Have you ever had a situation in a relationship where you came close to crossing a line as far as infidelity but pulled yourself together?

[mandyfire98]

This can be obviously emotional cheating as well. Texting counts depending on what was texted.

[ohsheeT]

I wish. LOL

No what I have had is. at two different girls come on me. And I'm just thinking it a joke so I smile. And yah yah yah.. then I realized it wasn't a joke

And no matter how many times I said ok it was fun but please don't touch me like that to the point of getting pissed and telling her if she touched me again I had to kick her out of my house

And the time after that one I just left. But both times

I felt what a girls might feels when guys touch them
When a girl tells them to stop and they don't stop

I mean I was going to grab that girl's arm her wrist and make her stop but both times I was cool about it.

Where girls are just too probably scared to do anything I don't know but now I've never been in that situation

Well it is I just have never put myself in that position or that situation I'm pretty loyal

[molonski2]

In my marriage ( and I was only married once ) , I was always faithful , plenty of temptation , one in particular , and in hindsight I should have gone ahead.

After that , for the most part I gave up on monogamy and just rarely agreed to this form of relationship , so I was extremely sexually active , but also extremely selective. Now , the older you get the easier monogamy becomes , but while I'm very fit , I'm still conscious of new and exciting , as long as I dont hurt another.

Thats what it all boils down to I guess.. but from about 37 years plus , I had a great time , now if I could turn back time , I would not have been in that marriage , so who knows how all would have played out , would have spent a lot more time in Asia , but really you need to make money somewhere else first.

[sheenagwapa]

i have a crush on here before that's the most cheatinh i have committed... irl i'm very loyal with or without my boyfriend beside mw. i am all the more loyal when he is not arounf not only because i love my ex so damn much it's also because i don't want them to pity my ex and think poor giy his girlfriend is giving in to my advances. i don't want that.

[sheikalana]

Honestly yes. Years ago I had a boyfriend and towards the end of the relationship things changed I felt like he wasn't giving me as much attention as he used and we weren't spending as much time as we used to and that was the first and only time I considered cheating but never had the balls to actually do it.

[AviatorTom]

If we're being totally honest, I think everyone has been tempted sometimes... but only a few act on that temptation.

I've been tempted... never any action.

[OlderAndWiser]

No, because I have always had one “hard and fast” rule for such situations: The best way to deal with temptation is to avoid it!

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

A particular code of conduct works every time. I maintain one when talking to girls in person nowadays.

[Apple1996]

A little bit since I get offers all the time and even tho I don't take the offers I still sometimes get tempted to take them

[Andres77]

This was a LONG time ago.

A buddy of mine was traveling for about six months. He did not live far from me he was married. They had a washer and dryer and I did not..

After about five months in repeatedly, going over to their house to wash my clothes, she started to flirt. One night we started drinking, and I started flirting back. We started the kiss and made a way to the bedroom, and when I was in the bed and she was taking her top off guilt slapped me in the face hard.
So I stopped.

She was pissed off, and she went out with a girlfriend every weekend after that until her husband came home.

I don’t think he ever found out. I should’ve stopped a lot sooner.

[OddBeMe]

No actually. I have hobbies of photography and business mentoring. And sometimes I have to tell the wife it’s a young girl I’m working with, or the client wants “sexy”-ish media. she's always shrugged it off.

And the photo shoots are like a hospital visit. Everyone’s a pro and we’re there to accomplish a job. During a break last time we were all laughing at how the actors, two girls and a guy, got naked on set behind a flimsy barrier. It kinda destroys sex scenes in movies when you think about a teamster eating a sandwich five feet away from naked Kate Winslet. :)

[Lliam]

When I was young, my first four relationships ended with me getting together with another girl. I never cheated (i. e. had sex with another girl while I was still in a relationship). I just moved on. I guess you'd call that serial monogamy.

I still liked my old girlfriends, I just didn't want to get tied down.

There was no such thing as texting then. Everything was face to face.

[elizamichale1]

Nah never... n i think its because we love each other immensely but also we see other people n dont mind it at all... we would share with each other what happened between us when we were with other people.. its sort of an open relationship

[Gochogirl]

I've never really come close, I either crossed the line or never considered it haha

[DevikaButts95]

Well I've really only been in open relationships so that's extremely hard to do for me. Lmao.

[DizzyDesii]

Emotionally, many times. Then i self sabotage my way out. As for physically, never.

[Kinkyhubby]

I have come close to cheating. But not have cross the line. Ever since we had kids my wife has become less sexual, more asexual, so that is part of it. Otherwise we have. Aplenty good marriage.

[DJB72]

Yep. I ended the relationship in question and cut ties with the other girl too. As a result after ten years when we met up again I'm friends with both instead of neither.

[Friendlybro79]

Yes. I could have gotten away with it but I knew I would regret it and not be able to live with myself. If someone did that to me I'd be really upset. So I declined the offer.

[nolabels]

Ha ha.

Possibly.

I haven't crossed the line.

[Anonymous]

No. I'm loyal. I've had a lot of come ons and the usual "sympathetic shoulder" attempt

[Jersey2]

The short answer, yes. Sex was in short supply due to a medical issue she had that I didn’t fully understand at the time.

[MikeTheBartender]

A few unfortunately. And I did cheat when I was younger and a piece of shit.

[AlexEfron]

Never. Probably because I don't get any romantic feelings towards anyone unless they're very close to me - friendly, Frank, nice

[OnlyMeee]

Not at all. I take my wedding vows seriously. I could never hurt anyone like that.

[justabuddy]

I had a married friend who was going threw a rough time that everyone thought we were doing stuff. Other than that no.

[muscles_glasses]

never had a serious relationship so could never cheat

[Agape93]

Nope

[Mansearching]

Yes. Does it really make me a bad person?

[PointTaken]

Nope. I haven't.

[Sparkie460]

Yes I came very close

[Christoff92]

Yes. Couple of times. Just to be on the safe side.

[Cb142]

i think i have what about yourself

[CubaPirate]

Been there done that