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He told me he liked me and then put me in the friend zone but keeps blatantly flirting with me. Why would someone do that?

Its a long story and I dont want to give too much details but there's a guy I like who told me he liked me. Suddenly he put me in the friend zone and told me he just wants to be friends. I was really hurt and confused why...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Do you agree with Anti-natalism?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/edQq54afR9w If you don’t know what it is. Here’s a video.

Jojojojojojojo

Xper 6 Age: 28

Why do guys stare but not approach me?

I've seen some guys stare at me At the gym, at bar... etc But not approach me But this happens to my best friend too Guys stare at her But my best friend sometimes get approached Why don't guys approach me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Black men need feminism NOT white guys?

(Please read: I'm NOT talking about all black men. I'm only speaking of those that act foolish.) I've seen the clip. The cops told him NOT to go back to his car, he goes back, the cop open fire. Keep in mind all it...

Jennifer_18

Xper 4 Age: 40

Health & Fitness

My mom is 56 years old and has Covid-19. She is on day 8 of progressive symptoms. How many days hers likely to last?

She has fever, fatigue, occasional breathing prob, cough, loss of appetite

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is cute really a complement?

I've been called way worse sure, and being called cute does give me the warm and fuzzys sometimes but I'm a little worried about it to. I'm not convinced a girl calling me cute is the kind of response i should strive...

TonyV

Guru Age: 34

Girlfriend wants me to wait till marriage for sex but she isn’t a virgin?

First off a little about myself I am 24 years old and still a virgin. I’ve had multiple girlfriends throughout the years but none lasted over a few months. Half a year ago I met my new girlfriend and she’s an absolutely...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If your partner gained a lot of weight, is it an asshole move to point it out?

MonmonTheGreat

Xper 5 Age: 25

Fashion & Beauty

Is "shape wear," like Spanx, for females false advertising, similar to push-up bras?

... Since most guys want a girl who is actually slim and fit and in shape? Seems like many guys get a lot of criticism (especially online) for wanting a girl who is actually attractive, rather than a girl who is...

Thatsamazing

Guru Age: 32

What's your idea of the perfect date?

I'll love to go to the park and spread a mat, take our basket of food with us and then stay there.

Chikky

Influencer Age: 29

When clubbing with your partner, would you want your partner to dance with others or not?

Honest opinions

Chikky

Influencer Age: 29

Why did he lie about his first girlfriend and made me feel like crap?

I fell for someone on gag - spoked for most of the year. Mostly had issues about distance while we were on & off - ended poorly. However, I saw a comment he made on a post about his 1st girlfriend. I'm blaffed af. He told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he look at my boobs?

I went on a date with this guy, we went out for dinner. We sat across from each other and he looked down at my boobs! Why? He made it obvious!

staystrong3

Xper 6 Age: 39

Fashion & Beauty

DISCUSSION: Black women are the least desirable out of all the female races?

DISCLAIMER: this isn't intended as anything to bash any woman or race, just a friendly debate and discussion. Both men and women are welcome to join in on this discussion :)

Anonymous

(25-29)

Friends with benefits got a girlfriend even though he said he didn't want a relationship?

I had a friends with benefits situation for about a year with one of my closest guy friends. Throughout our time together, he specifically said that he "wasn't emotionally available for a relationship" (basically made it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Do people deserve multiple chances? Does anyone in life deserve more than 5 chances?

My sister's boyfriend for example He stole from my grandpa, my mom, my mom's friend (twice), his friends, and his grandmother and cheated on my sister emotionally a few times, all within a span of 2 years my mom...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you playfully tease or be rude to girls you like after being overly nice in the beginning?

This guy was very sweet to me in the getting to know stage and now he knows that I like him he constantly says rude sarcastic things or playfully teases. He never compliments me now. Has he lost interest and taking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Do you think people will treat you better if you are prettier?

Does look ever gave you a bias treatment? Would it change if you were to be prettier?

Luna1998

Explorer Age: 27

Why does my boyfriend always points out how other girls got bigger butts and I don’t?

My butt is flat, I’m really slim too and my boyfriend always points out ‘oh look at that girl she has a better butt than you do’ Gym won’t help me grow my butt, I’m more of an Apple shape than a pear

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

If your battery percentage was your age, how old would you be right now?

17😂

Rachel4ever

Xper 5 Age: 22

Guys, what did I do wrong with my guy friend?

Lets call my friend S (he is 22, I am 24). We worked together and would take breaks together and I started cooking for him and bringing him food. Texted each other pretty frequently. When I met him, he was fighting with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I need girl advice about a girl?

Hi ladies, I've been chatting online to a girl since Feb. We matched on Tinder, moved onto FB and havve met up once a few months ago. I've confessed I like her a few times and dropped not so subtle hints I find her...

Jenom

Xper 6 Age: 39

What do you think of writing love letters and sending them snail mail for long distance relationships to add to the romance?

Jjpayne

Editor Age: 42

Girls, Why does my ex keep showing up at my job?

I really don't want to over think it but im confused she told me she wants to move in and never seen me, but recently for the last 2 weeks or so she is at the Walmart that I work and I would normally wouldn't even give it...

MrMonster22

Xper 3 Age: 29

Society & Politics

Why is nudity at home such a big deal in America compared to other countries?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, do you buy nice lingerie to please a potential partner or to please yourself?

When I refer to lingerie, it could be panties, bras, slips, nightgowns, negligees, whatever. . . but something a bit more upscale than whatever WalMart sells. I'm talking about the Victoria's Secret level of lingerie....

OlderAndWiser

Editor Age: 71

What to think if a girl pulls away from you while your arms around them?

She said she's just not used to physical affection. She did loosen up later and let me do it. (Along with kiss her goodnight, and have some lewd fun

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

What car should I buy?

Honda Accord, Mazda Sedan, Nissan Sedan, or Acura ILX

Anonymous

(25-29)

Chubby guys vs fit guys (who would you date)?

In most relationships there's been an up down about guys or girl dating someone fit or someone chubby or plus size I want to hear what's your thoughts

Tjawesome26

Xper 3 Age: 27

I lost my girlfriend due to video gaming... how do I get her back?

We dated for 7 months and texted every day. Everything was going well but then I started playing a lot more video games than usual. I ignored her texts and calls for days. I used to go to her house during the weekends but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What are signs a guy is a complete and total jerk?

I thought he was nice. I should have listened. When the whole world told me he was.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Do women like fast or slow talkers?

someone who speaks with perfect speed and with confidence, or a calmer, slower and also condifent speaker who takes his time pronouncing words?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Technology & Internet

Have you tried the REFACE app?

It’s hilarious! 🤣😂😅

MzAsh

Master Age: 41

Boyfriend suddenly acting arrogant and rude?

Weve had problems for a while and we have decided to get pre-martial counseling. I come back home from work one day and he all of a sudden is acting arrogant, snippy and irritated with me. We had a great few days. We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do girls act different around their friends?

I've been on two dates with this gal and we talk all day everyday, except when she's with her friends. When she's with her friends, it seems like I'm always being a bother. I understand I need to give her space and all...

Anonymous

(30-35)