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Break Up & Divorce

Want to know how to deal with a messy break up? Are you having issues after your divorce, or need help determining if you need one? Ask away!

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Itsjustkeyitsme
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What should I do?

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So today I found out unexpectedly that I need to put my one year old dog to sleep. I had rescued him while I was in a relationship, we were dating for about 8 months or so. Anyways I let him know because he always loved my...
thenerdysinger
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Guys, Boyfriend ignored me then broke up with me?

1h
I had dated this guy for about 3 months and things were great, but then he stopped texting me back (I texted him maybe 2x a week) he also seemed less affectionate. This went on for a month or so and finally I called him out...
SomeBloke
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Opinions about the outcome of a relationship wanted?

2h
we already knew eachother a few years ago and both liked eachother but nothing ever happened, recconected and things happened pretty quickly, we had great chemistry and got on so well, things just went great, she had a 5...
Blondegreeneyes
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Did not know he has a girlfriend?

5h
I have been seeing a guy for 2 years now and I recieved a message from his girlfriend? She messaged me a whole load of abuse asking how do I know her bf , who am I etc... I am shocked ! I had no idea he has a girlfriend , I...
Toad-1
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Have you ever dumped or been dumped because either of you lost your physical attraction?

5h
Have you ever dumped someone because you lost your physical attraction for them? Have you ever been dumped because they lost their physical attraction towards you?
laurasolovely
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Can you miss your ex and not drunk text or call them?

5h
Like you go out and get drunk but you miss your ex and you don't call them or text them
Anonymous
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Why can't I stop being jealous?

6h
I am still jealous of my ex H going to masssage parlors and getting rubbed and washed by middle aged whores. The only time i can stop thinking about is when i do what those women did to my EX to other men. But other then my...
Anonymous
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How to get rid of feelings? About the things happened in past?

6h
This girl, she studied with me. I still remember she was in white dress, the very first day. I said hi x. she sais she is not x, her name is y. And I just started the random conversation. But few days later, she started...
Stiqbeba
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How do you forget someone?

6h
Need advice on how to get a girl out of my head...
Anonymous
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Can having a mutual best friend help you get your ex back?

7h
Me and my ex have a best friend in common, he asks her stuff about me all the time. Can this help me get my ex back and if so how?
Anonymous
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Does he still love me?

7h
So I was with this guy for almost a year and then we broke up, this wa slike 6 months ago, but about 3 weeks after he broke up with me he started to message me and at first it was awkward bu then we kept talking it felt like...
Hales92
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Does he regret leaving me?

8h
We've been split up for about 6-7 weeks and haven't seen each other once. In the first few weeks, I'll admit... I begged. As shameful as if was I thought that would make him come back to me. I realised I was pushing him...
Anonymous
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How do you get over your first love?

9h
It's been 3 almost 4 months and I still can't stop feeling sad. I've been keeping myself busy, focusing on school and work. Hanging out with friends more. But I can't let her go.
Anonymous
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Getting in contact with my ex girlfriend?

10h
So it's been about 2 1/2 weeks since my ex girfriend dumbed me. It still hurts like hell cuz she was my first love and we were so close. She just wanted to go have fun and be on her own. And apparently she told my friend...
Anonymous
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My ex came to get his things today after being split up and not seeing each other 1.5 months. Already has a new girlfriend but?

11h
My ex came yesterday to finally get his things moved out of my place. The last month of our relationship was pretty bad with the break up and everything. After breaking up, I did blow him up and acted kinda crazy. Sending...
Jblaz32
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Girls, need advice on dealing/reconnecting with my ex gf?

12h
So my ex gf and I broke up little over a month ago. We were together for 4 years and she ended it because she didn't feel like she was getting enough affection from me even tho she asked me a few times to give her more...
Anonymous
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My ex boyfriend tried killing himself, what do I do?

13h
My ex ended it with me at the beginning of the year because he lost all feelings and emotions after his dad died. But we've spoken and seen each other since. He started using drugs and meeting girls to cope. During our...
Anonymous
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What are your thoughts about your ex right now?

14h
What are your thoughts about your ex right now? What do you think he or she is doing at this very moment?
Anonymous
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Saw an ex out after 4 months? Opinions?

16h
We had a short relationship, broke up no drama, had no contact... seeing each other out felt good/natural/ some things have changed... worthwhile catching up with her during the week?
Anonymous
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I can't forgive him. I tried to but, after 3 years of saying the same things out of anger, I've started to believe his cries?

18h
I Feel like he played me, it's hard for me to let it go of the things  he said,  it plays  over and over in my head , like" how could he"... I gotten angry  at him before  never once tried  to break his spirit.. Well not...
Anonymous
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Would you leave him or stay?

18h
If he admited to you after two years of living together and having your first child together, that they got with you as a rebound and will not ever be a normal relationship is happy right now, but does not see a longterm...
Anonymous
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Is it okay if your SO says the reason they aren't affection towards you is because they aren't attracted to you?

20h
Do you think it's okay for them to say that they got with you as a rebound and will not ever be a normal relationship, does not see a longterm future, that they felt sorry for you in the begining but loves your personality....
notsherlock
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Cheating in a long distance relationship, wrong and or understandable?

21h
I'm really unsure what to do about my "high school sweetheart" with who I haven't seen since graduation last year. We have a lot of the same friends, and I'm scared of breaking it off In fear of hurting him. I've met...
Fruitsweg
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It seems to be The best way?

22h
i always thought if you murder someone the best way to get rid of the body is to secretly  cremate the body then dissolve the dust in bleach..
texasgal88
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Guys, No contact, now what? Can I get him back?

23h
My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. We dated for 10 months and basically lived together for a good chunk of that time. We broke up because I could sense something was wrong so I brought it up and he said he loved...
Anonymous
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How often do you look up your ex on social media?

23h
This is assuming the relationship was serious. My ex and I are friends on Facebook and I wonder this sometimes. We don't hate each other and we're pretty friendly whenever we run into each other, but it definitely wasn't a...
Anonymous
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Why would my ex who I am friends with ask me if I think its abnormal for him to not want to be in a relationship and a few more things?

1d
To that I responded because I think maybe it is something you do not need right now. This all happened in one texting convo. I find this weird. I am his recent ex and now we decided to stay friends. Before he asked that...
Anonymous
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Girlfriend broke up with me by text is this tacky?

1d
I think my girl cheated 2 straight weekends 2 months ago she disappeared on me and her phone was off and when she returned she told me she was at her girlfriends and her phone died... Well ever since I had trust issues w...
misVSK
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How can I get my TV back?

1d
I lend my TV to my neighbour, who I thought was my friend. She was going to move out as soon as she got married. But she unexpectadly left a month earlier, while I was out for a few weeks. She send me a message saying come...
Anonymous
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Unspoken break up?

1d
We've reached an impasse. I accidently insulted him out of ignorance about his culture and he reacted not by correcting me and telling me that it's offensive, but by being verbally aggressive and downright hostile.  So I...
Anonymous
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He has a crazy ex?

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I've been dating this guy, rob, for 6 months now. Things are fantastic and we're so happy together :) However!!! He has a CRAY ex! They're not divorced, but they've been separated for almost 4 years and live in different...
Anonymous
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If a guy says he isn't ready to date after a bad breakup but he wants to later when he feels better?

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Will he follow through with asking you out?  I have a feeling he never will... I asked a guy out and he said yes but not right now as he is "all over the place" after a "messy break up". What does this mean? Is there...
mrsdani7
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Why is my ex so mean?

1d
I was dating this guy I go to school with. And I dumped him about a month ago. And ever since he calls me names like ugly bitch, retard, slut pretty much every name in the book. I noticed he stares at me a lot. He talks bad...
Anonymous
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Guys, What should I say to my ex in order to distance myself? But in a nice way?

1d
What's a nice way to tell my ex bf to stop walking my dogs? I'm trying to put some space between us. I love him but I just can't take anymore pain & I haven't seen him in months yet he walks my dogs. Please give me some...
Anonymous
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How do you get over a guy?

1d
So I dated a guy for nearly two years. But then we broke up, I know we are younger (16) but its hard spending two years of your life together then breaking up. I keep having dreams about him and even had a extremely...
Anonymous
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Guys, when a guy says he loves you but he has to let you go?

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Guys, what does it mean when a guy says he really loves and etc but he has to let you go? He cries but says he's doing this for me?
Anonymous
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How can I get my ex of 2 years to stop bothering me?

1d
I am happily married now for one year. He knows this. He has a gf. He will not stop emailing me. The emails are not nasty or threatening, but I can't move on with him bothering me. I had to block him and her on Fb. I want to...
Anonymous
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How would you feel if you were a rude, disrespectful, mean, nasty, & dismissive to your ex so they spit in your face then slammed the door and left?

1d
Say you had an amazing ex but things were not working due to something shady you did to cause problems. So you give up and leave them. As they are trying to talk to you and get answers, you are completely over the...
Anonymous
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Guys why would you?

1d
Why would you congratulate your ex on getting into uni (baring in mind you would have stalked her twitter to find this out) & also why would you message her to see if she got home okay when seeing her out clubbing? Baring in...
Shalock
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Girls, Letting go and how you do it?

1d
How do you let go of someone who really mattered to you. I go through a cycle of where I'm depressed, then it flows into a spiteful person and then I usually lock it away. I've been going through this for a about I don't...
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