All Questions

Why does a man feel the need to call a woman derogatory names?

Almost every time my boyfriend and I have an argument, he calls me names like stupid bitch, chicken head, and sometimes ****. If he loves me like he says he does, how can he allow himself to call me names like that? :(

charbing

Xper 5 Age: 42

Guy's Behavior

Do guys like outgoing girls?

I mean I'm outgoing as I could go up to someone and start a conversation without even knowing their name. I'm confident and I'm also a bigger girl. (working on that part.) I'm shy about some things, but mostly I can talk...

angeltears2010

Xper 5 Age: 34

If my guy friend asks how many kids do I want?

Me and my guy friend were having lunch at his house one day when he asked me if I wanted kids and how many and what would I name my little girl and boy. Why is he asking me this? He also told me he wanted a little girl....

Anonymous

(36-45)

He said, "I feel deeply for you."

What exactly does that mean? I know he likes me, but why would he say this instead of I like you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

How can you tell someone they need to wash their clothes?

they need to wash their clothes becuase they smell like a dead animal.. without offending them? this guy I know wears clothes like this to work, iv actually felt like puking and it disgusts me. iv hinted around but...

ambermarie

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Why do girls always get the short end of the stick?

From answers I have read on this site, guys have no empathy for women who are used by players. So why do so many guys feel bad for "nice" guys that can't get any? Just seems like the male version of the girl taken by a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

He seems interested, but won't make a move?

So I just exchanged numbers with a guy I work with who seems to be really interested in me. He's shy, so I was the one that made the move and asked for his number. As soon as we did, he texted me 10 minutes later and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

How much should a guy spend on a promise ring?

my boyfriend wants to get me one when I go see him next weekend (long distance relationship). He makes 1400 a month and has no bills at all (military). How much do you think would be a reasonable amount to spend? I...

celiabedelia

Xper 5 Age: 31

Are we exclusive? Is it necessary to have "the talk?"

I've been dating a guy for 2 months. He's 47 and I'm 38 if that's of any relevance. He calls and/or texts me every day (not constantly., just once a day usually, which is good). He's taken me out to dinner with some of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Flirting

How do you know if your long distance friend likes you?

He jokes about hooking up with me- but we've been friends for ages (like six years) and see each other only every 2-3 years. He can go like 6 months without talking to me, but then spend his whole work day emailing me...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If you have a dream about a classmate of yours, what does that mean?

While your sleeping if you have a dream of a girl in your class does that mean anything? In the dream we were close, she was sitting on my lap, we were tickling each other, and always hanging out. I'm in college btw

ComputerTech22

Xper 3 Age: 38

What do guys think of a girl's name?

Does a girls name matter to a guy? For instance: I have a gorgeous friend who's name is Agatha, and the guys seriously don't talk to her, then I have a friend named Grace who all the guys love and say her name is "so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Girls: Would you date a guy who hasn't got a lot of friends?

The girl I like is extremely popular. She has got millions of friends and she is very outgoing and popular. I, on the other hand, haven't got many friends and I'm more of the quiet guy. We do have a few mutual friends....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Strong legs on girls?

So what do guys think about muscular and athletic legs on girls? I'm guess I can say I am a typical Brunette with a quite strong legs. I dance a lot, and go jogging quite often + I do some weight lifting, and I'm quite...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Freckles, hot or not?

Guys,do you like girls with freckles?Do you find it attractive or not?Why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like to slow-dance?

it just seems like guys don't like to, as much as girls do.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: Why do you sometimes never take initiative?

Let me explain, me and a guy friend met and flirted for about 5 months. It was clear to me that he liked me however it took me a few months to see him as more than a friend. Anyway, by the end of the school semester, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is it attractive if a girl listens to dubstep?

I listen to dubstep, and as far as I've heard, it isn't the most feminine kind of music to listen to. A lot of people don't like it. I only know a couple of other girls who also listen to dubstep/or who know what it is....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are you still interested in "innocent" women, guys 25+?

It seems that older guys say that they are mostly interested in sexy (in an understated way), confident woman. I was wondering if any of you are interested in having a relationship with a shy, quiet woman who come across...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when your boyfriend lays his head on your shoulder when you sleep with him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Where is the best place to meet Indian women to date?

I have always found women from India beautiful. I also really enjoy the various aspects of their culture. Watching the latest bollywood films is also something I enjoy. There are many other things I have enjoyed, yet...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why am I not enough, why are guys always so difficult?

4 years ago I met a boy at work. He was a couple years younger than me, we became friends. I never considered him as anything else. We flirted & he always made sure to say Hi in the halls of school. Fast forward to when...

danalane

Xper 5 Age: 35

My boyfriend is going through a rough time?

and he's just asked for some time alone.. like not necessarily a break because we're in a long distance relationship, he just wants to just pause talking to me & just chat when he's ready. he barely talks to his friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Can I date a my friend's fling?

My roommate, and now good friend, was involved in a fling last summer for a good 2 or 3 months. I met both her and him after they had ended it, he liked her, but she did not have feelings for him. They are still friends....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

At what point is it OK to call a girl just to talk?

Talk as in have a conversation with them - not just call to arrange a date. Basically, I feel like that's not something most guys would do when first meeting a girl like before a first date even. As you get to know each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it true you write your crushes name on paper?

I have been hearing lots of stories that when girls get crushs/have boyfriends, that later on there writing their potential kids name on paper, and things, and at the same time they practice writing their name and his...

tmlsmurfs

Xper 3 Age: 38

How can I stop friendzoning guys?

I always end up putting guys I really like in the friendzone because I want to get to know them more before I get into a relationship with them. I just had the guy I really like tell me in full detail how he asked another...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls Ask Guys online chat?

Is it just me or are there never anyone on to chat with whenever you log on? That was one reason I got this account

richardssoccer

Xper 5 Age: 33

Flirting

How do you ask your ex boyfriend to hang out without seeming desperate?

Long story short, I started talking to my ex boyfriend again. We haven't talked in a really long time and we were never really friends like he said we would be. (he broke up with me) We hung out in the same group of...

Anonymous

(30-35)