All Questions

I told my boyfriend I got him food to make and he said can we eat something instead?

He’s been wanting me to make rice saying how much he loves it i buy the ingredients and tell him I can make it for him very nice and enthusiastic and he says in a monotone voice “can we eat ramen “ then I’m like I got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to comfort your girlfriend when she cries?

My girlfriend cries after we make love. Why does she cry? How can I comfort her?

Countrystar92

Xper 2 Age: 35

Entertainment & Arts

Do You Want To Be A Vampire Or A Werewolf?

yes i leave options 👇🏻

Jason2121

Xper 4 Age: 38

Other

I wanna legally change my name to toilet dropplin?

how do i go about doing this?

Gosceewual

Xper 5 Age: 26

My crush keeps pushing me away. What am I supposed to do?

I have this almost 2-year-old crush. It's so obvious that he's uninterested in me, or is pushing me away for some reason Whenever I text him, he doesn't make an effort to continue the conversation and replies with one...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Who is more shallow in this world: women or men?

If you know your gonna be wrong in your mind and put another answer anyway please stay away don't get defensive... A man who won't date a woman based off of her weight? A woman that won't date a man based off his...

dsgaboy

Xper 6 Age: 44

Girl's Behavior

Does asking what kind of gift a girl wants decrease the joy of receiving it?

I met a girl a few days ago and we’ve become friends. Her birthday is coming up soon but I’m not sure what to get her. Should I just ask her what she wants?

Firerubies

Xper 4 Age: 21

Why is the divorce rate so high for boomer generation?

I was reading an article saying that divorce rates r at an all time low with millennials and gen x and z, mostly because they aren’t even getting married or r making smarter decisions and waiting longer to marry. The...

zed-789

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

Farmers tan. Hot or not?

Or what do you think of tan lines in general? I for one find tan lines (especially bikini tan lines) on women to be sexy. I was curious if women felt the same about guys with different tan lines as well.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Girls, would you be okay with your daughter being named "Sue"? (READ DETAILS)?

Now, for context, one of my goals in life is to have a family. And one of my ideas for my potential daughter's name is Sue. Not "Susan", or some variant thereof; Just Sue. Another thing you should know about me is that...

TomGarand

Xper 6 Age: 28

What’s the craziest thing anyone’s ever done to get your attention?

My best friend had a semi-famous rock star and his band follow her through the halls of her college playing love songs while he asked her out. She had to reschedule her final exam to get away from him (she thought he was...

Gwenhwyfar

Master Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

Miss my ex and stuck in a bad spot?

I'm not sure what to do at this point I miss my ex-girlfriend a lot. It's been a over a year since she dumped me. I've tried everything keeping myself busy, improving myself and working through my issues. I've tried to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Where do you stand on Israel/Palestine and why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think treats, gifts, or presents are a must in a relationship?

Do you think a man should always give something to his girl? Or do you think it should be equal? Do you think a girl should be the one that gives?

yourbabygirl921

Xper 6 Age: 21

Do men randomly change the way they kiss?

My boyfriend recently started biting my lip when we kiss, he has never done that before and never liked it. l when I used to do it. Do men randomly change the way they kiss or something up? 🤔

Anonymous

(30-35)

How is this a gender equality issue?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Opinion! why does the officer want me to meet him talk about my ex when we already discussed?

Like he made phone call to my ex to stop contacting me or he will be done under the harassment offence and 2 weeks later aka today. He emailed me saying he wants to meet and know more info about him when i told him...

Angel_123

Explorer Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Ex girlfriend holding on?

So my ex-girlfriend dumped me for someone else out of the blue. During the break up I told her I would need space and a lot of time, however at that time I didn't know she was leaving me for someone else. She was very...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do senior boys always hit on freshman girls?

They’re literally 18 and looking for colleges, why re they hitting on all the 14-15 yr olds. It’s really weird, I heard other people talking about how it happens in highschool but didn’t actually know it was real until it...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

How do I survive final year of bachelors degree?

I started to hate college since the sophomore year because of unnecessary assignments and rote learning tests. I want to become something which only requires skills, talent and practice. This degree is just a backup plan...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does being called cute by guys mean I'm not all that attractive or relationship material?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Isn't it fun to make someone pantsed or watch this situation? Because I have a lot of fun and enjoy this situation🙈😌?

I'm not talking about childhood memories🥵🙈

Anonymous

(30-35)

What kind of pictures make a good dating profile and what type bio, or qualities do these girls look for?

Like is this not a good bio for guy who wants to find a relationship? http://imgur.com/a/eQU7NX6 I also, like, hiking, baking, reading, and trying to learn Japanese. So, it's not all nerdy things. I do want to try...

poneglyphs

Guru Age: 31

If Israel and Palestine go to war, should America get involved?

Ronald_25

Xper 7 Age: 32

Would you dump your partner if they were depressed?

Just wondering if your partner was depressed would you leave them or try to work things out to make them happy and support them?

Mel2021

Xper 6 Age: 31

Flirting

Are You A Shark Flirt?

https://poly.land/2017/12/14/flirt-sharks-wounded-heart/

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

How do guys act when they are nervous around a girl? or when you like her or have a crush on?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Good Looking Face vs. Height! Which guy do you find most attractive if everything else is equal?

They all have equally great personalities. Everything is actually equal except their height and looks. You'll have to sacrifice height for looks or looks for height. When I say looks, I am referring to the face. You...

Rab1901

Yoda Age: 35

Who's typically more nervous in any part of life: guys or gals?

iseekpinetrees

Guru Age: 35

My ex and I are sleeping together daily as friends, no sex?

After 2 months of not even talking we became “friends” but he’s calling me daily or texting all day and coming over late at night for a movie and sleep over, out of 10 days we sleep 8 together and spend lots of hours...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

I've always attracted stereotypically "hot" men, does this mean I am attractive?

My entire life I've felt always felt like I was unattractive. When I was in elementary I use to think to myself in the mirror that I looked like a "demon child". I started to feel cute as a teen but never ever felt more...

Diaforos22

Xper 3 Age: 27

Do you like adolf hitler?

Lovekurt

Xper 3 Age: 24

Critical Race Theory or actual History?

Granted I never heard of critical race theory until recently, I just read historical non-fiction and knew what was true about America’s sins. Are we too guilty to confront it?

OddBeMe

Master Age: 42

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think it's becoming easier for people to break up then to make up?

Brainsbeforebeauty

Influencer Age: 53

What’s happening with us? I need outside input please?

So I had drunken sex with him a couple of months ago and afterwards just became friends, but he loves to tease me and play fight all the time and stares at me for ages, we have been each other’s #1 friend on Snapchat for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why are females so mean?

Do they lack empathy?

ChefPapiChulo

Guru Age: 34

Is it the correct perspective in your opinion to place the blame on modern feminists for higher divorce rates, lower marriage rates etc?

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

Master Age: 40

Should I work on myself before pursuing a relationship?

I am 32 years old and never have a girlfriend in every sense of the word. I lack confidence, too needy and lots of other insecurities.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Did you grow up in a strict household?

I did, still sometimes have trouble getting through to my dad, he’s very old fashioned, arrogant, easily triggered and religious. I wasn’t allowed to do much as a child or a teenager, I didn’t really go out much, maybe...

Paolaa988

Explorer Age: 27