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Why did he kiss me goodbye after I broke up with him?
My boyfriend and I just broke up, so I guess he is my ex. we mainly broke up because the timing was off, we are both in college and just super busy. anyway, as I was ending the relationship, he kept kissing my forehead...
Is she just nervous?
There is a girl I have been seeing around my apartment complex for a few months now. We both are constantly making eye contact with each other from far away but have not spoken yet. Whenever I get close to her she looks...
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Is he bad at texting or not interested?
From my experience, women like to text much more than men do. Which is consistent with communication in general. Women like to tell long stories while men prefer short concise stories.
What do you think of the red pill community?
Pearl is either the saddest pick-me who’s ever lived, or the most desperate grifter who’s ever lived. Can’t decide, but some her views, especially about underage little girls, is pretty sick. Fresh n Fit are toxic and immature. Teenage mentality on steroids. And I don’t watch too much of...
How do I speak to my crush?
Never too late. Just smile at her and say hi. Make eye contact. Make conversation about the subject in your class.
Should I just gave up and be more realistic :(?
So, I've had a crush on this guy since college. It's been a year since I graduated, and I don't run into him much, but I know he hangs out at this specific library because every time I go there, he's there too. The thing...
Why was this girl weird with me?
I was a resident assistant in college. I had a supervisor who was pretty cool at first, but changed towards me ever since I didn’t want her to take me to the store on day because I already had a ride lined up with my...
Why does my friend defend her toxic boyfriend no matter what?
One of my best friends is in a toxic relationship. I know it's none of my business, but she calls me crying ever so often telling me he hit her or confiscated her phone. So she makes it my business. Her boyfriend has...
How to make my boyfriend feel loved?
He says that he doesn't feel special. I think I do everything to make him feel loved. I spend time with him, listen to him, cook for him. What else should I do?
If a guy tells you this would you take it as a good thing and feel special? or feel as though he’s gassing you?
If you get along well with a guy. The two of you converse well. The vibe/energy is natural and not forced. You guys can talk as if you’ve known one another for years. The two of you have been out on a date but he...
Should I text my ex happy birthday?
Hey everyone, so My ex and I broke up a month ago because she lost feelings for me and I begged once and then left her alone after that she contacted my out of the blue sometimes and we last talked on 25 April where she...
How do I know if my boyfriend is losing feelings?
Maybe I’m just worrying too much or I watch too many romance movies but I’ve been feeling quite sad about how my relationship has been going. He used to tell me everyday that I’m beautiful and say and text cute things. He...
Why does he want to go to the spa with me?
A guy I’m dating invited me to join him to the spa to go swimming or to the sauna. He goes there alone quite frequently. Is he afraid that I’m fat or that I look ugly without makeup? I really don’t want to go
Staying in touch with my crush?
Hi everyone, I am now friendly with my crush. He saw us at a party and began speaking to us. Now him and I say hi when we pass each other in the hallways. When I saw him out he gave me a hug and spoke to me for a while....
Why did he bend down?
I was talking with a guy and we were facing each other - and in the middle of conversation he picks up a transparent plastic wrap that was dropped on the floor - so I wondered what he was doing as he just bend down while...
I think my boss with a boyfriend might like me or I could be completely wrong?
i think my boss might like me but everytime i think that with a girl i'm misinterpreting the signs so i'm here to ask if there's anything. here are the "signs" i thought might signal interest: -she once came up to me and...
What’s the most romantic thing that anyone has ever done for you?
One of my exes wrote me a romantic poem when we were in our mid twenties. That’s probably the most romantic thing, that anyone’s ever done for me.
Likes me as a ‘friend’ but giving more attention that usual. Help?
Recently got rejected by a guy and we decided to stay as friends. It’s weird though because it appears we have gotten closer - they initiate more, down to hang, makes me decide things for them. Never fails to talk to me...
Girl does she like me?
Yeah i and this girl are coworker, so one day we become friends, yeah i fell for her She actually mention she is single to me when we in conversation , yeah i didint take a chance because a reason i can't tell So later...
My Husband's Best Friend Told Me That He's In Love With Me. What Should I Do?
To start off, I'm really uncomfortable talking about this but I need some real opinions or guidance please. And my family here on GAG never lets me down. Soo... My husband seems to be blind to his friends' intentions....
Why would a guy say this while flirting?
A guy I have a thing for has done it several times now. If I’ve (jokingly) said something like “I’m perfect” or “I’m cute” - he will say something like “I’m not responding to that” or “I’m not going to comment” What...
Crush is acting different/strange?
Last year, my crush (let’s call him Ryan) found out I liked him at the start of Term 4 (second half of second semester) Year 10. Our mutual friend (let’s call him James, who knows I like Ryan) told Ryan that he knows...
How do you tell someone you're no longer interested without hurting them?
For 3/4 years i had a friends with benefits with a international footballer. When he was in the uk we would hook up in his hotel and go and do things together. So it's was actually a friendship. When he would be back...
If a girl likes a guys picture does that mean that she likes him?
Especially if he's one of those tall guy types.
Why would a guy who's been interested in me for several months suddenly tell me out of the blue that he's married?
I never asked him about his personal life it's actually him who's always asking me personal questions like where I've studied, where I live, who's in my family, my likes, dislikes etc. He was the one who initiated...
Does he think I’m a gold digger?
I Was talking to this guy and kept asking about his profession. He responded with « I understand you’re trying to get to know me but I the vibe doesn’t feel right due to the fact that you’re asking me all these questions...
Why did he block me after no contact?
He said something that made me think he wasn't as interested in me as I was him, so I naturally just didn't message as much. He was interested just not to the extent I was so to protect myself I started weaning myself off...
Why does my guy friend avoid me after making flirty jokes?
My guy friend has always been a bit flirty with me but lately more than ever. He send me a gif with an enamoured duck and told me he needed more of me which I commented was cringe. He kept flirting for a bit until I shut...
My ex wants me to be cool with her new boyfriend. How should I deal with her?
So basically we spent 16 years together, since we were teenagers. We have a 12 YO daughter. By the end of the relationship both of us wanted out because I held on to grudges for too long and she could just bounce back...
How to deal with a friend who dismisses you?
I have a friend who would always dismiss whatever I say when I talk about improvement techniques. Heck, this happens with some other people I know too. Then later down the line, this same friend/person would suddenly...
How can I use body language to show interest to a crush?
I've decided to finally talk to her , how to drop some signs? Thanks
Why are men like this around me?
There was something going on with a car, I looked at the car and then suddenly stared at the guy, so I didn't expect him to notice me. He stared back so I looked away to make it seem like it wasn't about attraction....
Why does my boyfriend keep messing with my feelings?
Me and my boyfriend haven’t been together very long maybe like 1 month or so, but I feel like us getting into petty arguments isn’t normal and usually it’s usually him that gets mad at me. I’ve tried to talk it through...
Is it normal for a guy to believe there should be ''no kissing before marriage''?
This is a Christian guy in his early 30s and he believes that it is better not to kiss before marriage. Isn't is so ridiculous? I don't know how to react? Have you ever experienced such a flirting or relationship process?
Why does my boyfriend get upset?
I texted my boyfriend to let him know that I ran into one of my ex boyfriends and he followed me around in the store. I obviously left because he wouldn't stop trying to talk to me. I let my boyfriend know and I think he...
Is he being too much from the second day of talking stage?
So I met a guy on a dating app, and both of us are looking for a serious relationship. We're just in the talking stage (2nd day) and we're currently in different states but he expects me to be exclusive to him already-...
Should I keep pursuing a girl who didn't clearly say no?
She accepted to go out with me, but then she said no, then yes again, and then no again. She says that it's not the right time for her. Should I ask her out again later or move on? I still think there might be a chance...
He comes in my workplace but doesn't bothered to say hi. What does it mean?
So dont know what to do or think about the situation. I had I guess what you can say a situationship with a coworker (now former). About two weeks later he got into a relationship. I transferred to a new location. Ever...
Do I have a chance with this guy? Is what he did considered cheating?
We both train muay thai. I'm single, the guy I like isn't, he's got a long time girlfriend - I did try to forget him after learning that, it sort of worked - but then last Friday night happened - an anniversary night out...
I never truly got over a girl. I have never found any other woman as attractive as her. But she's gone, married. Should I give up?
It's been 3 years since she got married. And I hadn't thought about her in a while. But since last Valentine's day, she's been on my mind constantly. And I've realized I never got over her. I just keep comparing every...
How to avoid feeling worthless and avoid falling apart because he’s more attractive than me?
He’s a few years younger than me but works harder than me. I’m actually putting him in a pedestal because he’s a very attractive guy. He’s perfect. I’m not that attractive and the only reason why I think he keeps...
Why does an adult man looks at me up and down my body?
I know a grown man who I really like. But I had the feeling that there was someone watching me, that is him, and so I decided to make a film in which he secretly observed my body from head to toe. I honestly would...
Help me I feel insecure?
I feel so insecure about falling in love with someone. I get a lot of feelings like, Girls might only love me for money (since i dont see myself as handsome, i am darkskinned so i have been made to accept by everyone...
Is this love? Should I marry him?
So my dad saw me at his home 6 months back and hit my boyfriend coz he thought we both had sex and my dad said him to have sex with me after marrying me. Now after this, my boyfriend stopped having sex with me since 6...
How to stop feeling like I always date guys who are out of my league?
I can’t stop force myself to stop doing it, But I also can’t stop feeling that way.
Do you think weed and mental health issues can ruin relationships?
So I'm 32 and my partner is 35. We have been together 9 years. Before we got together he was heavily smoking it but was all great to start with then its like over time it's changed. I'm not the biggest fan of it but I...
Should I date her?
I'll be honest, I met her on Onlyfans. She told me she is closing her account because I am her only sub anymore. She and I have been talking outside the app for about a year now. She started it because of financial...
My best friend doesn't talk to me anymore, because he suspected that I fancy his unrequited love?
My friend was in love with this woman, trying to seduce her during almost 2 years. She wasn't seduced and she actually didn't tell him early enough that she was in a relationship, so the poor guy was terribly in love with...
Is she disrespecting me or just not inm?
So I've sleeping with this girl for a few weeks and we literally have sex with each other out of stupidity and convenience. We basically play a couple who hate each other. Her signature move is effortlessly destroying a...
What to do when you accidentally run into your EX?
Recently, my SO and I went to dinner at our favorite restaurant. We checked in with the hostess and were told we had a 15-minute wait. While waiting, a woman I dated several years ago, after my divorce, walked in with her...
Why is it that I never had a guy truly interested in me?
This really does get to me at times. I feel so detached from everyone, don’t feel pretty or confident anymore just let down & feels like a big waste of time trying with people when I know they wouldn’t even like me. I...
What does it mean when a guy says he doesn't want to lead you on but wants to make you happy and he can't let me go?
likei tried breaking things off but he argued me back to pull me back in but constantly says he doesn't want to lead me on i think he is a narc , and i have been loved bombed for past 2 years we aren't even in a...
My girlfriend went for a prom night date with one of her classmate, what should I do?
My girlfriend said that she will be going to a prom date with one of her male batchmates and she went there. I did not thought much about this because at first because I thought it will be ok if she goes with her...
What does it mean when a man says “I want you here.”?
We have been on 3 dates. Have not had sex yet.
Is he just a nice guy or showing interest?
I have been asking and trying to get advice about my recent gym interest. There’s this guy I have found attractive for a very long time and a few months ago he sparked up a conversation with me about my knee that I...
Is she interested and should I ask for her number?
I like a girl who works in a retail store and I’ve spoken to her before when I first met her and I introduced myself and she told me what her name was too, which was a few weeks ago and then saw her today which was nice,...
How do you tell if a japanese man is interested in you just a little bit or a lot a bit?
I met this man online who is from Japan. He has lived in the US for a few years and we go to the same christian college right now. I've heard various things about Japanese men being shy but also straightforward so I can't...
How can I figure out how my friend feels about me without ruining our friendship?
I have known this guy for a few years but for the last couple of months we have really spent a lot of time together (shared hobbies) and have texted every day with very few exceptions. This just suddenly started and has...
Guys, Why is it so hard for my male friend to accept my help without feeling guilty that I do too much?
He helps me all the time, in fact goes out of his way to help me. So to even things out I try to be helpful myself wherever I can in an attempt to keep things fair. Why should he spend all this time and effort helping me...
Girls, How to tell the difference between implantation bleeding and period?
Im 7 days late to my period which isn't normal for me and i am having some bleeding that ranges from red to pink to brown. im typically a heavy bleeder on my periods but this is way light. im having mild cramping and hip...
How do I get with a shy girl?
So, the girl that I like works at this restaurant that I go to with my friend. When we first went there, she was a hostess, and she was very warm and sweet in our first interaction. I immediately felt attraction towards...
What do I do if my closest friend stresses me out with his insecurities?
They don't admit to their insecurities, and they ask me to be honest which I do, and always do to relieve any misunderstandings. But I sometimes feel like I am always doing something to trigger their insecurities. I mean...
Why my friend feels the need to explain himself?
I have been a friend with this guy for the past 2 years. Last week, we caught up with some friends over for dinner. We liked each other but we never spoke and he chose to date someone else from his workplace. I respected...
Why would a guy be different around you after telling you he likes you?
I’ve got a guy friend at work. Basically we saw each other out at the weekend and we were both a little drunk. I told him I have feelings for him and he said (albeit reluctantly) that he feels the same way but he can’t be...
My older cousin from a different country thinks keeping in touch means texting everyday and all day, how do I get this to stop?
She will ask me why I don’t text her quickly constantly and it’s driving me insane. She is 45 doesn’t she have a life of her own
Guys, if a man ignores me, does that mean he isn’t interested?
A guy I kinda have a crush on at the gym I noticed was looking at me a few times, but now he kind of ignores me but you can tell it’s intentional. Not sure if he is no longer interested or if he just doesn’t like me? I...
If I am overweight, and have high blood pressure, does that necessarily mean there something seriously wrong?
I'm 30, 5'9" and 212 lbs. I was put on a medication a couple of years ago. Abilify, and fluaxitine (I really doubt that's how they are spelled) and I was told it could cause weight gain. I think I my weight was about 165...
Very different signals from a girl in a just few days?
Hi guys , I'd like to have an opinion about this situation with a young girl (she is 29, I'm 43 ), I'll try to be very schematic : - I met a girl at a public gathering with other people - This girl is very outgoing...
This guy I like stopped liking my insta stories?
So there’s this guy i like he always used to like my insta stories but then he stopped he still views my stories very fast and never misses one, we chat sometimes and i’m not cold i give and take but I don’t know why he...
Do you think the way we eat things should change?
If people have to shit what they eat that means they take more than what they need in body. That shit is something extra and what the body doesn't need probably bad for us. The fact is there are unhealthy bacterias in...
Do you think I should slide in her DMs?
I've been following this girl for a while. Never met her. So pretty. She sometimes likes my stuff. Looks single. Should I slide in her insta dm? If so what do I say?
Hi, was my guy friend flirting with me?
Hi! I have this close guy friend I started off as coworkers with we still work together but we’re both planning to quit soon. He’s called me pretty multiple times. He got a stick shift car and was showing it off to me, I...
Why would a guy immediately avert his glance when our eyes met while he was talking to me? It’s happened twice and he fumbled his words both times?
There was another time he was talking to me and I was looking down trying to scrape a sticker off a counter.. he kept trying to get me to look up at him.. saying ‘huh?’ When I know he heard me, like he wanted to make eye...
How can you help a parent struggling with addiction?
Growing up is always been difficult not really even knowing what the problem was I just knew that things would go missing in the house and all of a sudden my parents would go missing. Now I just have all this anxiety of...
Can I get my ex back?
Can I still get my ex back? My boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. He said he didn't love me anymore and we have no future together. He also said to have no hopes of us coming back together ever again. I begged...
Guys, was he interested?
I was walking on a trail and the guy in front of me I noticed he turned around and saw me and it just got awkward. He would even stop, look back, then quickly keep walking. I could tell he was wanting to turn around but...
What do you do when you are missing someone important in your life? What would you do if they just disappeared from your life?
This could be anyone that is important to you.
Do you think he actually is sorry and that he finally realized something?
2 months ago when I was sick and couldn't pay my medical bills and my apartment rent, I asked my boyfriend to help me out and he declined and said that I was stupid cause I didn't save enough and called me a gold digger...
How to know if a man is ready to move in?
My long distance boyfriend wants to meet and then move in together right after, how would I know if his really ready for that commitment or if he'd regret it once it's done, it's different countries and he'd have to...
Why would an ex unblock you?
My ex boyfriend and I broke up 7 months ago and went into no contact. Neither of us blocked each other on messaging apps though. Then around 3 months into no contact I noticed I had been blocked by him on what's app,...
I (female) just got friendzoned by a man - now what?
The situation is as following: I am befriended with a man (since about a year). And we hang out once a month. There is undeniable mutual attraction. He kissed me once and you can feel the chemistry between us. However...
Experiences on dating men with a very low self-esteem?
Hi all, I'm a straight woman in 30s and 2 weeks ago I started dating an ex collegue of mine, we used to work for the same company 7 years ago but we never actually met each other. We matched on Bumble and that's how it...
How do I deal with a passive aggressive coworker?
I have been in my job for only two months so I’m still new to the role and learning. I have completed most of my training but there’s still some procedures I need to learn. I have noticed that one of my coworkers who is a...
He has good news to share. You’re not one of the first to get it. He does tell you, but not one of the first. Is that telling of his priorities?
For example, yesterday he was somewhere with his daughter and something awesome happened for her. I was maybe a good 20-30 minutes down the text chain from the first person he told. Last year at this time, I wouldn’t have...
Is he flirting with me?
Invited a guy friend and a few other friends to hangout and watch a movie at my place. The guy friend and I know one another but we’re not that close to hang out 1 on 1. But tonight while watching the movie, he was...
Does this guy like me or not? We texted everyday and we did meet up early on and "get it on". But he says he is too busy to meet yet texts me a lot?
For 4 weeks he would text me from getting up at 5 or 6am all the way to 10 or 11pm before sleeping. I got quite attached to him but he only says "I wouldn't talk to you if I didn't want you in my life" as a response back....
Do I have the right to be mad if my boyfriend has re-followed a girl on Instagram who keeps trying to break us up?
For context: This girl has messaged him multiple times knowing that he's in a relationship with flirty messages, and we've even accidentally run into her in public and she will try and make moves on him while ignoring me....
Confused on what to do please read?
I cheated on my girlfriend and am continually trying to fix it and respect when she wants space but one day she will tell me she wants to try and the next day she says I don't know and I’m confused on what I want to do...
I Need Advice for Outing With Guy Interested in Me?
I want to take my classmate somewhere out on a friendly date but I think he has a crush on me. Is it a good or bad idea to wear revealing clothing?
Can you give me some advice please?
My ex and I broke up not long ago. He's been giving me lots of stress since the beginning of last year because of things he's been through. We both love each other a lot but he said there are things he has to do and...
What should we do to celebrate our ANNIVERSARY?
Our anniversary is coming up, the day when my SO and I moved in together, 7 years ago. In years past, I've bought her flowers and we've gone out to dinner on our anniversary, typically to a restaurant of her choice. She's...
Should I be worried he hasn't texted me?
I'm probably overthinking this but my crush has been texting me every day for hours for the last couple of months. Today he hasn't said anything all day but i've seen him online on instagram for a few hours today so i'm...
How can I improve my V-line next to my sixpack abs? Do you have any exercises to improve the side muscles?
Here you can see my abs / sixpack /physique. Do you know any exercises to improve my v-line? What would you improve besides that?
How common is it for a 34 year old lady to be interested in a guy in his early twenties (please read description)?
There is this community group online I had joined and this lady was in the same group. Few days ago me and her happened to be in the same city and she had asked me to meet her. We had an hour long meet and she was very...