All Questions

Does he really like the way I look?

There’s this outspoken political guy. Once we had a discussion in class about racism ( I’m a woman of color ) and I basically said that black people face it the hardest and Asians face more micro aggressions and he nodded...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

What do you think this means or how would you take it?

If someone said this to you " Alright give it to me already I'm waiting, your teasing me I'm ready for some of it."?

Inez27

Xper 5 Age: 33

Can the Democrats and Republicans ever agree on anything?

How about they get together and all sit down and have a few beers together? You know, toasting each other and letting bygones be bygones. Work together to make the country Great Again? Just think what determined people...

DubiousIntentions

Explorer Age: 30

Guys, if a female told you, they thought you were pretty, would that bother you? Has a a guy ever gotten mad because you told him he's pretty?

Msputiton

Guru Age: 24

Masculinity Crisis Is coming how do we prepare for a Battle Between Masculinity and femininity?

Readicus

Xper 2 Age: 18

How long is to long to be single?

For both men and women after age 18 Would you think strange

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I am worried about Texas turning into California after getting more people from there. Is that xenophobic or do I have a point?

We have been getting a lot of new people from California and I’m worried they’ll bring their politics with them. I don’t understand why they would move to a conservative state. Why not go to Seattle? Texas is such a great...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Which gender approves most, the consumption of cats and dogs?

In certain Asian countries, humans consume dogs and cats, however many ancient cultures did as well. For example, the Wendat people of North America would consume dogs during ceremony. Some indigenous tribes though,...

HorggleThorp

Xper 4 Age: 26

Why he told others as if he doesn't like me even act as if he's not afraid to leave me but when we both alone, he beg to not leave him?

some people asked him about us. but he just stated that he doesn't like me even tho we're close friend... because we're close friend, he doesn't said he love me. but he doesn't want to lose our friendship. but why he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

“Women are agents of chaos.” Thoughts?

Kingofkings1992

Guru Age: 33

Will a guy who says that he’s not ready for a relationship keep you on the line until he’s ready?

carlyd1015

Xper 3 Age: 22

Do you think it would be rational for people who complain about over population to kill themselves?

There is only one way to cure overpopulation, that is reduce the number of people on the planet. Suicide is one way to achieve this. Talking about overpopulation does nothing to solve the problem. Personally, I don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever asked to borrow something from someone just so you could see that person again?

Like if there was someone that you wanted to see again. So you asked that person if you could borrow something. Just so you would be able to see that person again?

AppleCandyxox

Xper 1 Age: 39

Why would a guy shoot a jealous look when he is already talking to someone?

They aren’t “official “ yet but he’s still talking to someone… is he just being a player he has shown other signs of attraction why shoot a jealous look when another guy talks to me

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I contact OK cupid?

I keep trying to reset my password and nothing comes in my email to reset it.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I know guys are more direct but why do you have to be so rude?

Don't you guys understand that you can be word things without being rude?

Anonymous

(30-35)

If girls mostly perceive you as irritating rather than creepy?

Most girls tend to either be annoyed by my presence or irritated but they never get creeped out Any ideas? Maybe I don't look scary?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Friend with benefits very confusing?

There’s this guy who says we are friends with benefits. he’s very on and off especially after having sex. Majority of the time He texts and says I can’t do the physical side of things , but want to stay in touch with you....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a 4 year difference too much?

What if the guy is 19 and the girl is 23 ? Is it weird? Bad? When it’s the other way around it seems to be more accepted opinions?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think she has had a boyfriend before?

There is this young woman in my young adult singles church group named Lindsey. She is a short, petite girl. She is in school studying to become a Physician's Assistant (PA) and has one year left to go until graduation....

LonelyAndBig

Xper 4 Age: 31

Health & Fitness

I really need help?

I'm going through a rough time with a bad depression. Is there anyone who can talk?

Jmmmfi4

Master Age: 45

My one male boss is good looking and a couple of girls like him and they throw themselves at him? I was wondering in general if guys like it when?

girls themselves at them? No rude comments please.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he start to call me miss does he like me?

There's guy I like there's a attraction from our energy and the way we interact. I always say Hi or thanks acting more interactive and he says hi morning or hi looking happy to see me. His voice always softer with me. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help! why did my crush ask about my friend?

she's been taking time off and he knows but he was telling me he met his friend whos a female and he was telling me about it amd her but he doesn't tell my friend about a girl.. Then he asks me where my friend was even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Food & Beverage

Would you enjoy getting milked?

Anyone can get milked.

Fukaroo

Yoda Age: 31

Why can't I get no apolgection?

When I was little, you know what I had to do at Halloween for candy? I had to work for it -- yeah go to a job. And then, I had to walk two miles to church to thank God for what I had. Most of my shoes had holes in them....

bean2k21

Guru Age: 45

Partners for 6 years, we argued due to my insecurity & I kicked him out cus I felt I needed to at the time, now he can't forgive me, he needs time?

So he wants this time but we haven't been apart our entire relationship but he still cares because topics are sensitive but I don't understand the space needed its now been 2 weeks and i have done many things to show him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

In what setting do you prefer to chat up men or women/find someone to date?

A pub? Nightclub? On the streets?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would a guy who likes you treat you like his girlfriend?

Is that something that guys do?

Anonymous

(30-35)

This guy broke my heart how do I get over him?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy deliberately slow down his speech when talking to me and smile slightly?

Say the smile is slightly amused / thrilled hard to explain. The tone of voice a tiny bit like I’m in trouble but not really. Possibly a flirtatious tone. So hard to explain!

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys ever think about the one that got away?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are newborn babies dying at higher rate than expected? uk people?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/wj4rE0LrpR0 I heard this last year but brushed it off didn't think it was serious but now more and more people are talking about it, happening in scotland , UK people what u think?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Has anyone ever helped you if you got hurt or fell in public?

What happened? It seems that people are likely to help these days

laraWM

Guru Age: 31

Family & Friends

Why does my friend make excuses for someone who did me wrong?

My ex-friend, A, got with my boyfriend straight after we broke up. I'm pretty sure A was texting him during our relationship as well and so we are no longer friends. She betrayed me. I have a mutual friend with A who is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you chat on here with people even if you have a SO?

SO means significant other lol

Jessy06flatters

Xper 6 Age: 19

Other

What achievements are you most proud of?

DenizLikesTennis

Xper 7 Age: 29

Were these male strangers thinking negatively about me or were they attracted?

Never normally notice how male strangers react to me in the grocery store but I did today. The first one gave me an almost murderous death stare and looked angrily into my eyes. Bear in mind I hadn’t done anything. The...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

What do you think about my teacher?

I don't like Satan. I live in a different country and went to college today and my class is fashion brand. My teacher is very modern and supports Satan. 'Brand is a way of worshiping Satan and Luxury brand is a God...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What sort of sexual/romantic relationships make you uncomfortable?

CrisFantazyNFury

Xper 2 Age: 24

Which DRUG LORD is the MOST HANDSOME?

All of these men are considered drug lords by Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drug_lord#List_of_well-known_drug_lords Would you marry any of them based on looks, personality, skill and wealth? Well, you can make...

Bellona

Xper 5 Age: 21

Fashion & Beauty

Does she look like she could be her mom?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Should I take an on call job or wait for my ideal job?

With my degrees, I could get paid a certain amount if I were in a role that required those degrees. How many months should I wait for a job like that before an on-call administrative position sounds appealing, where I...

Bethany22

Guru Age: 31

What does 😟 mean?

We both agreed to stop talking after talking on and off since January. I think in this short time we kind of developed an emotional connection as friends he doesn’t want a relationship and I do. In the beginning I didn’t....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why don't people?

Why don't people think it's important to wait until marriage. Or why are guys kinda dismissive when a girl suggest it?

Wolfynight

Xper 3 Age: 21

Can we get back together after all these years?

Me and my ex broke up 4 years ago due to the fact that he was going to study abroad and we wanted to end it in good terms. So it was like an imperative decision for us. After breaking up we never talked in a romantic way...

Anonymous

(25-29)