone else (hence no cheating).
So if that's what you meant, then you're right. You're not disgusting. I'm sorry.
If that's what you meant though:
First, it makes perfect sense that he would give up upon finding out you were happy in your current relationship. That is simply because it's a clear indicator that you've 'moved on' and are happy having one so. It is to be expected that someone would stop trying at that point.
But... even if you're not cheating... it's cruel to be with your boyfriend. Obviously you shouldn't be with someone if they aren't your first choice. IF they aren't making you happy. If you wish your ex would call because that would make you happy... I mean... this seems like a pretty clear sign to me that you shouldn't be in a relationship with your current boyfriend.
my current boyfriend always try to make me happy... I appreciate that, he managed to make me for ex temporary. but my ex keep popping in my mind whenever my boyfriend isn't around.
All I'm saying is... If I were your boyfriend... I'd hope you'd break up with me. How do you think he would feel if he knew your true feelings about this?
That's a very tough situation to be in. Hopefully, it will soon pass for you.