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Break Up & Divorce

Want to know how to deal with a messy break up? Are you having issues after your divorce, or need help determining if you need one? Ask away!

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Anonymous
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How to get over an ex I still love?

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He broke up with me over 6 weeks ago and he made it hard on me by contacting me a few times only to confuse me and make me feel he still wanted to be with me then ignore me but I finally told him a week ago I don't want to...
Anonymous
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Girls, is ex warming up or realizing grass not greener?

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Well long story short my ex gf and I were together for four years. Things ended bad no cheating or abuse just bad terms. We work together also she has been seeing a new guy for the last few months. We been light contact just...
Anpu23
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What are your favorite breakup songs?

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Mine are:  Crowds, Bauhaus Wish me well (You can go to hell), The Bouncing Souls What Do I get?, Buzzcocks Build A House And Burn It Down, The Horse Flies The More I Drink, Insatiable The Teardrop Collector, Love and...
kiwifruit30
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How do I break up with a guy of almost 2 years?

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I've been woth him for 2 years in June and a lot has happened in that time. Weve been to Europe together. His family has put on a bday for me and he's sat and watched sports with my dad. Just a bit of insight into how...
Anonymous
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Why do all my exes end up playing this mind game with me?

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I don't understand what I'm doing to encourage this, but it seems that my exes all end up doing the "text and ignore".. The thing is, I don't even try to contact any of them after splitting,but they'll all text me first...
Anonymous
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How long does it take for a guy to get over a break up?

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I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I feel really bad because I was his first girlfriend. I just want to know how long it usually takes for guys to get over break ups.
Anonymous
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How can I stop being so bitter about my ex?

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I feel so bitter about everything that has happened and because we never really broke up it feels like there is still hope. I keep repeating memories and things I could have done. I'm just so bitter and it's making me sad....
Anonymous
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Why do I miss her?

3h
My ex treated me like shit at the end of our relationship. Why do I still miss her?
Anonymous
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Most difficult situation of my life?

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I am not going to add many details but this is completely serious and I am at a loss. Long story short: I am a newly wed that I feel like I jumped into a marriage faster than I was ready for-- and a childhood friend just...
Anonymous
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He still cares even thou he ruined everything between us?

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I was with this compulsive liar for 3 years. Later in the relationship i couldn't take it anymore thought i tried to fight for us but with all the lies and he never admitted lying and being wrong, he just chose to lose me...
Anonymous
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If your truley loved a guy would you leave him?

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So parents wouldn't let us be together.. we snuck around for years. We got caught things got really bad And i saw her 6 months later she was hysterically crying when she saw me. We made plans to move out. She was going to be...
Anonymous
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Why can't I move on?

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My ex and I broke up nearly 2 months ago, after a month of dragging out the breakup process because my now ex lost his dad late last year and the reality of this situation only hit him this year! He suddenly lost himself, he...
Anonymous
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I never received a text back?

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I begged and begged my ex to come over so we can talk things through but he kept telling me no which forced me to break up with him via text which I hate to do in the first place so I texted him a long message explaining why...
Anonymous
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I want to keep the peace?

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My ex boyfriend and I broke up but I will still see him almost every week. I told him I wanted to keep it civilized but keeping him as a friend on Facebook is killing me. If I deleted him would he take that as a sign of...
nicholle35
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What's the best way to cope?

9h
My ex and I just broke up yesterday. What's the best and fastest way to cope with a new break up?
Hannah591
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Why has he stopped talking to me?

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I met up with my ex about a week ago and we had a fairly good chat and enjoyed seeing each other again in person. We spoke about things and he asked if I wanted a hug and gave me one before I left. But he held onto me...
Bowshots86
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Girls, what does it mean when my ex avoids eye contact with me?

10h
She broke things off because she didn't think she could be in a relationship right now. I took it pretty hard but tried to not let her see it. Two weeks later she is openly and flamboyantly flirting with another guy in front...
Jamdonut
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I don't want know what to make of this girl?

15h
I just broke up with this girl I was seeing, but she's my French teacher at this tuition centre, and I still attend her classes, I paid in advance and she's a great teacher so I'm not willing to let a good thing go. She...
eann02
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Boyfriend of 2 & a half years wants "space" . We have a 5 month old but he doesn't want me to move out. What should I do?

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I've been w. my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We have a daughter who's 5 months old & unfortunately I just had a miscarriage this weekend. I love him, he's been my 1st boyfriend, he seems to be "the one". I'm 21 and he's...
Draga360
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My gf broke up with me cuz I broke my 2 legs at work what should I do?

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I broke my 2 legs at work I feel 40ft from a tree my gf broke up with we've been together for 1 year I love her I'm at the hospital rite now and I cry a lot over her I never cried for a girl before I'm feeling really lone...
Anonymous
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Has it been too long?

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I used to be this incredibly awkward kid who didn't try very hard for much. Obviously, those kids don't get many(or any) girls. I finally met my first girlfriend and we had a turbulent, yet deep and serious 2 1/2 year...
Anonymous
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My ex calls me as unknown caller! is there a way tmobile blocks unknown calls?

21h
so i broke up with him 5 months ago and he keeps calling me unknown. I have blocked his number in iphone so he cannot call me using his number so he *67 and calls me unknown. Is there a way i can call tmobile and block his...
Anonymous
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Will it bother my ex that I haven't reacted to him moving on?

21h
We share a child so we still keep in touch, however my ex has started to date someone new. He states that he doesn't know where it's going yet. As opposed to what others normally do, I didn't freak out or have a panic attack...
Anonymous
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Why is my ex ignoring me?

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He broke up with me but I think it was my fault because I kept asking if he wanted to be with me because he was acting distant and every time I would question him his answers were always short or he wouldn't answer my...
Anonymous
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How to get my ex back?

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I've been thinking about my ex lately he's been really heavy on my mind and I'm thinking about trying to get back with him but I dnt exactly knw how I would tell him how I'm feeling.
NobodyEpic
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Can decide which option for me and this girl’s friendship?

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For more details, I have this question: http://www.girlsaskguys.com/break-up-divorce/q1391209-should-i-keep-this-girl-as-a-friend Essentially, I liked a girl and we talked almost everyday for 7 months, but I didn’t make...
coolbreeze
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When you break up with an ex do you give the things they brought you back? Also do you give their belongings back or do you keep it?

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Breakups are very hard and tough.So the do you give your ex's stuff back or do you keep everything for your self.
Anonymous
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How do you know it's time to break up?

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When do you personally know when it's time to break it off with your SO? Not necessarily if the other has done something such as cheating or abuse, but how do you know that things just aren't working between you anymore?
Anonymous
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Girls, is this the truth?

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Long story short, I liked a girl and we talked almost everyday for 7 months, but I didn’t make any major moves (due to shyness and fear of messing up). I just found out started dating someone else, and when I asked her why...
Anonymous
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3 years doesn't mean nothing I guess?

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i figure I'd give up a fight, he can have the other woman,or women.  I tried for so long to be a part of his life, he always kept me at arms distances. Was very friendly and at times flirty... But never acted on any of it,...
Anonymous
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Hey, could use a lot of help. 18+ please?

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Please no one younger then 18 read this. It's sad and you shouldn't have anything this serious in your life. So this is long. I'm sorry. I just need help and am too messed up to try dating anyone and there's a girl I like...
Anonymous
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How do you know when it's time to call it quits?

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We've been together for 5 almost 6 years. Everything was great during the dating time frame, but once we got married, it's like he stopped trying. He started traveling a lot for work; he'd be gone for almost the whole year...
Anonymous
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Should I reach out to him?

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My boyfriend broke up with me recently. He said I was great friend material, but not girlfriend material. In spite of this, he won't speak to me at all. I just found out that his mom passed away. I know he must be...
Evil_Muffin
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Do you remain friends with your ex?

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The guy I am dating while talking about a close friends situation asked me if I am friends with any of my ex's. When dating someone is it a red flag to be friends with the ex's or is it if you aren't? What does it mean when...
Anonymous
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Guys, hELP - HE TOOK MY ENGAGEMENT RING BACK, CAN I GET HIM BACK?

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My question is should I contine to pursue my ex finance? We have been together a little over a 1 1/2. Since then, we have moved in together (combining his 2 kids and my daughter) got engaged, and started planning a wedding....
Anonymous
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Should I forgive or move on?

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So me and my ex ended badly. After we did she became an a attention whore. She made lies about me hacking into her phone and email, she asked guys for nudes, flirted nonstop. The thing is, this was only with random people...
Anonymous
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Guys, am I doing the right thing?

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Alright, so I had dated this guy for a while, he started to distant himself and became cold and never texted. So I asked him what his issue was, he said he was busy with his new job and university so he thought we should be...
Anonymous
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Ex still has sad quotes?

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If your ex still haven't deleted sad quotes about you, does that mean anything? I'm not over my ex boyfriend and I was wondering because he still has sad and angry quotes on his page.
Anonymous
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How do you (girls) cope when your ex moves on?

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Me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 2 months, the breakup ended in the weirdest fashion by him days before telling me how much he loved me, to him going stone cold silent with no real reason to the breakup. After a...
Anonymous
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Girls, would women dunp his boyfriend becayse he is not good looking?

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if girl has a guy, but she notices another guy who is taller than his boyfriend abd more handsome would she dump her boyfriend only jyst beause of that?
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