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Break Up & Divorce

Want to know how to deal with a messy break up? Are you having issues after your divorce, or need help determining if you need one? Ask away!

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Malfoy1
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Just looking for poll votes! Why did he suddenly break up with me?

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1) We dated for 4 months, got to know each other over the course of a year 2) We're teens (under 18) 3) His reason for dumping me was that he just wasn't ready for a relationship, but he said that we could still be...
KatieMcArthur
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I want to sell my ex's gold jewelry... any suggestions?

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I am looking place for jewelry sell please guide if you know someone in New York.
Anonymous
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How to break up with my boyfriend because I'm at uni and he is in high school in different countries?

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My boyfriend has gotten tickets, without telling me about them when he booked them, to visit me twice at uni. However, I no longer want to be in a long-distance relationship with him but I don't know if I should just stick...
justyles
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Ex boyfriend problem. One more chance or nah?

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So... I was in a relationship about 9 months ago and I really liked the guy. I already knew him for 3 years and we were neither friends neither partners. We were that "thing". Then I broke up with him after a month and two...
Anonymous
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I miss him! But we messed up! Help?

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I had my boyfriend for 2 and a half months... and he ended up doing something stupid. He sent a picture... of me (not a full nude just my legs) that he told me he deleted to all his friends. I was so mad and broke up with...
Anonymous
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Got dumped and friend zoned?

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My ex broke up with me via SMS 3 weeks ago after a 2 year relationship, and i i got friendzoned by my best girl-friend, i went through her Facebook and read how she talked about me with her friends as if i were the most...
Anonymous
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Should I give him a second chance? Or ignore him and say no?

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I broke up with him January 15, 2015 because I thought my feelings for him would rekindle after what I learn in Dec, but they didn't. I learned that he cheated on me at homecoming with his ex. He was like "oh, it doesn't...
Anonymous
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No contact with ex, how to tell if she still cares?

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If you are going through no contact with an ex and you have no mutual friends, is there a way to tell if she still cares or likes you?
Anonymous
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I know it's been asked many times before but I need help how the hell can I get over him?

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My ex and I broke up almost a year ago. He's not the kind of guy to stay friends with exes ever. He's 36 it's not like he isn't set in his ways. Well we basically started seeing each other again 2 months after we broke...
poketfuloposey
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My boyfriend of 11 years is telling me he doesn't want to be with me anymore because I nag him too much. We have 2 kids. What do I do?

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We have been together since 12th grade. We are each others first everything. I feel he gets mad when he wants to hang out with his friends and I complain about it, because he has left me home "stuck" with the kids. I am very...
Anonymous
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Boyfriend said its time we go out separate ways?

14h
So my boyfriend said he thinks it's time we go our separate ways but yet his mom called and said that he said were still together.
Girlconfused1
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Need great advice on a simple question?

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I broke up w him, again, we were together for years. I am talking to him very slowly now. But he never puts in much effort. How can I have him come towards me when I was always the one pushing the relationship along? ... He...
Anonymous
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What does it mean when your boyfriend asks for a break?

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We've been dating for almost 2 years. I though everything was going really good but i guess i was wrong.
Anonymous
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Should I tell him how I feel, and risk rejection. Or should I just continue my hiatus and fight like hell to get over him?

17h
I told my company that I'm taking a 3 month sabbatical. .. I have issues to work through I'm going through a divorce and lately everything seem to be stressing me out. I'm not in love with my soon to ex but we have a few...
dom88
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"Not any time soon, have a lot of pain to get past" in your opinion Whay does this mean?

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I'm trying to help my friend and his girl said this to him. He really loves her and she loves him to. I don't think if two love each other and he think she's the one that should give up. I mean space and time apart yes. What...
Anonymous
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Can I reach a compromise with my ex bf to go for a month without contacting?

18h
I had been in a LDR for a year and 4 months but my bf broke up with me 3 days ago because of the distance that he couldn't tolerate. However , I tried to be mature enough and acted wisely & respected his decision , so we...
hotshotgirl
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How to leave the past behind or get another boyfriend?

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So I have been dating my on and off again bf for a couple years. I just want to leave him and I don't know how to do that cause I know we could be friends. I kind of like another guy but I don't know how to go after him...
Anonymous
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Girls: When you cheat, how often is the new guy serious?

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There's been a number of questions about girls cheating on here. Some responses have been that the guy cheated on didn't deserve it, but that didn't stop it from happening. Many comments I've read is that the new guy offers...
Anonymous
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He wants to pause our relationship until my divorce is finalized?

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I've been separated for 8 months from my soon to be ex husband. I recently started dating a guy and we really got along and liked each other a lot. Since the beginning I told him I wasn't supposed to date since it can affect...
Anonymous
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Friends with benefits would make a great GF but, I don't want that, what to do?

20h
Mt friends with benefits will do whatever I ask and she is a great person, could be my best GF ever but I don't feel that way about her.
Anonymous
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Why go online right after a break up?

20h
why do people go on dating sites right after a break up?
Anonymous
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How should I go about getting her back?

20h
I am looking to make a connection with my ex that dumped me, she is headstrong, mature, smart. She left me because she lost touch with her spirituality so she said. I THINK THE REAL REASON IS THAT I SENSED SHE DIDN'T FEEL...
Anonymous
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Does she really feels what she says?

21h
I had a wonderful and very intense relationship with a girl for 2 years and in the next 2 years things slowly deteriorated, until one day she said ''Can you please leave me alone so I can be happy? I was with you in the last...
AprilMay
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Did he get bored of me and dump me?

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More input please? 1) We dated for 4 months, got to know each other over the course of a year 2) We're teens (under 18) 3) His reason for dumping me was that he just wasn't ready for a relationship, but he said that we...
Anonymous
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Am I stupid for buying her and her kid a gift because I behaved stupid last time?

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I dont know if will change anything between her and me, i want her back, but i acted like an idiot last time. also wrote some horrible stuff about her on Facebook. stranglly enough she could unblock me from all social media...
Anonymous
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Is my ex trying to get my attention?

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My ex dumped me 5 months ago... Her feelings had faded she claimed, but I suspect there might also be some stress involved (maybe even a little GIGS) Anyways... We are both active on social medias, and right after we...
Anonymous
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Do people cyber stalk exes that they still have feelings for?

22h
Or do they do it out of boredom. My guy has been stalking me for 8 months now.
dom88
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Gift for ex on vday?

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Should I get her something for Valentine's day. just to show I love her. I will also get something for her daughter as well. I love them so much. Also don't want to complicate things.
dom88
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When a girl says "never know, we'll see" about getting back to together is it still hope?

23h
I want to know where I stand. Of course you don't know my whole life relationship wise but I will sum it up. So we broke up and since we've talked everyday. So I decided to go no contact. Now this might seem selfish but I...
Funny7
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Is this normal? And should I try contacting her?

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So my ex broke up with me nearly two months ago after a 6 month relationship & I've try'ed thinking of how bad she was for me & she was, in the end one of the reasons she broke up with me because of my confidence, yet she...
Anonymous
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What do do when you just dont like a guy?

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This guy at work likes me he's a great guy but I just dont like him in that way. I tried but its not working for me. Everyone at work is hoping we get together and it seem like the smart choice because he nice and...
Spelunker11
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Did he dump me because of boredom?

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Sorry need more input... 1) We dated for 4 months, got to know each other over the course of a year 2) We're teens (under 18) 3) His reason for dumping me was that he just wasn't ready for a relationship, but he said...
Anonymous
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If your partner created dating profiles during your marriage, would you consider it cheating?

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my husband and i split up about a month ago because he needed some "time" before our second child was born.(Im 8 months preg.) About a week and a half after our split up, he called and wanted me to move back in. At first i...
raelauk
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Girls, I need some advice, What did I do wrong?

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Well, i met this girl who was a few years older than me at a party and we clicked straight away... by the end of the night it was like we'd been together forever... it was the fastest anything like this had ever moved for me...
Shianne1999
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Heartbroken... what do I do?

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My boyfriend broke up with me last night on the phone. He said he doesn't love me. Anyway I spent over a year with him and now i'm not sure what to do.
KarKat_007
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Would you forgive someone who cheated on you?

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I've been cheated on before and i wanted to know what the world thinks. - </3 KarKat
12100794
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How can you unlove someone?

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No matter what I do, I still love him and thinking maybe he really love me, there's a reason behind his actions. My head says he is a jerk, idiot, unrespectful, not true friend and a total waste of time. I always turn-off...
Anonymous
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How to leave the past behind and get another boyfriend?

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So I'm 17 and I have been dating my on and off again bf for a couple years. I just want to leave him and I don't know how to do that cause I know we could be friends. I kind of like another guy but I don't know how to go...
Anonymous
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Do you think it's possible to not take rejection personally?

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Do you think it's possible to not take rejection personally? A woman once told me that rejection is not personal. We discussed this back and forth for a while. She said that she had rejected guys for a vast array of reasons....
Tskfa
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Am I over reacting or do I have a right to be angry and annoyed at my ex?

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My ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago because he didn't want to commit to anything anymore. We have a 8 year old son together and we have attempted to stay friends not because of our son but because we are both best friends so I...
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