Break Up & Divorce

Break Up & Divorce

Want to know how to deal with a messy break up? Are you having issues after your divorce, or need help determining if you need one? Ask away!

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So I was finally over him when he did this?

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I was finally pissed enough at my x. He ignored me all day after flirting when I went to this instructor's room. He was on the opposite side and when I sat on a desk, he walked next to me and stood there. He even got a bit...

Need advice on dealing with texting back ex gf during nc now for 2 weeks been ignoring here?

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will nc help me get her back? been together 4 years almost, lived together the whole time pretty much. im 28 she's 24.. we had a bad couple months at this shitty last place we stayed at and we were fighting a little and not...

"My heart's on my sleeve, but it's turning black.."?

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My ex and i were together for more than a year and a half. We had a lot of chemistry and very happy together- no issues with trust, jealousy, etc. just a happy couple. when i left for college 2 months ago, i knew he was...

Did you need time off after a relationship ended?

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I was in a summer long relationship that we jumped into fast. He was so wrong for me. I dumped him and I was sad (not to lose him but because I saw his true colors and they were not pretty and I realized the guy I thought...

What do men REALLY do after a breakup?

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Are they sad? Do they even care? Women are usually sad the first couple of weeks, then slowly come to terms with it.

Guys, why would you still stay friends with an ex?

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My ex and I broke up a week ago and he said he still wants to be friends because we were friends for 2 years and dated for 6 months. He said "I rather have you in my life then not at all" We text now and then only if he...

Why is my ex still trying to hangout with my family?

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My ex and I of 4 years broke up almost a year a ago. We dated other people since. I'm still dating other people and she still contacts me and asks how my family is and still wants to see them. Why? She's currently single but...

C'mon guys, help me out here !!?

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have been dating the same guy since I was 17, I just turned 20 not too long ago. Last year, he cheated on me while we were at our respective college campuses. I ended things with him and then 6 months later he wanted to come...

Why I can't have long reliationship? Am I wrong?

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Firsh i have to say, my English not good. I dont understand woman. i dont understand what they want. They always changing their opinions very fast. Im loyal , i love to texting. I love to talk about everything. I love...

Why me ex texted me something like that? Please help!?

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I loved him more than my self, There is a long story, But I/m keeping it short, we broke up almost 2 years ago, he bought a car named it exactly the same name I gave to his bike. I don't know why. he still texts me to meet...

Should I let him get to me? He is trying to contact me again?

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My boyfriend and I were together for 7 years. He seemed to care for me and love me a lot. He left for college overseas and things started falling apart since then. So, just two weeks back i found out that he had been...

Guys why would you do this after splitting up?

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So me & my guy friend were seeing each other for the last year. Things started getting messy and we were arguing every week. He would always come back saying he misses me & told me it's because he's scared to get hurt again...

What would you want to know? Or would you rather for me not to say anything?

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My best friend since freshman year of high school dated this guy in junior year. She fell in love hard and way too fast both did and she ended up getting hurt... She was his first everything and he was her first guy to take...

My ex broke up with me and moved in with the guy she cheated on me with... who has kids?

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My ex cheated on me and told me she's moving in with a guy who has 2 kids. Originally she lied to me and said she was going to live by herself and she could give everything to me in the apartment out. She revealed to...

She wants time but out of no where she jus said it from one day to another?

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We gona make 3 years in December and she been living with me for 1 year and all of a sudden on a Wednesday we slept like any other day i go to work the next morning and she texts me like at 9 that she. wanted to pretty much...

Girlfriend Essentially Told Me To F Off?

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We met in high school. Started off not wanting a relationship at all, but she was so intriguing. I fell for her pretty hard. And she was right along with me. We spent the rest of the year nearly inseparable. I graduated. She...

Working with my ex gf?

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So i haven't really spoken to my ex gf in a while just maybe twice on phone since we broke up, we broke up about 2 months ago. she broke up with me. anyways im working with her now and she's always watching me and smiling. i...

My ex-girlfriend is moving out of state forever. See her before she leaves?

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We broke up just shy of a year ago. I have tried dating other women but haven't found somebody like her. I still miss her. She was my first serious relationship, even though I'm in mid 20's. I think I may have loved her. She...

My ex has blocked my phone number and is still holding a grudge?

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The hardest thing is we still live together and share a car and I'm blocked from phone and fb. Last week I thought I would be unblocked but he gave excuse.

I met the right guy but wrong time wrong conditions. Now I am suffering?

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I met this guy at school we dated two years he was my everything then we moved to different countries and the distance was something we managed well until one day over a small fight wheni made him cry for hours saying that i...

Can a guy change his ways at age 50?

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Can my boyfriend, whom I'm on a break with, change his bad habbits at his age? He stays out all night, tells stupid lies, and insists on hanging out with his friends on a daily basis. Is that something, in your opinion, that...

How long to tell the kids?

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My wife and I are getting divorced. Well I am with someone else now and so is my wife. When should our daughter meet our new partners? We waited to tell our kid about the divorce until about 2/12 to 3 months ago. There are...

Is it strange that My ex and I?

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My ex boyfriend and I broke up a week ago and still text each other everyday like nothing happened. We broke up because we kept fighting for the past two weeks and I could not take it any more I was unhappy. While we were...

What does his text mean?

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My three year boyfriend, now ex, and I broke up about five days ago. He said he didn't want to be in a serious relationship anymore; that he'd been feeling this way for two months now. He said the reason he didn't mention it...

On unsolicited advice I followed my heart and wrote her?

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On the unsolicited advice of a friend I followed my heart and wrote her a letter. "I've been dating/am dating but I miss you". I suppose she's a serial monogamist... never been single more than a month or since 15. Less than...

Would have been 7 months tomorrow... call her Yes/No?

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48 year old guy, 46 year old gal tomorrow would have been the 7 month anniversary with my girlfriend. We are broken up now since Sunday. My brain says no contact even if it was to be our anniversary, I had the whole...

I need a real man opinion on this. Is it over for real? Is there anything I can do?

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I dated my neighbor for 7 months. He and his sisters are exactly the same age as my sisters and I. I met him online and we fell very much in love. It was weird we had never met before. We have both lived next to eachother...

Was I right to break up with her for this?

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I am a 22 year old shy guy who was dating a gorgeous 20 year old blonde. She is a cheerleader at my college. However, the thing is she is my complete opposite. She's very outgoing and I'm not. I would see her socializing...

Guy: why do u do the blow off?

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Things are going great.. a little bumps here and there but hey nothing is perfect. Then after a fight a guy says he's done. Then comes back and say no, he just needs time to himself. Then disappears? Why the blowoff? Why not...

Is it bitchy to dump my boyfriend because he's unemployed?

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I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He was laid off a couple of months before we started dating. It didn't bother me at the time. 1.5 years later, he's still unemployed and not doing much to change that. Our...

I need some advice... please help me clear my mind I can't control my feeling but my actions is incredibly doing the right thing?

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saw him walking away without any words hurting me more. but i know this is the right thing to do. I want to chase him and withdraw everything I said. But instead of doing that I remained silent and try not to look at him...

Returning gifts after a break up?

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My friend broke up with her boyfriend after a 3 year relationship. They never lived together. He gave her something that had belonged to his father and now his mother is demanding that she return it. If it was a gift from...

How to get over someone who really got you down?

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Long story short I dated my best friend since childhood and it was perfect until he broke it off for wishy washy reasons. He still keeps coming around right when I think he's gone, and I'm having a hard time coming to terms...

Break up... Was he too needy or was I too cold? But not sure of the lesson in it? I'm so confused and not sure what to do?

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So I met this guy through mutual friends 2 years ago. We hooked up after 2 dates (I didn't think anything serious would come out of it, so I didn't mind hooking up).. After that, we unexpectedly ended up inseparable for the...

Does he actually love me, or really just not care as he's now ignoring me?

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I've been with my now ex boyfriend about half a year. everthing was perfect or seemed so. no arguments and doing everthing together (although not overly so, we still had 2/3 nights a week with our friends or just alone) he...

What are some of the best steps to get your ex girlfriend back?

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She's still alittle guarded, and she reached out recently. I didn't expect to ever hear from her. She said she needs time to think, and I told her that was ok, and there's no pressure at all. That's the last time I spoke to...

Ex breaks NC, is kind, then few days later is nasty and distant?

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So my ex broke NC, she followed it up quickly trying to inquire about how I was, wanting to make plans (which now she is backing out of lol). But the weird thing is she's being hostile when I'm not even initiating...

Boyfriend says he loves me, but broke up with me, please help?

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My boyfriend broke up with me. He's from Iran and I am American. He said he loves me and isn't interested in dating anyone right now because he still cares for me, but he can't be with me. He says I'm really bossy, but I'm...

He left me pregnant after I caught him cheating, had a miscarriage a few days later and he never responded when I told him. Haven't spoke in a month?

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Me and my ex dated for 3months and things we're perfect. He moved here from another state to get over his and the mother of his 2Children breakup He said they were together for 5yrs and things we're just not working btwn...
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