All Questions

Is having no college a deal breaker?

I was wondering, I'm not sure college is my thing and don't really want to go back but I'm worried that this will be a deal breaker for girls. Is it? Also, without a diploma, will it doom me as a failure and homeless?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies, Would you ever hold a guys hand if you didn't intend on being more than just friends?

I tend to over think things, so I'm trying to figure out where I am with this girl. Took her out on a second date and went to hold her hand. She was receptive and held back and seemed to enjoy it. My question is, girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Handsome vs Hot? Which is really better?

I get called hansdome a lot and hot here and there. Is being called handsome a bad thing? Women tell me that it is better than being called hot. It is like that want you around them longer than the "hot' person and that...

GymStatus

Xper 6 Age: 38

Why is that men get painted as these shallow, nasty creatures, when women far more often behave like this?

I think it's ridiculous how spoiled, entitled and horrible most of today's young women are in Western countries. This seems to be mainly a white woman thing, most of them are now spoiled, narcissistic and immoral beyond...

Jymbo1

Xper 3 Age: 41

What type of girls do Muslim guys like?

I'm talking about the hard core Muslims who honour their mothers and get high 90's in school. The true Muslims... Thanks

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you truly love when women put you in your place?

Referring to whether you are just dating or in a relationship...specially pertaining to how you treat her.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Do you ever feel sick but can't explain what's wrong?

I get this feeling sometime where I just feel sick and I only want to sleep. I lay in bed crying because I feel horrible, but I can't say that anything specifically hurts, and I'm not throwing up. I will sleep hours more...

texasgirl2

Xper 5 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Exboyfriend texts me Happy Birthday! What does it man?

My ex texts me Hope you have a Happy Birthday a little after midnight on my birthday. So to be the 1st. one to wish me a Happy Birthday. I texted him back thank you. That was it. Why would he even bother we have been...

waikoloa128

Xper 4 Age: 37

Guys, do you like your girlfriends to take care of you when you are sick?

... Or would you rather just be left alone? My boyfriend is sick right now and it made me wonder, because I just have the urge to take care of him when he is sick because I hate seeing him feel bad. Weather it's just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to talk to a guy when he's always with his friends ?

Okay , so there's this guy I reaaaally like and whenever I try to talk to him or flirt or just say hey he's always with his friends . We're never alone . I'm super shy and won't have enough confident to just walk up to...

iLuvHelloKitty

Xper 5 Age: 35

Relationships

Desperately seeking a boyfriend?

okay so I've never had a boyfriend...ever. I've spent all of high school focused on school and now I'm ready to date. sad thing is, no one seems to like me, well black guys do (yet they don't ask me out either!) but I'm...

ShelOnya

Xper 3 Age: 31

Texting intervals, usual or not?

Ok so there's this girl I know whenever we text or email each other it seems when we do this there is the same time interval between each text/email. So for example she texts me at 9:00, I would text her back at 9:10...

DrPain

Xper 3 Age: 34

Relationships

What does it mean when a guy and a girl fight like brothers and sisters but aren't related?

as stated in title.what kind of feeling/emotion makes them do this?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Immediate attraction or slow build up?

Hello gang, if you think about your current or previous partners, were you attracted to them right away, or was it more like a slow process of being drawn to that person ? I was thinking about that lately, to me,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Oily or Dry skin? What's worse?

Oily acne prone skin Or Flaky dry skin I have oily skin acne prone skin but I would trade my oily skin for dry skin any day.

So-Innocent

Yoda Age: 37

Do women act "difficult" on purpose?

I want to say this girl and I get along because we do, but, she acts too difficult towards me. Any attempt to talk to her are met with sardonic answers and her taking everything I say seriously even though I'm obviously...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you like to be held while cuddling?

Guys and cuddling questions: guys, how do you like to be held while cuddling? which position do you like while cuddling? where do you like to be touched while cuddling? what do you think about when you're cuddling with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy texting during playing video games?

so if a guy is going out with a chick and he texts while playing because he is a "good bf" does that mean he is a keeper? and if he doesn't text his not? what if its the other way around what if the girl is the one plaing...

iveth

Xper 7 Age: 34

Is it weird when a girl hasn't had her first kiss yet?

Do you think it's weird when a girl is 16/17 and still hasn't had her first kiss? Turn on or turn off?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Which of these characters from "The Breakfast Club" would make the most interesting subject for a paper?

I need to write a paper for my abnormal psychology class. We need to choose a movie and analyze/diagnose a character with some sort of disorder, as well as tell how they can be treated. Should I use: the Basketcase...

kdizzleforizzle91

Guru Age: 34

Gain weight while keeping a flat stomach?

I have always heard that I am too skinny. At 18 years old I am 5'2 and 98 pounds. Is there any way to gain some weight but not lose the flat stomach? I want to reach a healthy weight but also keep a nice looking frame

alliiieeee10

Xper 5 Age: 32

How to ask a guy if he is a virgin.. without actually saying it?

This guy is 23 he has told me himself he has a three girlfriends but it has been 2-3 years since he has had a girlfriend. every time we go out on a date he texts the next day, asking if he went to far... and really all...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I confess I like her but she replied "idk"... what does that suppose to mean? Yes or No?

met a girl, become friends, go out together sometimes and I like her... when I confess I like her she say "idk"... what does that supposed to mean? yes or no? i don't like unclear answer, I prefer straight forward...

shycat

Xper 5 Age: 41

Is a girl blushing a good sign?

Today I was buying some clothes and the girl serving me was really cute, she was talking with me briefly and at one point she looked up at me and smiled and I smiled back but I noticed she got kinda red and flustered in...

Dantemustdie

Xper 3 Age: 34

Do guys like a flat butt?

I know men like a flat butt over a fat butt but what about a flat butt over a toned butt. is a flat butt still preferable?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Do elliptical machines build muscle on my legs?

So my friend & I have a question. She's a member of LA Fitness & she's gonna give me a guest pass for 2 weeks so we can go together :P She's pear shaped and bottom heavy. She's not fat, far from it, but any weight she...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Best way to get an ex back? Boys what makes you miss us?

My boyfriend and I were perfect for each other! We were going out for 5 months and we thought we'd last a while but the other day he broke up with me because he was getting super stressed with everything he's got on with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What's the expression "hamburger meat"?

One of my friends who just got cleaned up and ready to go out for the night was talking and he goes "oh yeah I've got my chain and the hamburger meat hanging out... " what does this mean? :S

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he stare at me, but already has a girlfriend?

so there is this boy at my school we have been staring at each other and making eye contact and other stuff. but when he stares at me he does not smile and he does this everyday non stop and me and him have been doing...

tucker2222

Xper 3 Age: 55

Boyfriend wanted to buy me clothes and I refused...now he's mad at me. What do I do?

So my boyfriend of 15 months and I were going to a party, and he wanted to buy me a new dress. I told him that I didn't need anything new, and I didn't feel comfortable with him buying me clothes for no reason. He then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How to tell my ex that we need a clear cut break up?

My ex and I have decided to remain friends which is fine with me. The only thing is that it still feels like we are together. I have asked him when we will change our Facebook relationship status (I know its not a big...

sarahlouise1

Xper 4 Age: 33

Valentine's Day

Should i give my friend's with benefits a valentine's day gift?

Title says it all. We've been hooking up for a while now. We're friends and we hang out sometimes but it's really a hook-up type of relationship. Do you think it'd be weird if I just gave him some chocolates or something...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think of gourmand fragrances?

"If you smell something that reminds you of food, chances are it is a gourmand scent: scents with “edible” or “dessert”-like qualities. These often contain notes like vanilla, tonka bean and coumarin." They're usually...

pr3ttybr0wn

Master Age: 38

Men are supposed to be the leader in a relationship while women are supposed to nurture?

My friend recently brought up this discussion. Do you believe that good, moral men NEED to be the leader in a relationship while women should be nurturing? For example, if there is a problem in the family, the man...

xTeacup

Xper 7 Age: 32

Guys...what do you think when you see a tall woman?

I'm curious (as I'm about 6ft tall) What do you think when you see a tall (about 5'10 to 6ft) semi attractive or very attractive tall woman? Do you notice them? Are you attracted usually or is the height turn you off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do good guys always get played by girls?

This question is not a sexest question, I know it goes both ways both my emphasis is on females because they seems to do it more often than guys.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Genuinely too busy to text-has it ever happen to you guys?

My degree in school is, at times, quite demanding. At the same time, I don't think I've ever been too busy to send a text. If a guy is not replying my text within 1-2 days, is he busy or just not THAT into me? Thanks!

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's your opinion on bold flirting?

Would you be more comfortable with a girl flirting boldly or do you prefer to have more left to the imagination?

lindseybeebutton

Xper 5 Age: 31

Cuddling in the car?

i want to know the best positions for cuddling in the car. i usually have my guy on my lap and I play with his hair, but I need some affection also, but I want to keep his hands away from my waist. whats a good...

Anonymous

(36-45)