There's this stereotypical impression about a man becomes vulnerable towards the woman he love.
I mean... there's a statement saying that women wanted their man to show emotions, to tell them their concerns... and it's okay for men to cry and be vulnerable.
However, when it happens... most women could not handle the pressure. They would loose their respect to those men. Those type of men are called weak and a hassle. Because of this, most women ended up dumping their partner just to find a man who is more "masculine".
This could be the reason why men don't want to show their emotions. They just keep it inside their heart to the point where it changes them to become cold and heartless.
The question is... why most women do that? Can a man actually express himself?
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"However, when it happens... most women could not handle the pressure. They would loose their respect to those men. Those type of men are called weak and a hassle. Because of this, most women ended up dumping their partner just to find a man who is more "masculine"."
All conjecture. You cannot say that as a statement of fact. It's always case-specific. (And it's based on maturity of the female, her age, culture, and often region around the globe.)
96% of females want their man to express what he's feeling to her, and she will welcome him with open arms and sensitivity. We are all human. We females know that men are no different.
Can a man tell a girl about his Soft Corner/weakness?
And look at my poll in my comment. I asked a more specific question, to which the females agreed, again. But since some people won't click on that q, here is the poll again: Ladies, True or False: "I've lost attraction to a/my man I really cared about because he expressed vulnerability?
I think that what really matters is finding quality women that are not fickle and untrustworthy.
Most of the women I express myself with - my wife, my habitual plus-one, and various - are quality women and this means I can be sincere and open with my feelings towards them. On the other hand, women such as those you described don't last long till their true colors show up, and I stop engaging with them.
Yeah. It's just better he doesn't. Just tell her what she wants to hear.