What makes a classy woman?

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AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

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This isn't directly related, but I was looking through my dance folder earlier to reply to someone else, and I thought you might just enjoy this image.

Your q makes me think of these that answered some time ago.

What does the word "GENTLEMAN" mean for you?

How do you decide if a guy is a gentleman?

Do "nice girls" understand their true powers?

I like your q but I'm not up for a focused, deep, cerebral reply right now. I feel like anything I would say would be redundant and obvious. My TL;dr is that she knows how to carry herself, handle herself. That does not mean she is weak or vulnerable, but, rather, she knows how to use her femininity as her strength. I can't think of an appropriate idiom, etc. right now, but something about how she uses a feather, not a fist (I'm just making that up). A gentle way can actually be quite powerful.

But in general, class is versatility. Not snobbishness, elitism, but not lording one's position, power, money, etc. over others, even when it is obvious to them that there are significant differences. A classy woman never makes other feels inferior (even if/when they are). They are not bombastic, attention-seeking, wanting eyes, or eye smiles, perhaps. I like the idea, very much, of acting how one wishes the world to be, and to be treated. Elevate, don't denigrate.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

She minds her business until people mind hers  She will speak her mind at the right moment and she will be heard  She doesn’t need to be loud or dress inappropriately to attract attention  She has good manners and right conduct  She is street and book smart and is amazing in what she does, that being a mother, a wife, a daughter or a citizen She doesn’t follow the crowd/trend even if it means she walks the road alone  She cries at night but faces the world the next morning with a smile and does her best to seize the day, she’s strong!

Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

I find out that with classy women it's not often about what they do, it's about what they DON'T do that makes them classy.

They don't try to bring attention to themselves, they don't dress provocatively, they don't act disrespectful or try to escalate situations, they don't curse or have tattoos ir piercings or wear unnecessary jewelry. They keep it simple, and don't brag about their looks, value or what they have done career-wise. They are humble yet confident and are capable of noticing a man who is worth their attention. They are not aggressive, but they do have a backbone and can stand up for themselves if they need to, and are not afraid to ask for help from a man when they need help.

What I have just described is the tip of the iceberg, there are plenty of characteristics that you get to observe with time if you are around them and you can usually tell the difference between a classy woman and a chameleon if you pay enough attention.

Massageman · Accepted Answer

Not watching the Barbie movie! Good sense of personal style (not just wearing name brand clothes) ; holds a decent conversation; has respect for others; able to help others without getting taken advantage (of); maintains her priorities to self, family, others, job; expresses her opinions without pi$$ing off others; spends time on improving herself (mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally); would have enough smarts/skills/savings to maintain a decent living standard if her primary means of income disappeared for a year for two; would stop to rescue an injured dog by the side of the road.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

She doesn’t insert herself in other people’s affairs, always has a good sense of priorities, and has a kind and gentle soul.

AviatorTom · Answer

A classy woman is confident and independent, doesn't need anyone to take care of her, but doesn't mind when someone does.

PhantomMenace22 · Answer

Her attitude and demeanor I'd say. A classy lady is confident in her own skin, but not arrogant (doesn't feel the need to gloat about her accomplishments or put down others) kind and empathetic (but not a doormat), intelligent and an independent/free thinker that doesn't follow the crowds or trends, respectful of others' boundaries, personal space, is a good conversationalist, doesn't gossip (or at least minimizes it and puts things delicately)

Zatsuma · Answer

One that doesn't belch, toot, back snort, spit tobacco, smile with no teeth, smack gum, trash talk, talk loud, shows her Karen side, wear clothes that show cracks that should not be legal to be seen and talks in a language that only few understand.
🤔 Think I've been around too many rednecks.

BootsLover94 · Answer

How she carries herself and she doesn't act like this  This is a classy women for example

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Not being a slut (a person who is easy to get in bed or sleeps around), outside of that, nothing.

People like to call others classy based on personal taste in clothing, music, demeanor, language, hobbies, etc, but thats all subjective stuff.

DextroShade · Answer

Fit, feminine, dresses modestly, no thirst-trap pictures on social media, in fact no social media at all or set to private. No tattoos, no piercings other than earrings, natural hair color. Does not curse, is not loud or obnoxious, and doesn't do trashy things like twerking. Cannot be a single mother unless she is widowed.

CubsterShura · Answer

A woman who is well-read and knowledgeable, purposeful, well-mannered and carries herself with great dignity.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Knowing when to speak and when to just mind her business and stay quiet.

Stressyalaire · Answer

How you carry yourself. You know what matters, what's important, you're considerate of others, you show respect, cunning, street smarts

purplepoppy · Answer

One who can squat down on a white rug holding a glass of Burgundy and perform fellatio without ruining the carpet.

Sonorous · Answer

Probably stuff like Beauty, Femininity, Modesty, Charisma, etc.

sheikalana · Answer

Her attitude and behavior. A classy woman is someone discreet, elegant, kind, well put together, modest.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Atheistically that's class.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

Polite Manners Hygiene  Morals Values Dress to impress

strateguy632 · Answer

well mannered behavior is enough to be classy. the lists here i disagree with.

Anonymous · Answer

Central American, Arab, Mexican or SE Asian women. It's the culture. Zero identity crisis, and they know their power, but they don't have to verbally scream it in your face daily. They're comfortable in their own skin.

soe11 · Answer

The background Education Society Behaviour Ethical Outfit

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Her mind does. As for your sample picture - that's only exteriour show off.

Grond21 · Answer

She knows her worth, conducts herself with feminine dignity, and is respectful

Counterclocking · Answer

Her looks and how she dresses. When a woman’s wearing pantyhose with a dress or skirt, she’s dressed very elegantly.

BigDog1989 · Answer

Someone who doesn't parrot everything she hears, just to say shit

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Basically one who isn't a whore. That's the long and short of it.

johnson60123 · Answer

The ability to be mature and empathetic as well as discuss systems, creative things and theories in a non-judgemental and open-minded fashion.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know honestly, being French seems to come up a lot

WhitneySnow · Answer

Dignity elegance kindness

lightbulb27 · Answer

her parents and her brain...

FreyaRed · Answer

Elegance on physical and mental level

slatyb · Answer

Consideration for others.

jwmiller95 · Answer

The way she dresses and how she communicates

virtualwasp · Answer

how she acts

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

If She's not crappy nature.

Anonymous · Answer

Doesn't have a hoe phase/sleep around

Date_a_Snob · Answer

im a classy women

BarryLiverstone · Answer

A female with class

Christoff92 · Answer

Her personality

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Money

Anonymous · Answer

Everything 😍😂

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