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Break Up & Divorce

Want to know how to deal with a messy break up? Are you having issues after your divorce, or need help determining if you need one? Ask away!

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Truly-Unique
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Please help me through feeling like I failed because I was cheated on?

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Hey guys, I need some help not making the mistake of blaming myself and making myself emotionally closed off to new relationships. So my wife had several instances where she stepped out of our marriage, mostly online (which...
Anonymous
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Was this too far? Should I let him go?

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So my boyfriend ( now ex boyfriend) has been cheating on me. So I found out where he lived and I said that I wanted him back, so when we were I bed I cut of his balls, after that's got scared that he would tell someone o...
Anonymous
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Should I break up with her? fillertimestwo?

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im worried if i stay with her i will forget how to pickup women and being a player is what made me cool if i lose that im a loser again should i save my skills or stay with her?
Anonymous
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He said he wants to be alone but still has feelings? Please help?

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I dated a guy for a month and we connected immediately. He was really sweet and would always tell me how much he liked me, that I was perfect and that he missed me right after I would leave. He even bought me gifts everytime...
Anonymous
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Im still really wounded from my break up?

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Me and my ex dated for two months, i thought it was serious until he dumped me a month ago because he couldnt handle something this deep. We had no contact for about a week, then he came back asking me for sex. I said no....
Minnowminnow
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I need help and guidance. I'm totally lost and confused?

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Okay so here what's happening. me and my gorlfriend brokeup 12 weeks ago. At first I thought it would be best for both of us. But ever since the first week after that I can't stop thinking about her. Every time I lay...
Anonymous
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He told me to never speak to him again. How do I deal with this?

3h
There was a guy that liked me that asked me out and I said, "No, I rather be friends". Then he asked me what I did today and I told him the truth that I went on a date with another guy. Then he told me to never...
Mooreorless91
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What are my chances of getting my ex back?

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We were high school sweethearts dated for 3.5 year till she cheated i could wrap my mind around why being that I treated her so well but I was hurt said somethings about her drag her name through the dirt pretty much made...
Anonymous
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How do I prove to him how sorry I am and get him to forgive me?

3h
I really messed it up big time with him. I broke up with him because I was just a complete idiot. I told my friends stuff about our relationship that he thought I should have kept between us and we fell out about that. After...
Anonymous
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Would it mean something if you get a "happy birthday" from someone who ignored you for 5 month?

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I dated a guy for a short time, we weren't together, cuz he didin't know if he liked me. After a little while he asked me out again, only to stop talking to me after that... I kinda got the clue so I didn't try...
clixt
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Ex girlfriend asked me how I am doing. Any clues why she asked me?

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So first and foremost, a little background about us. She's the first girl I dated, so it's pretty hard on me.. I caught her having an OKC account, talking to other guys but I let it be.. A couple months later, I...
loverdearest33
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Anyone help! All advice is needed :(?

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I live with my ex boyfriend of 3.5 years. We moved in together 3 months ago, and he broke up with me two weeks after we moved in together. We moved to a city 2 hours from our hometown, and I didn’t adjust well at...
ebonymoons
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How breakup with my bf?

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I really love him but I don't see it working anymore we also really don't have much in common it's really going hurt and kill me but how do I do it where it won't hurt and kill me because I really do love him...
Anonymous
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Am I as loose down there as he said I am?

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My ex was having a go at me and it's been playing in my mind, he was on the phone with his gf and she was repeating everything he was saying, how I was loose and she was tight, how never made him come and she was...
gigity
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Just found out she slept with her boss?

10h
Been with her for 9 years, found out two days ago not a question but I need an outlet
KateRussell
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What do guys do after a break-up?

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What do men really think, feel and do in the aftermath of a break-up? There are a lot of myths that fly around, but I'm trying to get to the bottom of what you really experience in those weeks following a split. I'm...
Anonymous
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Im clueless . Plsss help me.?

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So , my recent post question was about me and guy that have been together for 11 months close to a year.. we break our so called r/s.. like 2 weeks ago.. cus he can't open up for me as in he can't fell in love with...
Anonymous
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ANNOYING EX!!! ADVICE?

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Ok so i dated this guy in like June for less than a month and then we hooked up a few times over the summer like twice and now like literally every other week he texts me that I'm the love of his life and he...
Anonymous
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Need advice please!?

14h
Still really want my ex back, but he texted me if I canceled plans that we made prior to our break up (one week ago) we were together 5 years! i said yes... Does this mean I have no chance of getting him back?
Anonymous
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If a guy calls off an engagement... does that mean its really over?

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if a guy calls off an engagement... does that mean its really over? please help me!
Anonymous
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Are her loyalties with her family more then our marriage?

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basically since i married my wife i feel she doesn't consider my feelings or even us together in our future she so obessed with helping her family with money etc, she also obessed with her sister baby who a single mum to...
Anonymous
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I want my parents to separate?

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Has anyone ever wanted their parents to separate? Did you bring it up to them? To a sibling? What happened after?
PrincessaAsiannn12
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Why Does My Ex Keep Coming Back?

19h
We break up , I start becoming happy and he comes back swearing he sorry for hurting but then he hurts me and gets mad when I tell him to leave me alone I've changed my number 28 times in one year
Anonymous
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Is the quickest way to get over him is by?

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... Talking to someone new? How do you guys react to when the girl you once was talking to move on to somebody else when you know your actions caused the change?
Anonymous
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I never told anyone this. I geuss I just need to get it off my chest?

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One reason I gave always hated my mom is bc I feel like she only married my dad for his money and that she truly never loved him. And when he lost his money and needed support more than anything she bailed on him and gots a...
Anonymous
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Do guys mind never officially getting married? Bc I NEVER want to get married!! I have this huge fear of getting a divorce?

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My parents got divorced when I was younger and it destroyed them both. Now I have a huge fear of getting a divorce. Im scared getting married will ruin everything. I always picture sceneriers or evrythibg going wrong. My...
loba96
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Major ex dilemma... any advice?

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I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months about a month ago. I know 9 months isn't that much time but it was the longest relationship he had. I've had a 4 year relationship before so 9 months was barely anything to...
lostgirl3572
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I've emotionally shut down after a break up?

22h
My first ex boyfriend broke up with me nearly two months ago. We were long distance and he decided after nearly 2 years together to end it with me over the phone. I did the crying and anger and even began a fling with...
Anonymous
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Should I block my ex-girlfriend even though I still want them back?

22h
Broke up with my ex after 7 years (her choice) and i still really want her back and she knows this despite me not showing it anymore. She's the type of girl who wants me when she thinks she can't have me, at least...
runnerchic
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Would you take your ex back even if you would be the fallback girl?

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Please share your thoughts about this specific scenario. Thanks! If a man you are dating stops dating you because he told you he wanted to date someone from his past again, and then SHE broke up with HIM, and he came back...
Anonymous
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When will it stop hurting?

23h
My 2 and a half year long relationship ended today. Its not bitter or angry between us. It just really hurts :-(
Anonymous
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Was there another way I could have dealt with the situation or how I can fix it?

23h
So we started dating officially a week ago or so and it was fun but he started to get cold with me and hadn't spoken to me since he told me he was going out with this other girl and then we started texting: Me: So how...
Anonymous
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Is this unrequited love?

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When it's over before it even began... the worst part is never getting the chance to show how much you can love them. How do you move on from this when you know in your body mind and soul that they were right for you?
DheElon
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I need a guys view on my situation?

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My Ex and I have been fighting for the past 2 months we've been talking. It has gotten so bad to the point where He told me He wants nothing to do with me. I blew his phone up for an entire day like some sort of crazy...
Sunny88
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Had an iffy breakup with an ex to say the least. Today is their BDAY. Shall I say happy bday or not? :-/?

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Last time we talked was a heated argument and my last words were "fuck you" and I got over it... Today is their bdY I feel like saying happy BDAY. He was an ok person.
Anonymous
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It has been 2 months and I am still not moving on, help please!?

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He broke up with me 2 months ago and said he really wanted to be friends but I refused since I wanted him to commit. If im not good enough for a commitment then why would I settle for a friendship, also.. it would be...
Anonymous
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How do I catch his attention?

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Me and my ex have a very strong friendship but I'd like to have a relationship with him. What can I say or do to prove I really love him and want to date again without sounding desperate and annoying?
pierce_my_veil
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I love my ex so much and it's such a complex situation. Help ;-;?

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Me and my ex broke up 2 months from today actually. I was cutting and he said he was too immature to handle that so he decided we should both be friends (I'm clean now and he knows it) . At first it was really messed up...
Anonymous
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No contact with ex for a week?

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We were broken up he broke up with me through text. I get that I was jealous and controlling, but we have been together for 5 years and I wish he never gave up on me. I miss him like crazy and he has not contacted me. I have...
Anonymous
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Should I tell him I like him?

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Last night I started to talk to my crush and I was about to tell him I like him. I said "Can I tell you something?" And he said yeah go ahead and I haven't responded yet because I'm too scared now. Should I...
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