Like I said even at the start sex wasn't good and not adopted as I would have liked. Then it just dwindled to once every 2 months or longer.
We used to chat a lot and I felt I could always turn to him but not now. He tells me to be quiet or he will talk over me.
I've never been in a relationship that's lacked passion like this. Even at night he falls asleep he never cuddles me. I try to but he just doesn't respond. When you have shared the same bed for years it's natural to snuggle up. I've tried to see the problem is with me and I'm wanting to much. I try to accept it as it is , just there's only so long I can go on for like this. As I suddenly feel. down on myself and I feel lonely and unwanted. I've tried looking great and everyone says I do. Only he doesn't. Same if a guy chats. me up body in front of him. It doesn't bother him he just doesn't care. I could be sunbathing topless surrounded by rugby players. Only it wouldn't bother him. I don't want jealousy but just a bit of protective ness that's all. I ask him if he wants to split up because we are more distant that ever. He says I'm making it all up in my head. He tells. e I'm simple and selfish.
Just that's not who I am and its only now and then I'll ask why he doesn't want me. Only again he gets angry and say he is sick of me making it all. about him.
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