All Questions

Do you ever flirt back out of pity? How do you stop pitying men for reasons like you feel bad theyre desperate for attention?

How do I stop letting pity control my life? I feel pity for many males that try to flirt or "befriend" me or date me so I flirt back or give them attention out of pity. Like this one guy who destroyed my self...

Babygirlsweetheart1

Xper 5 Age: 32

Flirting

What does it mean when a guy calls you “m’ lady”?

so I have a crush that i work with and he’s really nice he complimented my makeup, always asks if I need help, asked where i had been all day when he obviously already knew (that one confused me) and one time he had to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Guy professes his love for me, yet I resist because I am not sure I am attracted to him?

he is an ANGEL, says everything i dream of. on the phone for 5 hours telling me everything hed give me and how he doesn't want to leave me. he’s legit about wanting to make me happy. i’m just not 100 about if i’m...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you changed your views on BLM?

Just seeing all the aftermath of what 2020 BLM rioting had done: More people were killed in BLM riots last year (over 30) than the total number of unarmed black men killed nationwide by police in 2019 (which was 19 total)...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys would you rather date a model or an athlete if you had the choice?

I don’t just mean looks wise but also lifestyle. Say if you had the choice which would you pic and why? Assuming the model is a high fashion model and the athlete is competing nationally and you want a long term...

muscularbumblebee

Xper 7 Age: 24

If vaccines are soo terrible than explain to me why both Smallpox and Polio are no longer a threat?

Read something on history, vaccines wiped out many diseases such as Smallpox and Polio!!!

NorthwestRider

Guru Age: 32

If Black people could have their own land and country do you think they would be better off there than in the USA?

I know people will say black people have Africa. Well to be honest the amount of black people leaving Africa in boats trying to get to Europe is a lot. If you gave black people their own nation to run and build...

ManHater

Yoda Age: 27

Why do certain men find Karens attractive?

The snooty, gullible, ditzy Karen type women that everyone seems to loathe nowadays. Most men of the previous generations typically find them attractive, no idea why. That's beyond me!

Ninjazzed

Xper 7 Age: 26

Why doesn't he believe I'm on birth control?

So my officially newly boyfriend (I've known him a little over a year tho) and I slept together last night and he wanted to come in me and asked if I was on birth control, I said yes and to not worry and trust me... he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Does my friend like my fiance?

My friend talks about my fiance a lot. Asks where he lives, what I got him for Christmas, asked to ride with me to his job etc. She has a boyfriend herself and my fiance is a firefighter and she suggested her boyfriend to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it true: White people can tell who the jews are by looking at them?

Whereas non-whites cannot distinguish jews from whites?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Travel

When You Think of Ankara, Turkey, What is the First Thing That Comes to Your Mind?

Ankara is the Capital City of Turkey (the country, not your Thanksgiving Dinner). The city was founded in 1000 BCE. When I think of Ankara, I think of the song "Holy Mountains" by the band System of a Down.

EnglishArtsteacher

Editor Age: 35

Why are white women less racist while dating than white men?

I've seen many average to beautiful white women dating even below average Indian guys while even beautiful Indian girls struggle to get with handsome white men. Usually the decent enough guys pick Indian celebrities if...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do all white men prefer blondes with blue eyes?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you feel bad for girls that still care about high-school popularity well into adulthood?

emilym12345

Xper 5 Age: 30

What do men think of self dependent women?

Women who don’t rely on men for anything unless their married. I don’t rely on a man for anything unless we’re married. Since , I’m not married this expectation doesn’t exist with any man that I meet. I hear too many...

kc_4308

Xper 5 Age: 37

He hasn’t texted me all day?

So, I’ve been dating/talking to this guy pretty seriously for about two months. He lives a couple hours away, so we’ve only met up for in-person dates twice, but have had several video dates & usually text every day and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Food & Beverage

Have you ever had a date shake?

No, guys, I'm not talking about your date. A date shake is a milk shake made of vanilla ice cream and dates. There are places in the California desert, near where dates are produced, that make them. I haven't had...

Lliam

Master Age: 72

Other

Can a cop shine his spot light straight into your windshield?

Had this happen a while back. I was trying to pull out of my street and a patrol car with no lights on was parked at the end in the dark. Other officers were standing in the grass off to the side talking to the neighbors...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Religion & Spirituality

Do you believe that we go somewhere after death?

Do you believe our souls stay alive after death in some higher realm? Or do you think we just die and that's it? Why or why not?

Kha0tiic_xo

Xper 6 Age: 37

Have you been vaccinated?

So guys and gals, how many of us have been vaccinated against COVID, and why or why not?

willyham2021

Xper 3 Age: 51

Boyfriend went to the movies alone?

Hey everyone, if y'all have any insight on this please do share:) Basically, my boyfriend had plans to go to the movies with his friends because this new movie came out that everyone wanted to see. I wanted to see it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some guys grow cold to girls they supposedly like?

Long story short. I’ve known him for about a year, he’s expressed romantic interest in me and that he cares for me. I’m very sweet, flirt and cute with him. But he’s going through a hard time with his family, so I backed...

Violeteyes21

Xper 2 Age: 26

Do you agree with this statement: An Asian is incapable of leadership?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

When was the last time you were scared shitless?

exitseven

Master Age: 55

Education & Career

What to wear for Walmart job orientation?

I recently just got accepted for a position at my local walmart. Does anyone know if you’re now allowed to wear classic Lululemon black leggings? I was recently in my local Walmart and noticed a few employees wearing...

crazycactus242

Xper 5 Age: 21

Guys, what do you look for • find attractive • or turn on for first dates?

bobalife

Guru Age: 35

Technology & Internet

Do you think men troll people by making fake girl accounts?

MichelleMendez42

Xper 3 Age: 30

Relationships

Is it true masterbating is healthy for you?

I was having a conversation with a somewhat strange but kind man last night and he told this to me. I’m still not sure. It’s like when someone says they’re not hungry but then ask for your food.

Dinosaursandanime65

Guru Age: 18

Ladies, "pretty" boys yay or nay?

I'm always referred to as a "pretty" boy but I feel a lot of women aren't attracted to that. Why so?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Leave or stay with him?

My ex that I have gave now 3 chances with still remains on keeping his best friend who is a single woman in the picture. We got into a argument last night and he answers her phone call and talks with her. I was not around...

Blaaam87

Xper 5 Age: 38

Did French-Canadians steal the US election?

Americans voted for Trump. English-Canadians voted for Trump. And although Europeans and Australians are not in North America, they would have all backed up Trump. Quebecois people voted overwhelmingly for Biden....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you guys always look down a girl's shirt if you can? Even if there is a chance of getting slapped?

Here is a point of view if you looked down my shirt today 😂

Anonymous

(18-24)

Are black people becoming extinct?

I noticed that full blooded negros are becoming rare. I see lots of full blooded Caucasians, Chinese, Arabs, and even Hispanics. But I rarely see full blooded blacks. Most of them are biracial. And those biracial blacks...

MrCapricorn1995

Xper 5 Age: 30

Fashion & Beauty

Where is the best place to get revision rhinoplastu?

I flew from Canada to Korea to get it done but the plastic surgeon did a terrible job. My nose looks too big and fake and the implant is protruding through and almost poking through my skin. I had a implant inserted to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy kept talking about I m too good for him?

So there is this guy I like and we have confessed feelings for each other but it’s tricky situation and he is not available for a relationship now. But he kept asking me about my plans and ask me if I went on date with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Trending & News

Is being a sugar baby a safe and easy way to make money and be successful?

Sugar babies have been getting really popular lately and some people are saying it’s safe and easy money while others are saying it’s unsafe. What’s your opinion on sugar babies/sugar baby life and do you think you can...

doopayo

Yoda Age: 20

Is it rude to bring up a friend's ex when meeting their new partner?

My boyfriend (38m) and I (37f) have a respectful and straightforward understanding that neither of us enjoys discussing or hearing about each-others' exes - both of our past relationships ended on bad terms, and neither...

Hellisia

Xper 3 Age: 44

Guys, would you date a girl you're not attracted to just because you're lonely?

This guy and I don't have much chemistry although we have some things in common. He never shows that he actually likes me or compliments me, and we slept together. Is he dating me just because i'm a girl and he's lonely?...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should men focus on their purpose between age 18 to 30 instead of chasing women?

I feel like I’ve been wasting my time focusing on women.

CantGetItUp

Xper 5 Age: 30

I saw a girl today staring at me directly at me what should I do?

First of all the girl that was staring also smiled and I broke eye contact it was creepy as heck. I know a lot of you guys are going to butcher me for this but I also wanted to add I have insecurities of being around...

lonewolf2233

Xper 2 Age: 24

Guys opinion; what is better, a great face, or a great body?

I'm not talking about an ugly body or ugly face. I just want to know which guys would prefer on an attractive girl.

snowboardbroad

Xper 4 Age: 27

Do you agree that “women don’t care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners”?

Do you agree with this statement?

CantGetItUp

Xper 5 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

What's one question you would ask your ex?

Something I saw just triggered a memory of a mean thing my ex said to me when we were young. The question I would ask her is "Why did you marry me you fuckin asshole?" Like I think she was always jealous of me and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it a bad idea to work at the same place as your friend with benefit?

I met this guy at a store where he works and he and I hooked up once. We aren't in a relationship and we are only friends. Would it be a bad idea to work at the same place that he works at?

Anonymous

(36-45)