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Low educational status & lack of motivation and poorly written profile are the worst for me.
I'm curious: why is a picture with the eiffel tower a deal breaker for you?
Eiffel Tower pictures usually mean that a girl loves to travel, she will expect to do that if we are together for any length of time, and odds are that she will be a high maintenance chick in other ways as well. That is my sense of what it means. What do you think of that analysis?
You know, Paris and the Eiffel Tower is a mainstream place to visit, so I personally wouldn't look it that way, but I may be wrong.
I may think the girl loves traveling ( and does it a lot) if she posts pictures of less typical places.
I will ponder what you have said. At the moment, I am in a committed relationship so I may never again do online dating, but if I do. . .
All of these lol. Or just no bio with their snapchat account or just 420 (I get people from Amsterdam on tinder) , big cars (or other expensive stuff) in their profile is a dealbreaker.
I have many dealbreakers tbh.
Asking immediatly for more pics when they are clearly all over the site, i always post max number.
And living with his parents. That would just show me he was broke and unmotivated and no one wants that
Poorly written profile: misspellings, grammatical errors, run-on sentences, etc.
His words on the screen are really the first impression he gets to give. Take the time to re-read and spell check
The thing that is a deal breaker for me is that they are looking to see what happens or that they are not looking for anything serious, but if it finds them, so be it. I have never used an online dating site, but I have seen profiles for them and stuff like that would be an instant deal breaker for me, to me that says "im looking for a hookup".
These type are a turn off for me
These are a turn off for me cause I am looking for a serious relationship and the world is changing with technology. No one is old school and chivalrous anymore. So we reach down of the barrel trying our luck out, only to try again.
These photos represent something.
I want a relationship with a single person with no baggage and red flags. So we can have a family.
I don’t care about their dog, drinking buddies, and their bastard kids.
The only reason their ex left their kids with the guy is so he can man up and provide for his children and take responsibility for his life. Not use them in dating app pics just so he can get laid and date countless of women. Which is also why his ex left him.
With, the party guys. Girls must be really that dumb to hook up with one of these guys as he has his arms around other girls. Player
Then the drinking buddies like they don’t need women. Only friends
And the hunter killing animals for sport is just creepy and traumatizing for others at the sight of something lifeless with blood.
I understand all but the second picture. I thought girls would like to see a man trying to be a good father. Is the problem that the guy is using his little girl to pander to ladies on the dating site?
Now, when I see a picture of the dad with his kids saying “my children are come first and are my world”. Okay that’s understandable, then in the back of my mind I question why is he single as these kids are toddlers? That once we message as to what each of us are looking for, their common response is: “ well, I’m not looking for anything serious right now. I just got out of a relationship, I’m just looking for friends and to date.“ This is a common answer only someone who intends on hookups and friends with benefits. That once I ask when their relationship ended, they say 3-5 months. To me that’s just recent and quick to date somebody and waste the other person time who is actually looking for a serious relationship.
So basically they just want sex.
Understand!
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1. Arrogance
2. bad grammatic
3. lack of goals
in this order.
All of the above lol. Although not having a job or car is a big one.
Lying (saying one thing in the profile but wanting the opposite), bad photos, only wanting sex
Him having no photo but asks me for lots of photos even when I have one on. 🤷♀️