So should I actually give him the last chance to clear things up?

[loveissimple]

So, I reconnected with my middle school classmate on Instagram and we became quite good friends and right now we are in the same college under different majors. But the day before joining the college he questioned our friendship and we had a small discussion about that, and I decided to give him his space. He totally forgot about me and went on with his life.

I then confronted him again in 3 months about our so-called relationship, he talked and then again he went cold.. this went on for 2 years. We would talk when we would be back in our town, and after getting to college we wouldn't.

And apparently, what makes me angrier is all this time I have been the one initiating the conversation, he always says he is sorry or things are going hard for him and all.. I don't know what to do. I feel I should stop talking to him altogether, but I can't move on from the kind of friendship we had. I miss that.

Last time, a month ago, I told him to explain what was going on with him ASAP, and he said okay he will.. He still hasn't done anything in regard with that. And I am more worried because recently he tried harm on self which is quite concerning to me. I am confused, should i try talking to him for the last time? Should I ask him to explain himself for the last time?

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

I say you definitely tried that’s all you can do. Unfortunately people don’t always show up the way we want them too. You can be supportive but just know him harming himself has nothing to do with you especially if all you’ve ever done is show compassion. Don’t be upset with yourself because you have to move forward with your life no matter what. I don’t think he forgot or anything but he is troubled and you’re still young, it’s not your burden, you’re not his therapist or parent. If you feel you want to be supportive you’re going to have to let go of what you thought an ideal friendship with him would be. It’s ultimately up to you though.

[RoseySarah]

Really I'd say go for it but already you know the answer he is not right in the head!

Friendship relationship or just people who talk. None of that matters to him when your brain can't function properly and your hurting yourself.

Your relationship is what most are. People who grew up together and are friendly because of knowing them so long.

Any romance that happened is one sided and he just can't share his feelings.

Major red flag by the way relationship wise!

[KrakenAttackin]

So basically he is treating you how most women treat men... got it.

Here's the answer. He has hotter women than you at college, but not at home. He doesn't want you getting in the way at college. You two aren't dating so he doesn't owe you anything.

[Avicenna]

Looks like he has some issues that may be the cause of the communication problems. I'd suggest asking him if there is anything he'd like to talk about and if you can help him with anything. You might get a better response.

[Amara_09]

No.


Don’t settle for less

[HateyouxD]

He's not into you

[Ladyblanche]

Go for it

[Flowersss24]

Nooo

[SongBirrd]

@Flowersss24 do you mind if I ask you for some advice?
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