All Questions

Is it fatal to drink tea with a little dead spider in it?

i just drank a tea and before finishing it, I notice there was a dead spider in it... am I in danger? or was the boiling water enough to destroy the venom the spider could of had(which I live in new England, where is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like it when a guy wears a tie?

Like, loosened a little bit, tight, large or small knot, etc. I've just started wearing dress shirts (some with vertical stripes) with the sleeves rolled up just under the elbow with the tie loosened around the 1st...

bellybuttonlint

Yoda Age: 42

Society & Politics

Why do none of the girls at my high school like me?

I usually date out of my school, every one there is either red neck, prep or emo, with a few gangsters, none of the girls talk to me as more then a friend and most I can get out of any girl is I'm cute. I don't know what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do women prefer nowadays, dapper, debonaire, gentleman or "edgy" bad boy type ?

It strikes me as funny how different the stereotypical idea of a ladies' man is now compared to a few decades back. A few decades back, a ladies' man was regarded as your Cary Grant type, suave and sophisticated dressed...

Odin1793

Xper 5 Age: 38

How to know if you're attractive?

Without asking somebody Because I'm the quiet guy who doesn't talk to girls so they don't approach me but I knew one had a crush on me and I thought she was pretty hot but didn't ask her out as I was too shy

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's your favorite type of hug?

I recently noticed that different types of hugs feel completely different. For example over the shoulder has a comforting feeling and friendly. When a guy hugs you around your waist and lingers a bit its got a safe...

Ccrimsonmoon

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Dating for an overachiever

I've very driven and have an intense, type A personality. Success is very important to me. I've always been one of the top students in every grade throughout school. I went to a great college and finished a Master's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Thoughts on the fox tail trend? Guys and girls

I was looking up some cool Japanese trends and I was surprised how popular they seem to be. They're unique that's for sure. Here are some links link link I think it's really unique but don't think I could pull...

mangageek

Xper 7 Age: 33

Do guys REALLY get intimidated by pretty girls?

I'm not trying to be stuck up here AT ALL. honestly, I'm not, I don't understand why looks are so important to people. so the thing is, every girl I meet tells me I should be a model, cause I'm tall and apparently...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says he's not much of a hugger, but...

This guy I like; I want to hug him pretty badly. This girl I know walked over to us while we were talking and started flirting with him (which, pissed me off, but that is another story) and asked him if he wanted a hug....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Overly clingy and emotional, grounds for breakup?!

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. He treats me really well. He's one of the nicest most genuine guys I've met in a while. Or maybe I've just been dating one loser of another. However I'm a pretty tolerant...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Does anyone else ever notice odd pairings in interracial relationships?

I guess there are odd ones in same race relationships but I'm talking about interracial ones since I have several friends who are into that. im gonna make a huge leap here. I can honestly say that 99.9% of the black...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy is very concerned and always makes sure you're safe....what does it mean?

So this guy is very flirty with me, but also, he is very considerate of me. He always makes sure I am okay, and if I'm sad he always knows and tries to cheer me up because he says he doesn't like seeing me sad. Also, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Reconciliation after a break-up?

After I broke up with my ex, he didn't try to fix things except sending two lame messages & two missed calls. I never responded because I felt he showed no remorse & most imp. that I am not willing to be with him again....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I think my professor has a crush on me?

My professor seems to have a thing for me. He's 32 years old, is an adjunct professor, still lives with his parents, and is single. In class he would be interested in talking to me and knowing more about me. He asked me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why am I embarrassed about my hobby around certain people?

I am completely comfortable with people who share the same interest as me... But when I'm around my family or anyone who doesn't share the same interests, I feel like they are judging me for what I do and they don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are smiley faces in text messages considered flirting?

Just a standard smiley face...sys see this as a flirty gesture when done by a girl?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I chase him and ask him out?

this guy I'm dating never made a move for approximately 4 dates in which I invited him. I did keep wondering that whenever I ask him out, if he doesn't like me, he wouldve said no but he never said no to my invites,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend wants me to be fat?

we've been going out for about a year now. recently he's been taking me to fast food places, DQ, the cheesecake factory...ordering me large dishes and asking me to eat it all. so I do. he says I look cute when I eat....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Calling my boyfriend "dear"?

Is it something that most guys would mind? For example, if I were saying goodnight to him I would say, "goodnight dear, I love you". Is that something that guys like being called? I'm only asking because my ex boyfriend...

loveisfearless

Xper 5 Age: 32

Shopping & Gifts

I'm 18, and I've never had a girlfriend. My life just sucks anymore and it keeps getting worse.

I'm 18, almost 19, and I've never had a girlfriend. Never came close to having one. I realize that people older than me are in similar situations, but that makes me feel even worse about being depressed over this....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some people call me pretty and others say am ugly?

Well ever since I was young , many people usually call me pretty /cute/hot ..they are usually friends , relatives and random people. So one time a certain girl called me ugly out of the blue ...so I wondered whether the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I'm falling in love with my boyfriend. Need help on telling him..

I'm falling in love with my boyfriend. I can tell that I am, and I'm getting extremely scared of rejection, but I feel this intensity to let him know, even though my actions (imo) already show it. In my mind, I argue...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, what's the first thing you notice in a guy?

is it something physical like his eyes? or his arms? first thing I notice in a girl is her eyes, if I don't like her eyes, I won't have much interest in her until I get to know her better.

sikoo31

Xper 3 Age: 35

His mom wants to meet me?

My boyfriend told me the other day that his mom wants to meet when/if she comes into town. I don't know if that is a good thing or not. what does that mean for him and I?

goalie1801

Xper 5 Age: 43

Do girls like Hollister on Guys?

What do you girls think about guys wearing Hollister? They have some really nice stuff.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Quiet girls. Where do I find you and what would be the best way to approach you?

I really don't care for loud party girls. They're hot sure, but they're not at all the kind of people I'd want to be in a relationship with. I find quiet/shy/respectful girls much more appealing, and I think it would be...

IAmAnon123

Explorer Age: 36

If this guy and I always have flirtatious banter, joking and teasing....could it mean he likes me?

-he constantly bugs me about liking this other guy...but I don't...and he always says that I'm going to marry that guy and such and such. Its ongoing...and he always picks on me in front of other people, and then he kinda...

Anonymous

(30-35)