How is this even happening? In the UK it’s implied you will pay at least half of the rent or some form of contribution from the moment you move in with someone it isn’t even a question you either do it or get out..
Psssshhhhh, ask? Wtf. I am telling you, you permission to tell him. Or bring someone home who can. You can let him know, I think he's weak and a child.
What kind of man moves in with you and pay all the bills excluding food, cell phone, etc... why I refuse to deal with modern men 50/50 responsibilities
There are several ways, but simply just ask him straight up. Like hi, so we now live together and that means we share this space. So let's share the bills.
If my partner or friend wanted to move in with me they best be helping out with the bills & rent. As for how do you ask? You don't you tell him this is what you owe.
Just ask him outright.. if your together then it should not be a problem if he has a problem with helping out find a new man.. dont settle for less. good luck
Just speak with him, and explain him the Situation and then Look how He will work with it. And if He dont want to pay the halth sorry then He needs to go.
Tell him he needs to start paying rent. Give him a date to start playing rent. If he does Not pay on that day give me three days to move. If he does Not move contract the Police to see if there is anything they can do to help you!
(I'm just kidding, but it looks like you got some good answers already. So you don't need mine)
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Yes you have to talk with him like today He isn’t paying anything at all? Fuck leave or talk to him today As of now I’m sure you know it he is using you
A relationship is something common for you both. Do not encourage someone to enjoy things for free, while you do all the work. Your satisfaction matters too. Be direct. See his reaction/ response.
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How is this even happening? In the UK it’s implied you will pay at least half of the rent or some form of contribution from the moment you move in with someone it isn’t even a question you either do it or get out..
I wish that was like that in the US!
you are engaged and he didn't offer to pay for rent or anything? This is a mess and you are too passive. just talk...
Psssshhhhh, ask? Wtf. I am telling you, you permission to tell him. Or bring someone home who can. You can let him know, I think he's weak and a child.
What kind of man moves in with you and pay all the bills excluding food, cell phone, etc... why I refuse to deal with modern men 50/50 responsibilities
If he has lived that long and does not even feel he has to pay, do you think he is worth telling? If I were you I would tell him to leave.
"Hey, if you wanna live with me, you gotta help me out here. Money wise. Understand? Need to help pay these bills."
There are several ways, but simply just ask him straight up. Like hi, so we now live together and that means we share this space. So let's share the bills.
If my partner or friend wanted to move in with me they best be helping out with the bills & rent. As for how do you ask? You don't you tell him this is what you owe.
He’s using you. What do you mean he’s been living with you for 4 months but pays no bills? That’s not a man.
tell him straight, everything has to be paid for and to tell him to pay his share,
Here once you move in everything is 50/50 that's just common sense here, you can ask him to pay for at least half trough conversion about finances
Just ask him outright.. if your together then it should not be a problem if he has a problem with helping out find a new man.. dont settle for less. good luck
Just speak with him, and explain him the Situation and then Look how He will work with it. And if He dont want to pay the halth sorry then He needs to go.
Tell him he needs to start paying rent. Give him a date to start playing rent. If he does Not pay on that day give me three days to move. If he does Not move contract the Police to see if there is anything they can do to help you!
Give him until the end of the month to start paying his fair share or you will throw all his stuff on the front lawn and change the locks.
living together so then it doesn’t seem unreasonable to share the bills including rent
Butcher him and put him in the freezer
(I'm just kidding, but it looks like you got some good answers already. So you don't need mine)
Yes you have to talk with him like today
He isn’t paying anything at all? Fuck leave or talk to him today
As of now I’m sure you know it he is using you
I’d just tell him. If he wants to continue to stay, he needs to start contributing to the bills.
A relationship is something common for you both. Do not encourage someone to enjoy things for free, while you do all the work. Your satisfaction matters too. Be direct. See his reaction/ response.