I said it only once. Even that was because the relationship was just friendship and she didn't know I loved her. I had to say it just to forget her and move on. Too bad I said it for a worse type of woman. It was my first love.
After that it was women who said that to me first all the times. Women don't mean it when they say it, they use that word as an identifier of the relationship.
I have stopped actively looking but have paid enough attention to know that its not looking for me. It honestly is very lonely but I don't have any stress from an optional source.
I don't think this saying is necessarily true. You can be open to finding someone and actually land yourself in a relationship. It's happened to me and other people in my life. But yes, it is important to have confidence and love your life when you're single before you get into anything serious.
You are looking too hard, you are LOOKING for love, the things you see will all be skin deep and are taken at face value, when you aren't looking for love, people expose themselves more and don't just flaunt their good side to you in hopes of scoring, it's a more natural flow of connection.
You'd presumably stop for two reasons: 1. You thought you've found it with a particular person; 2. You've given up and- through fate/God's will- the real love comes to YOU!
Because love is a naturally occurring thing. When you actively look for it, it does not come naturally, it's being forced. As far as time is concerned, however long it takes. Nature is in no hurry.
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We always get the things we want when we don't want them... 🙃
I said it only once. Even that was because the relationship was just friendship and she didn't know I loved her. I had to say it just to forget her and move on. Too bad I said it for a worse type of woman. It was my first love.
After that it was women who said that to me first all the times. Women don't mean it when they say it, they use that word as an identifier of the relationship.
I have stopped actively looking but have paid enough attention to know that its not looking for me. It honestly is very lonely but I don't have any stress from an optional source.
I don't think this saying is necessarily true. You can be open to finding someone and actually land yourself in a relationship. It's happened to me and other people in my life. But yes, it is important to have confidence and love your life when you're single before you get into anything serious.
You are looking too hard, you are LOOKING for love, the things you see will all be skin deep and are taken at face value, when you aren't looking for love, people expose themselves more and don't just flaunt their good side to you in hopes of scoring, it's a more natural flow of connection.
Me too. It's not my focus right now. If it were, I probably wouldn't be here in the lonely hearts club with you lot.
You'd presumably stop for two reasons: 1. You thought you've found it with a particular person; 2. You've given up and- through fate/God's will- the real love comes to YOU!
I tend to find it's because when you look for it.. you're trying too hard. Once you stop then you let people in
Don't know, but that's an extremely annoying fact of life.
That's true as you let go of any attachment to anything, it is easier to attract it into your life.
Why do random girls only flirt with me when I'm in a relationship? lol
Good things come to those who wait.
When you go looking for something you don't have, you get taken advantage of.
Because love is a naturally occurring thing. When you actively look for it, it does not come naturally, it's being forced. As far as time is concerned, however long it takes. Nature is in no hurry.
You just stop putting pressure on relationships that would be better off without pressure.
That doesn’t work in lockdown except when I went for a drive the other day we had four hot girls waiving at us
I think it’s because you’re not scrutinizing everyone and everything. You’re letting loose. You laugh more. Are Having fun. Enjoying yourself.
I try, I don't get, I do not try I don't get. Doesn't seem like I can win either way. I'm so lost in the love department.
Because we're in our natural state and being our normal selves, not trying to be anything or faking it
*anything else. And that's attractive to the eyes
I didn't find it yet with searching and without searching
Because when you look for it you try to hard and are too stressed, love comes when you're chill