All Questions

Does going out mean you're boyfriend and girlfriend?

This guy I have liked forever asked me to the dance and he said he really liked me so he asked me out. Long story short were going out. Does that mean were boyfriend and girlfriend? Do you have to actually hang out to go...

Qtruong

Xper 5 Age: 34

How do you know if you are deeply falling in love?

It may sound like a dumb question but how do you know? And I mean true love if that even exists. Is there a difference with the feeling you get if you love someone truly and if you have a crush on someone (cause sometimes...

romantiquee15

Xper 5 Age: 36

Ladies, There is no such thing as a single, straight "guy friend". Dudes, back me up here...?

Alright, time and time again, I've tried to prove that some women are naive in the sense that they actually believe a dude, who is actually single and likes women, talks to them because they want to be "just friends". I...

rickjames155

Xper 5 Age: 40

He hit me, but apologized. what to do?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple of years and he has gotten mad at me multiple times but never done anything about it. Earlier today he got mad at me and hit me...he left and then immediately called and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when he teases you in a mean way?

So I have this guy friend who gets along with me very well. He can be a very shy person but he's very open and friendly around me. He is a very sweet guy however, lately he's been teasing me and sometimes even in a mean...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are Asians usually only attracted to other Asians? Or is this a stereotype?

Why do asian guys usually stick with their own race? I've heard this stereotype before, that usually asians only like other Asians. I am white, and usually like Asian guys. The thing is, whenever I tell my friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is a sly way of giving my number to a guy?

i want this guy to have my # and he seems kinda shy, how can I give it him without making it so obvious?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why won't he give me a key to his apartment?

Okay so me and my man have been dating off and on for 3years now! and we are even talking about getting engaged and serious thing like that we love each other to death! The only thing is is I'm always at his place like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy asks you to play with his hair?

I have a guy friend who's my best friend but he's also my recent ex. We've known each other nearly 6 years and dated for 3 of those years (we were friends before we got together). He's currently in a long distance...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys even notice earrings?

I'm almost 19, and I've never had my ears pierced! I was thinking about it...i just don't want to look goth or ghetto lol. What do you guys think? Should I just get them pierced?

RyeLee

Xper 4 Age: 36

Prefered eye color on a guy?

which eye color is most attractive? blue green brown or hazel?

hoagiebear123

Xper 3 Age: 35

When is an acceptable time to confess your love?

I want to know what other people have found to be too soon, or way overdue. A few weeks? Months? a year? I've been with my guy three months now, I think it's too soon but now have to hold back words because of it.

jessica1234

Xper 5 Age: 41

16 never been asked out ?

will guys think its weird if I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend or been asked out before ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend doesn't like me being assertive?

I've been with my boyfriend a little over 3 months and he's always been the one to initiate everything. he's pretty aggressive when it comes to making out and I'm sort of shy because he's my first boyfriend. the times...

sammijessie

Xper 5 Age: 36

Fashion & Beauty

Who is unconventionally attractive?

Give examples of men and women you think are unconventionally good looking.

ash655

Xper 3 Age: 36

Dating

How long was the longest kiss you've had?

I don't know if it's just me but once, I made out with a guy for like 2 hours, it was exhausting man!... so I just wanted to see how long was your longest kiss guys¿?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why Is My Cheating Ex boyfriend calling me?

It's been six months since the breakup and three months since I spoke with my ex-bf. We spent three years together and the last six months of the relationship he cheated on me and then lied about it.. Of course in the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

When boyfriend keeps blowing you off for his friends?

So I have been with this guy for over a year and he claims that he sees me in his future but lately when we have made plans he will blow me off to go hang out with his friends. Or if we have plans to hang out and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I always have to text her but she never texts me first...

There is this girl I like and I know she likes me a lot! I have made an effort to let her know how I feel, I made her a custom t shirt that she just loves, went to her volleyball games when I only known her for one week...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Can a white guy get a Bob Marley tattoo?

Bob Marley is my personal hero. I have been greatly influenced by his music and philosophy so I was thinking of getting a tattoo of him and a quote on my back. The problem is that I am super white, with red hair and...

crabbo7

Xper 5 Age: 35

Does she like talking to me even though she barely says anything on her mind?

Ladies, I am curious about something. There's a girl in my school who often says hi to me before this one class. After she says hi to me, she doesn't really say anything else and I end having to continue the conversations...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend told me I got him whipped and sprung. Should I be concerned about this?

You think maybe he means I spoil too much. I admit, I do spoil him a lot. I fix his bath water and bathe him myself, cook his meals, iron his clothes, wash his hair, massage him every night, give him sex any time of day,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

What should a girl wear on a date to an art museum?!

I'm dating a guy who is very passionate about art, and he wants to take me to an art museum tomorrow. What on earth should I wear?!

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy tries to make conversation...does it means he's interested?

meaning, instead of one word answers...he actually cares to talk more and even ask me for my opinions and stuff... oh, and this is all an addition to eye contact, flirting, being shy, etc the usual...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does he like me or is he just being a gentleman?

If a guy is always opening doors for me, offering to get me things, complimenting me and even walked me home half way across the city [The Opposite Direction from his house!] does he like me? I wouldn't even be asking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Deeper than love?

what do you tell someone when saying I love you isn't enough? it just doesn't touch the true feelings on how much you care for them. when you care for someone like this love, just seems so impersonal and overused. you...

Anonymous

(36-45)