All Questions

Should I hit on my girlfriend's mom?

I feel I have more in commom with my girlfriends mom than I do with my girlfriend. I think it may be because I am more mature than my girlfriend. Anyways, today my girlfriend is going to help her dad at his yard sale...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do so many guys mislead girls?

Don't get me wrong, I know there are still good guys out there, but lately it seems like all I meet is the ones who lie and manipulate to get what they want. Why do they do that? Example, I recently signed up for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys,do you sometimes ignore your crush as a test to see if she likes you?

What should she do or not do in order to pass your test?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I have a small and pointy chin, and I hate it. Can I do anything to make it bigger?

So yeah, I have a pretty small and pointy jaw. You can't see it on my picture cause when I'm smiling, I'm also pushing my jaw out so that it would look bigger. (Don't ask me why, I just have it when it looks small.) But...

AdamUndead

Xper 5 Age: 31

He kissed my neck on the first date?

I had a date with this guy last night and it went really well. When he walked me to my door I gave him a hug and he went in for a kiss. I really like him so I decided kissing in the first date was OK. He earned it! The...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: when you meet a girl you met online, what do you do if she doesn't look as good as her pics?

Hi. So I'm a girl who is short, and a bit fuller figured (I'm at the higher end of my BMI although I do work out because I love some meat on me ;) ). I also have various shallow pockmarks on my face from my battle with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm moving away from my crush - should I tell him how I feel?

Basically I'm moving to a different country in a week's time, at least for three months (possibly staying there forever depending on job situation). This guy I have liked for a long time has been popping up everywhere...

acomplicatedkindness

Xper 5 Age: 39

At 38 what are my chances of finding love?

Aloha folks. I turned 38 recently and I have found dating in my 30's to be daunting and much different than in my 20's. I guess it is bc many of the good ones are already taken...and the guys still single are slim...

Anomoly10

Xper 5 Age: 53

Other

What are some songs that mention girls having brown eyes?

Besides "Brown Eyed Girl" of course. That's too easy. :-) It just seems like in every song that mentions a girls eyes, they're always saying that they're blue. Where's the brown eye love? Brown eyes are nice too! haha

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does this girl laugh at me?

i was out tonight and I noticed one of my friends girlfriends laughing at me for the second time on two separate occasions. she would look at me for a sec, look away and laugh. she was also gazing at me with a half smile...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think "pleather" or fake leather jackets are tacky?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My cliche does he like me question...especially if he treats all girls the same?

i just have no idea how to tell if a guy likes me if he's one of my close friends and treats all girls the same. I know I've heard girls overthink things and guys are straight-forward and obvious but there is NOTHING...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal to cry because you love someone so much?

My boyfriend means the world to me. But sometimes he treats me disrespectfully. But I love him more than anything in the world so I put up with it. He doesn't show me he loves me, he only says it. I've asked him why he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he ignore my texts but answers my calls?

This guy is just a friend, but If I text him he sometimes responds but lately he's been ignoring all of my texts and telling me to call him, and if I call him he answers and returns. Why does he ignore my texts but answer...

justlovely2009

Xper 6 Age: 36

Family & Friends

My boyfriend has baby fever and it freaks me out!

I've been dating him for 2 months and he keeps bringing up having kids or what our kids would be like, etc. I like him, but I' not crazy in love and I'm certainly not ready to have kids with him! What to do?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does this girl keep checking my online dating profile?

So I have an okcupid profile and I exchanged a few messages with this girl a few months ago. In the 2nd-to-last message I sent her, I asked her out. She replied by saying that she was out of town (a few hours drive away)...

larryburns

Xper 5 Age: 39

Boyfriend jokes about hurting me?

My boyfriend constantly makes jokes about hurting me. Slapping me, losing teeth, bloody noses, eyes swollen shut. He's always sizing me up and saying how small, weak and fragile I am, calling this cute. And how I'm the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Coupon book for my sister?

Okay, so my sister is turning 15 next week and I'm broke. I decided to make her a coupon book (it looks easy to make) but... I don't have that many ideas. So far I've got: Do her chores for a week, make chocolate chip...

Loools

Explorer Age: 32

I have Asperger Syndrome and I've never had a girlfriend before?

should I commit suicide since I have bad horrible social-skills? because since Asperger Syndrome is a mild form of Autism, I'm 23 and never had a girlfriend before, obviously still a virgin, and very good social-skills,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think these people deserve such high salaries?

Some famous athletes, entertainers and artists earn millions of dollars ever year. Do you think these people deserve such high salaries? Why or why not?

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

She NEVER mentions her boyfriend?

I have been talking to this girl to find out she has a boyfriend. Me and her flirt all the time, she comes up to talk to me at my locker. When we say bye, she gives me this sexy glare...and it turns me on. It is like...

Slovpeter

Xper 5 Age: 30

She ignores me, but stares at me from afar?

There is this girl I have a crush on. She is really pretty. She is extremely shy. We ate at the same lunch table last year, and we talked as acquaintances. She used to look at me all the time. I started talking to her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he suddenly distant?

To those who don't feel like reading all this, you can just skip to the last paragraph :) My Crush, someone I'm trying (in vain) to get over has been acting quite weirdly lately. Let me explain. We were fairly close. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is a small dead giveaway that a guy likes you?

like what is something that guys do or say to a girl that he likes or if he is around someone he likes?

oh_em_gee22

Xper 5 Age: 32

Ways to spice up a coffee date?

I asked this girl out for some coffee and she said yes, which is great but then I realized sh*t it is a coffee date and I don't have a ton of ways to make it awesome/memorable. Maybe look for a really bohemian coffee...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex wishing me a happy birthday?

My birthday passed a few days ago (November 2) and today (November 4) I received a Facebook message from my ex whom I dated for about 5 months and known for about a year. He broke up with me a year ago after my birthday...

blondediamond

Xper 5 Age: 35

Suggestions on how to seduce a bartender?

So basically I go pretty much every week-end to the same pub and one of the bartenders he's really hot and nice. It's a very popular place, so it's always crowded, and I have no idea how to flirt with him and to engage a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls- body language?

How can I tell if a girl is interested, before ever speaking.. or once I'm talking to her?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Date someone with a bad reputation?

Would you go out with s.o. who's got a bad reputation (e.g. being stupid; being rude; ...)? Doesn't matter wether it's true or not...

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Your opinion on girls with farmer's tan?

Does it really look masculine? :P I don't wear sleeveless a lot and I try to stay out of the sun as much as possible...

neutrals

Xper 3 Age: 34

How do I stop comparing myself to my boyfriend's ex girlfriend?

I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, and before me, he was with his ex girlfriend for a little over a month. My boyfriend and I live in New York for school, but he is originally from New Jersey, and so is his...

xoamjk92x

Xper 6 Age: 33

He's 24 and hasn't had his first kiss yet. How to handle this?

I've been on five dates with this guy now and I really like him. He's really sweet, not to mention cute (!), but also very much the shy type. He wouldn't even touch me in any way on the first three dates until on the 4th...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why DO girls like wearing thongs?

I personally find it sexier to wear girlie panties as well as more respectable. It just seems like slutty or something. Why make it so easy for just anybody to see your ass? Maybe it's just me. I have certain traits and...

Yesman69

Xper 5 Age: 35