All Questions

What makes you special?

Ciioss

Xper 1 Age: 31

I really like my friend but I am not sure about her?

I have this friend that I like like so much We talk and text all the time She opened up to me a lot and I kind of feel that we had this connection She used to entrust me with a lot of her life She was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How normal is it to want a relationship for a number of years before marriage/kids?

I'm 34 and spent my 20s working on building a career/establishing myself financially. Now I want to settle down and first be in a committed relationship for a number of years with a woman before I get married/have kids....

animalwithin

Yoda Age: 36

Relationships

Why don't men usually value physical affection as much as women?

I don't know if it's me but I just want so many hugs and kisses and cuddles throughout the day and I do so in return too My Ex was annoyed by it ☹️ (Not the reason we broke up)

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can you tell pretty Asian women vs ugly Asian women? a lot westerners think we look the same?

What face/body features you think are attractive?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are girls not that great?

I am almost 24. No girlfriend never had one and don’t get any girls wanting to get to know me. I’m not fat, I’m tall, everything’s good. I’m a nice guy and would treat a girl really well. It’s a bummer really....

Anonymous

(25-29)

When girl doesn't replay but you message her again than she replays again and later again dont replay?

So i was looking to add this girl i saw from bumble but i saw this other girl on facebook with same. name and i sent her friend request. We talked and she is from abroad. One day we chated all Sunday and she flirted as...

seth900

Xper 5 Age: 36

If a driver injures or unalives someone in a crash, should it be mandatory they go to their funeral as a part of their bond condition?

I have been watching some Prom and graduation season mock accidents on YouTube where the story line was drunk driving. I was thinking watching that, should drunk drivers have be made to go to the funerals of their victims...

smahala1991

Editor Age: 35

Following a previous question about a woman killing her rapist, if somebody killed a child rapist should they go to prison?

I asked the question whether a woman should go to jail if she calls her rapist. Most people said yes, she should go to prison. I personally think rapist should be killed. So if somebody killed a child rapist, should...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Do you use CHECKS/CHEQUES?

In times in the not-so-distant past, people used checks (cheques) instead of cash, for many things, most notably to pay bills. The use of checks (cheques) has decreased dramatically and now credit cards, online payments,...

AviatorTom

Master Age: 59

Religion & Spirituality

What makes Islamic views different from other religions and what are their similarities?

So, basically, i want to learn what makes Islamic views different and what are similar in the people's own words. Since some people seem to be accusing me of attacking religions, i have decided to word my question a bit...

Gothrocker

Xper 5 Age: 27

Silverware in Dishwasher - UP or DOWN?

There's a long-time debate about the correct (preferred?) way to load silverware in a dishwasher. UP (fork tines up) or DOWN (fork tines down). Which do you do? Please vote in the poll below.

AviatorTom

Master Age: 59

Relationships

Is it wrong to enjoy spending time with a guy, who’s in a relationship with someone else, just because he makes me feel good?

Now don’t get me wrong I’m not talking about having an affair with him, I doubt he’s interested in me like that anyway, but just talking to him makes me feel calm and content. It’s quite weird actually, but I just really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is “gentrifications” ultimately a good thing?

There’s downsides, like forcing low income families out. But does it end up ultimately helping those families? Economically?

OddBeMe

Master Age: 42

What age are men most attractive?

Why? I would guess 30-40 for guys? For girls 18-29?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, What is the difference between hot and cute for you? And what do you preffer/fall for?

Solstraale

Xper 6 Age: 28

Fashion & Beauty

Fashionista Amy (and others), what are your fashion thoughts about micro bikinis?

@Fashionista Amy What are your fashion thoughts about micro bikinis? Especially the bottom piece which just barely covers the pubic area? Are they too explicit?

TadCurious

Master Age: 40

What does it mean when a guy gives a girl a glare?

I tend to find guys looking at me with a weird look like I did something wrong and he’s glaring at me while maintaining eye contact when I pass by them, what does it mean?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

What should I ask to do with this boy?

I play tennis with this boy that I really like and I don’t think he like likes me but I just want to spend more time with him. It’s okay if we’re not dating but I just want to do something with him but something that...

cheekybobastic

Xper 1 Age: 20

Good friend met my crush behind my back?

Hi! So I met a guy a few times. I told my friend about him. Told her also that I liked him - so she knew. We often talk about guys and dates. She's also matched with him, but didn't wanna meet him and wasn't into him....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I make a guy that is physically attracted to me like me?

I know that a guy finds me beautiful, when he first saw me he was stunned and couldn’t take his eyes off me. I don’t know if this is enough for him to like me and want to date me. So many girls crush on him but he tends...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Agree or Disagree: Man decided to stop seeing a woman after she mentioned she was going on another date with a guy right after their date?

coachTanthony

Influencer Age: 55

Would you consider this to be Toxic Femininity?

Women who think other women that enjoy cooking, child rearing, and homemaking are perpetuating stereotyped gender roles enforced by the patriarchy.

SolitarySolace

Yoda Age: 29

Do you think transgirls are 4 times less likely to commit suicide?

Meanwhile Norah Vincent became a transman and has committed suicide.

Unit1

Editor Age: 31

I started hooking up with a guy in September and we have been hooking up ever since nothing serious, just mainly sex and now I’m pregnant?

I’ve known for a while and I’m 12 weeks pregnant and still haven’t told him yet. I’m planning on telling him got my first ultrasound yesterday and everything with the baby is healthy. He already has five kids, and he made...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it considered toxic femininity for a woman to say “When are you having kids?” or “I just don’t see how you can be happy without kids"?

ManInChains

Xper 7 Age: 29

What is the fault of my mum making my rules of dating more limited, and not that I picked some bad guys or got unlucky?

Women with a learning disability and some It is not my fault that I can only date men with a moderate learning disability and it is my mum that always made rules for me when it comes to dating that I can't date any men...

Spatmates25

Xper 1 Age: 28

Health & Fitness

Do you wear thongs during your period?

I wear thongs daily except when I'm on my period.

sheikalana

Master Age: 37

Why do girls say maxi pads feel like diapers?

Why do girls all way say maxi pads fells like wearing a diaper

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did he lie when he said he has no hard feelings for me?

There’s this guy that I like and that I sent a confession text he didn’t reply to and then I met him last week and talked to him about it. He explained to me why he didn’t reply (bc of a contract that forbids him to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Would you take your 15-year-old daughter & 3 friends to mall & pick up hours later OR would you stay "just in case"?

For reference: The girls are mature, none have boyfriends and they're not asking for any $ they have their own from work. Likely shopping, movie, food court - figure about 5-6 hours there.

DrPepper12

Master Age: 53

Do you mind when a girl is a lot shorter than you? like 1ft?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Got into an argument with my boyfriend today, bc according to him "I'm always late for the gym, bc you won't let me leave on time". What should I do?

Whenever he lefts... I find it hard to cope with him leaving. I try stealing some more hugs and kisses... And he is acting very rude and even aggressive (withholds my attempts to kiss him one more time and even raises his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Have you ever literally lost sleep over a stressful situation or issue? If so, what was it that kept you awake?

Only twice in my life. Last night was the second. I don’t like it. Sleep is one of my favorite things in the whole world!

Chazmatazz269

Master Age: 52

Guys When you like a girl do you sence or notice if other guys is into her like if you work with a girl you crush on do you notice how the other guys?

Solstraale

Xper 6 Age: 28

Family & Friends

Is my best friend playing on both sides?

I told my best friend about how a girl in my class I really liked too a toll on my mental health and made me feel terrible. He met her during our Spain study trip and hugged her. What is the possibility of her using him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If your date offers to share their meal with you; would you accept it or reject it?

I’m asking this question because just recently I went on a movie date and offered to share my drink 🥤 with the guy. But he shook his head no and it sorta hurt my feelings. And we never went on another date after that.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Technology & Internet

I don't know what to do?

So I have this crazy niece and she posts about me nonstop, makes fake accounts and messages me and harasses me she has even sent me death threats before. She has brought me to court over lies and even made horrible lies...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Do constant disagreements cause breakups?

I know they don't help anything. But if you are continually disagreeing, it might be that you are not right for each other. What do you think? https://www.youtube.com/embed/ERd0VjJYgpE

Daniela1982

Master Age: 38

How tall is this would you say?

6ft 0.8 inches barefoot. (185cm)

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it painful knowing your baby died through pregnancy?

Akam93

Yoda Age: 32

My friends behaviour is worrying me Is this a sign of mental illness?

So my friend is absolutely obsessed with trees and plants- to the point where I’ve had to stop her from climbing fences and going onto private land to get photos of trees she likes. sometimes she will just randomly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a girl (one of my friend's girlfriend) ask if I think her friend is attractive?

Today, she asked if I thought her friend was attractive. The question caught me off guard a bit, so I just gave a general response, but I don't know if it was just her making a poll, or if there was some meaning behind it!

Vgn128

Xper 1 Age: 20